"Mom wants you to tell someone you like if you have one. Maybe he already has a girlfriend, or maybe he doesn't like you like this and will reject you, but at least you already know the result, you will put your mind at ease, no longer have to think about it all day long, disturb your heart for his business, be brave, and don't leave regrets for yourself. You have to take good care of yourself so that you can meet the person you are destined to be in your best state. Don't be sad if you can't meet someone who can accompany you for the rest of your life, it's not necessarily bad to live alone. It is very painful to die alone rather than marry and share a bed with someone you don't love. If the end result is unhappiness and divorce, it is better not to get married in the first place. ”

"Mom wants to tell you, whether in study, work or life, you must not say what others say behind their backs, even if others say bad things about others in front of you, when asking for your opinion, you must remain silent, once you just nod in agreement, it is very likely that in a few days you will become the main messenger who says bad things about others, and become the target of everyone, and you are not a person inside and outside. Don't hurt other people's self-esteem, give them respect, you live, just shine yourself, don't blow out other people's lights. ”

"I hope you work hard to make yourself better, so that the people who have hurt you and looked down on you can't climb high. Hurt can make you grow, time can make you strong, and a lyric that my mother likes very much is given to you - [The wound you have suffered grows into a scar and blooms into an incomparably beautiful flower]. The world may disappoint you, but I hope you will not be disappointed in yourself at any time. You have succeeded and failed, you have reached the peak, you have struggled in the abyss, you have been happy and you have suffered, you have laughed and cried, you have been rich and poor, you have been praised and slandered, you have achieved brilliant and colorful paintings on the blank paper of life, and you have gained much more than those who have not been injured and have been smooth sailing. You've experienced what they've been through, and you've experienced what they've not. In the face of every setback, I hope you don't run away from it, take it as a kind of training, a kind of practice, and you will definitely get through the darkness, because dawn will be the last reward for those who persevere. ”

"You can be healthy, work smoothly, and have a harmonious family, which is my mother's greatest wish. A woman must have five things, the self-confidence on her face, the kindness that grows in her heart, the backbone that melts into her blood, the domineering that leaks from both sides, and the strength that is engraved into her life! The ability to love oneself as well as the ability to love others. May your life be as free as the wind, without worry, and may you be happy in this life, without wasting your time and leaving no regrets. ”

Moderator: "Thank you, Ms. Yang, for coming today, do you have anything else to say to your female friends in the world?" ”

Yang Sumei: "I hope you will study hard when you are young, find your dreams and strive for them. I hope you work hard, work hard to earn money, don't spend money randomly, save money to protect against accidents that may occur in the future, only the higher the balance of your bank card, the higher your sense of security will be. Don't rely on others, don't pin your hopes on others, you must believe in your own ability, exchange labor for payment, [independence] is a woman's best state. Instead of thinking about how to please others, you should seize the time to improve your abilities. Go for it! Girls! Although we cannot be the best people in the world, we can achieve the best version of ourselves in this life. We have to take good care of ourselves, be kind to ourselves, hone ourselves, and believe in ourselves. As a woman, please live for yourself, and as a woman, please be proud of yourself! ”

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