After Luo Huihui listened to Xu Yongnian's words, she looked at him suspiciously, frowned and asked curiously, "What good way will you have?" ”

If it's not a very important thing on weekdays, he has always listened to himself, how can he have an idea now?

Thinking of this, Luo Huihui's face sank, and she said with a stretched face: "Honestly, are you thinking of any way to help make promises?" ”

The corners of Xu Yongnian's mouth twitched fiercely, and sure enough, the person who knew him best was Huihui. I used to feel quite comfortable, but now he doesn't feel like this anymore, alas! She knows herself so well, it's not so easy for her to lie to her.

He pretended to be calm and said to her, "Look, what are you talking about?" Am I that kind of person? Didn't we say it before? I leave the promised things to you, and I don't interfere. Didn't I just see that you were so worried? That's why I want to share some of it for you. ”

"Then you should tell me what you think, you'd better not lie to me, otherwise you'll ......" Luo Huihui's words were not finished, but Xu Yongnian understood what she meant very well.

Xu Yongnian smiled and waved his hand: "Huihui, we are husband and wife, why don't you believe me at all?" ”

Luo Huihui raised her eyebrows noncommittally, since he said that he had ideas, then he just listened to what he had to say.

"Didn't you just want to say something? You say, I'll listen. Luo Huihui sat down next to him as she spoke, she wanted to see if he really wanted to share the burden for herself, or if she wanted to help the girl.

Xu Yongnian cleared his throat and said to her seriously: "I have always felt that reasoning with Xu Promise can be explained, but you didn't find the direction before." ”

"Okay, don't go around in circles with me, just say anything you want." Luo Huihui waved her hand, now she wanted to know what kind of method she should have, as for other things, she didn't want to think about it so much.

Xu Yongnian said to Luo Huihui with a smile: "If you may not like it very much, just now on the attitude of you and Xu Promise, don't say it's her, even I don't like it very much." ”

"Didn't I already tell you before, I want to talk to her well? But you didn't take what I said to heart at all, otherwise you wouldn't have such a headache now. ”

Xu Yongnian coughed twice, and then continued: "My idea is also very simple, that is, to outwit!" Nuo Yatou is a very assertive girl, so if you ask her to do this and that so strongly, she will definitely not listen to you. I think you should do it another way, like be friends with her. ”

"Be friends?" Luo Huihui's eyes widened and she looked at Xu Yongnian with a shocked expression.

Did he say it wrong? Or do you have auditory hallucinations? Isn't it really a joke to make yourself friends with the promise?

As soon as Xu Yongnian saw his daughter-in-law's expression, he probably guessed what she was thinking.

He patted her hand and gently persuaded, "Huihui, don't get excited, listen to me." The best solution for many things is to empathize, think about what kind of way you want to communicate with yourself if you are a promise and she is you? ”

"So, as long as you figure this thing out, then the other things won't be difficult."

Luo Huihui frowned and didn't say a word, it seemed quite reasonable to hear him say this. But when she thought of her current relationship with Xu Yue, she sighed helplessly.

"That's a good thing to say, but it's basically unlikely." Luo Huihui shook her head as she spoke, not to mention whether she could pull down this face, but with her understanding of the promise, she was not such a foolish person.

She doesn't give herself face now, let alone give herself face in the future; Since she doesn't take herself seriously, why should she hold her? What's more, she is still her mother, where is there a mother who accommodates her daughter?

As soon as Xu Yongnian heard this, he was anxious, and hurriedly asked, "Huihui, why is this impossible?" You just have to remember what you're going to do. Most of the time, Nuo girl eats soft and not hard, so if you really want her to listen to you, then you have to be patient. ”

Patience? How else can I be patient? The corners of Luo Huihui's mouth hooked up a mocking smile: "Xu Yongnian, didn't you see what she did to me before?" Do you think she still thinks I'm her mother? Still listen to me? ”

Xu Yongnian sighed, promising that he also saw Huihui's attitude in his eyes.

"I know you have some grievances in your heart, but for the sake of your daughter's happiness, don't you have to endure it?" Xu Yongnian patted Xu Promise's hand lightly as he spoke, and then continued: "My suggestion is that you don't be so strong, reveal something to her at the right time, and let her have some decision-making power, so that she will probably listen to you." ”

"Why don't you just tell me not to meddle in her affairs in the future?" Luo Huihui glared at him as she spoke, and said angrily.

As soon as Xu Yongnian heard this, he immediately understood that his wife had misunderstood him, he cleared his throat and said: "Huihui, don't worry, listen to me finish speaking, now girls of her age are more or less not so obedient, so my idea is to hope that you give her a little autonomy, in fact, the final decision is still in your hands." ”

"Then you're going to tell me what I'm going to do?" Xu Yu raised his eyebrows slightly, listening to what he just said, he was still a little moved.

Xu Yongnian was very happy to see that she was willing to listen to her words.

"Actually, it's easy to say, but it's hard to say, it's up to you how you grasp it." Xu Yongnian cleared his throat and continued: "I think you can let her know in her marriage that she doesn't want to obey your arrangement, but what she does is the most suitable consideration for her. ”

Luo Huihui frowned tightly, looked at Xu Yongnian with a puzzled expression, and asked puzzledly, "What do you mean by this?" Why do I get more confused the more I listen? ”

"That is to say, don't be in a hurry to meddle in the matter between her and Yan Hua, let her contact Yan Hua first; In other words, let the two of them cultivate their relationship first, and only in this way can the two of them get married more smoothly. Xu Yongnian answered slowly.

"Cultivating feelings?" Luo Huihui sneered, and said angrily: "I really don't know which girl needs to cultivate a relationship with others, if this is known, I don't know how to laugh at us." I see, in the entire Xujia Village, only you can say such things, and you are not afraid of being ridiculed. ”

Xu Yongnian not only didn't get angry because of this, but shook his head with a smile: "Huihui, you don't understand." ”

"I don't understand, it's hard for you to understand!" Luo Huihui raised her eyebrows disappreciatively, she may not know much about other things, but she has never heard much about the folk customs of Xujia Village.

Xu Yongnian shook his head and said with a smile: "Of course, otherwise how can I give you advice!" It's not as complicated as you think, you just have to think about it from a different perspective. ”

"Don't sell anything to me, just say what you think." Luo Huihui was very anxious in her heart, and thought that the promise would be easy to settle there, but she didn't expect that she was a hard nail, thinking about what she just said, the more she thought about it, the more angry she became.

Xu Yongnian raised his eyebrows proudly: "You find a chance to talk to Xu Xu, you don't force her, but I also hope that she can agree to get along with Yan Hua to take a look, if she is dealt with, she will discuss other things if she feels that it is okay, if she feels that it is not good after she is punished, then we will never force her again." ”

"Is there really a way to do this?" Luo Huihui said with some dejection, she still knows very well what kind of character Xu Promise is.

She seems to have no temperament, but her temperament is more stubborn than anyone else, will the method Xu Yongnian say really work? She was skeptical.

Xu Yongnian shrugged his shoulders, spread his hands and said to her: "I don't know if this method is useful, but at least you should try it, it's not your style to try it or not!" ”

"Alright! Alas! Parents are so tired. Luo Huihui sighed heavily as she spoke, if it weren't for her own Rui Rui, she wouldn't have been angry with her.

Xu Yongnian nodded in agreement and said, "Yes, there are no parents in the world who are not tired, but I believe that she will definitely understand our hard work." ”

"Unless the sun comes out of the west."

Xu Yongnian was stunned by her and shook his head silently.

"I said, what kind of expression are you, I'm telling the truth, why don't you believe me? Promise that if she is really a filial daughter, then I am now angry with her like this? The more Luo Huihui thought about it, the more angry she became, but no matter how angry she was, she didn't dare to say it.

If Xu Yongnian knew that the purpose of marrying off Xu Rui was to save a dowry for Xu Rui, then he would definitely be angry.

Xu Yongnian patted her shoulder lightly and comforted her softly: "Huihui, now that things have developed to this point, why don't you think about what I just said to you yourself, if you feel that you can, you can have a good chat with her; You have to remember, be patient, don't order her, and don't be sarcastic, now that Nuo has grown up, she also has self-esteem. ”

The corners of Luo Huihui's mouth hooked up a helpless smile, and said self-deprecatingly: "How do I feel that I am not raising a daughter, but an ancestor?" ”

"Okay, don't think about it, think about how to persuade the promise." Xu Yongnian said to her with a smile.