157 Stand on your own
The next day, Gao Lu came again, and this time she didn't pick and choose, for fear of being interrupted by the dead girl in the big house and forgetting what she was going to say.
"I said Juan Niang, you will come to the ancestral house to worship the ancestors on the ninth day of the first month, for so many years, you have not returned to the ancestral house once to worship the ancestors, is this filial piety? Don't let outsiders laugh, my aunt is an old man, and I feel ashamed to come here to talk to you, Wenlin is a master bookkeeper, and he is also an official, so he must always take care of his reputation. ”
Without waiting for Gao Zhao to speak, Jiang Zhengse said: "Auntie, what does it look like our big house has done?" Why don't you go to the ancestral house to worship your ancestors, my aunt doesn't understand in her heart? Besides, my father-in-law is in charge of this matter, and my sister-in-law comes to talk to me about this, so it is better to discuss it with my father-in-law. ”
Gao Zhao praised his mother in his heart, he should say so, it seems that what he said yesterday, his mother thought about it carefully, yes, if he doesn't stand up, he always has to take care of this and that, will he let his children be wronged in the future to maintain face on the surface?
Gao Lu, who had never seen his nephew and daughter-in-law talk like this, was stunned, and turned annoyed, that incident was that the second room relied on the help of the Lu family, and the living mother-in-law was eccentric, so he drove the big house out of the ancestral house, everyone knew it back then, but after so many years, fewer and fewer people who knew it were alive, didn't the second room just want to ease up with the big house and worship the ancestors together, and slowly no one knew what the second room did, not for her son Wencai, was she willing to let the big house enter the ancestral house?
Seeing that her brother-in-law came out to speak and said righteous words, Gao Cui shut up, or her brother-in-law said that it was a mess, if she opened her mouth, it would be a mess.
Gao Zhao didn't squeak even more, Gao Lu saw that the two thorns of the Gao family didn't speak, so he hated and said: "Back then, it was my mother-in-law who did the master, and we were only complied with as sons and daughters-in-law, and it was not your turn to say that the elders were not, I think there was no mother-in-law to teach, and the nephew and daughter-in-law were becoming more and more ignorant, and the elders listened to it, and advised the master of the family to be filial to the elders, so I don't know the rules to speak, no wonder Sister Zhao ......is like this."
It's okay to say that she is just that, saying that her daughter Jiang can't tolerate it, and it's not like she had to listen to her aunt before, but she was angry after listening to it, and she felt that it was not good to refute her elders in person, but now she is not afraid.
"Since my aunt said to obey the elders, my nephew thinks that she is doing not badly, if my father-in-law commands, my nephew and daughter-in-law should obey, my lord is even more filial, naturally listen to my father-in-law's orders, since my uncle and grandmother obeyed the second mother-in-law back then, now continue to obey, otherwise what does the second mother-in-law think? I see that after this matter, the second room will obey the second mother-in-law, and my big room will obey my father-in-law. ”
Gao Zhao is going to clap his hands and applaud, what did his father say to his mother last night, so that his mother suddenly stood up, Gao Zhao felt that his mother didn't actually know how to say, but he always estimated that this scruple was there, if his mother took out the set of lessons to say to others, he would definitely say that others were speechless.
Gao Lu listened to the second mother-in-law of the Jiang family, and became even more angry, the second mother-in-law? That's the mother-in-law who filled the house, this nephew and daughter-in-law took the wrong medicine? Suddenly sharp-toothed?
Don't talk about others, Gao Cui was stunned, the brother and daughter-in-law who usually maintain a face in front of outsiders seem to be unrecognized, but she likes this kind of brother-in-law, otherwise she has to jump high and quarrel with her aunt every time, and she can't get to the point, or Zhao'er is old enough to help her to make her aunt leave every time.
Gao Lu stood up violently, annoyed and angry: "I think the big house is against the sky, talking to my aunt like this?" I'm going to talk to your father-in-law, how to teach the rules? ”
Gao Zhao immediately stood up and said with a smile: "Uncle and grandmother, niece and granddaughter will take you to the front yard." ”
Gao Lu was even more angry, how dare she go to the front yard, isn't it just to scare them, this dead girl, she glared at Gao Zhao, pouted again, turned around and left.
"Uncle and grandmother, it's good to go, don't send it, Xianglan Chunzhu, take the old lady and go, and send it to the gate."
Jiang also stood up, softened his legs again, quickly sat down, exhaled, just held his breath to speak, he was afraid that he would be relieved and didn't dare to say any more, but it was not a big deal to say it, and he was still happy in his heart.
Gao Zhao slapped his hands and said, "What my mother said is too good, I should say so, otherwise my uncle and grandmother always think that my mother is the best bully, otherwise why wouldn't she dare to go to my grandfather?" Running to use the identity of an elder to suppress the mother? Mother should do this in the future, otherwise in the future, when my brother marries a daughter-in-law, do I expect my brother-in-law to come out? That makes the uncle and grandmother say that the juniors are unreasonable and have no rules. ”
Although Gao Cui didn't slap, but there was an appreciative look in his eyes, which made Jiang's heart feel comfortable, her daughter had said a sentence before, being a mother is strong, her daughter was still young at that time, once after her aunt left, she said that if she would be a mother in the future, she would definitely be afraid of no one for the sake of her children, at that time she reprimanded her for talking nonsense and disrespecting her elders, now that she thinks about it, her daughter will feel useless, and she has to rely on her daughter who is less than ten years old to protect herself back then.
Thinking about herself is really useless, just an aunt, and she has to rely on the eldest sister and her young daughter to protect her, she will only feel wronged and cry in front of the master, no wonder the eldest sister of the mother's family stabbed her head with hatred and scolded her nest, if the family has a large population, how can she live and wipe her tears when she sees the sky?
Jiang couldn't sleep last night, just thinking about her daughter's words during the day, thinking that her daughter had grown up, although she was naughty, although she taught her a lesson, she didn't refute a word, but in yesterday's words, she understood everything, but just for the dignity of being a mother, she didn't refute, but her dignity can only be experienced in her daughter?
Just like the daughter just said, when the daughter-in-law enters the door, will you rely on the daughter-in-law to earn dignity for you? Daughter-in-law can afford you as a mother-in-law? As a mother, it is strong, the daughter said well, when the mother can't even protect the child, just blindly for the sake of face harmony, she is wronged and holds her breath, and she has to ask her children to be wronged, which is a confused mother.
"Zhao'er, in the future, my mother will protect your brothers and sisters, it used to be my mother who wanted to be left, and my mother will not be like this again in the future."
Gao Zhao saw that there was crystal in his mother's eyes, went up to hug him, put his face on his mother's chest, and then said: "Mother, what my mother said is right, people in this world are to maintain face, but also to score people, I know that my mother is for my good, I understand, I usually have no rules and no distance, my mother taught me that I know that I am wrong, but the rest, I must follow my own ideas." ”
In fact, before, Gao Zhao felt that his mother couldn't stand up, but his father was willing, he felt sorry for his mother, and his father couldn't care about small things, especially the quarrels of women, and in big things, his father would definitely not let anyone in the family be wronged, so she didn't need her mother to be a hedgehog like her.