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Gao Zhao felt that since she came to Beijing, she hadn't gone out to play, and it was good to live a rich life, and there was nothing wrong with enjoying a material life, but it was a little aggrieved for her to be a caged bird.
Women get married and have children, not to mention ancient times, even in modern times, it is impossible to be the same as before marriage, especially when the children are young, the opportunity to go out is greatly reduced.
It's good to be able to talk to your mother about your children in the community.
Here, if you go out twice a month, you will be criticized, unless it is for socializing.
It's not as good as ordinary people, who can go to the door. Just like Liang Gezhuang's grandmother's house, the courtyard door is open, the neighbor next door comes to my house and I go to your house, there are children holding children, and the older children are holding needlework in their hands and start gossiping.
Look at the sister-in-law, she is busy in the house every day, and she rarely goes back to her parents' house.
Gao Zhao didn't want to live like his sister-in-law's life, not that his sister-in-law was wrong to do that, but that he felt bored.
In the past, Jin Dou was a last resort before she was a year old, but now, she has to find a way.
What's the solution?
coaxed Jin Dou to see the other beans, but the princess's mother-in-law said that she invited them to the princess's mansion.
Gao Zhao's eyes were wooden, I wanted to go out!
So, Gao Zhao took out a pen and paper and began to draw.
"Jin Dou, my mother will paint for you, you see, this is the capital, there are four city gates, there are guards on the city gates, there are streets in the city, you see a lot of children playing on the streets, there are delicious food on the streets, and there are merchants, by the way, there are candy sellers. I'll show you, where does the Edamame family live, where does the Pea family live, this is the sword bean family, do you want to go, Jin Dou invites them to eat delicious food, right? When the time comes, I will bring it back to my grandmother, and my grandmother will be happy when she sees Jindou going out and thinks about her grandmother. ”
Jin Dou nodded, and Gao Zhao pointed to another place and said, "This is my grandmother's house, so far away from us." ”
Jin Dou patted his chest and said, "Jin Dou thinks." ”
Gao Zhaobo gave her a mouthful: "Then Jin Dou personally told his grandmother that it was okay?" ”
Nodding again.
Alright, that's it.
Early the next morning, Gao Zhao asked Mama Zhang to go to Rongxi Hall with the golden bean, and after a while, the eldest princess said that the eldest princess went out with the golden bean.
Gao Zhao was stunned, then closed the door and stomped her feet in the house, laughing again, I don't know what Jin Dou said, the princess's mother-in-law took her out.
It is impossible for her to go out at home by herself, she takes the child every day, and suddenly the child is not there, she feels uncomfortable and bored.
Send a message to Jasibe, and if she has time, she will bring peas to play.
Jia Xibei came with the messenger, and when she saw Gao Zhao walking back and forth in the courtyard alone, she asked, "Where is the golden bean?" Slept? ”
"Went out with her grandmother. Pea, let my uncle and grandmother hug it today. ”
Pea turned her head, she recognized her life, and only pestered her mother.
Gao Zhao took her to sit in the bamboo pavilion, and Jia Xibei wanted to put her daughter down, but Pea hugged her neck and refused, so Jia Xibei had to hug her.
"No wonder my mother said that the daughter she gave birth to is an enemy, and no one is allowed to hug the peas, pestering me all day long, and my arm hurts. It's just that her father has to look for me after hugging me for a while, and I'm tired to death. ”
Jasibe complained, "I still want to wait for her to be one year old and break it off for her, just like that?" It's all bad to cry. ”
She held it with one hand, and shook it with the other hand, Gao Zhao called Chunzhu to come over and squeeze her arm.
"Give her more food, you break it little by little first, you can't break it suddenly, when she cries so much, your mother-in-law will definitely not agree."
"I thought about it, I'll go back to my parents' house and ask my mother-in-law to help me bring it."
Jasibe thought about it again and said, "Cousin, I think I seem to have a lot less now, not as much as I used to be." ”
Gao Zhao was frightened and hurriedly asked, "Then are you still here for a small day?" ”
"I haven't been here since I was born, and my mother-in-law said that some women are like that."
"Will you have it again?"
Jassie Ben wondered: "If you don't come to the day, you will get pregnant?" ”
"Unless you don't have that with Wang Xiaoer, if that, it's possible."
Jasibe was also shocked when she heard it, "It's over! If there is this, the difference between the two is less than two years, how can this be good? ”
Gao Zhao explained to her: "It's not a matter of the age difference between the children, it's a problem of the woman's body, a woman gives birth to a child, it's best to recuperate for two or three years, but with it, just pay more attention." If your health is good, there won't be much of a problem, but you must pay attention to it in the future. ”
This is just her guess, and the details can only be determined after the doctor takes the pulse.
There is a doctor in the princess's mansion, Gao Zhao sent someone to invite the doctor over, and after seeing the doctor, he said that he was not sure at the moment, and he would take a look in a few days.
Jia Xibei was happy and worried, Gao Zhao had no choice but to comfort her: "This is a good thing, don't think about it, give the peas to your mother-in-law, you must pay attention to rest, it's okay to be tired in the first few months." ”
Gao Zhao also wondered that Jia Xibei was worried about not being able to conceive before giving birth to peas, and now there are several of them, but she is the first to get pregnant.
Jia Xibei looked at Gao Zhao and asked, "Cousin, why aren't you pregnant?" ”
"I want to wait for Jin Dou to be two years old before getting pregnant, just three years apart, and in the future, Jin Dou can take the small one below, just like me."
Jasibe rolled her eyes: "Is there still a shortage of people in your family?" ”
"It's not that there is a lack of it, but that the relationship between sisters and brothers will be deep, can the next person bring it up the same as the sister who brought it up?"
Saying this, Jacibe was worried again, "Then my pea is more than a year older than her brother, let alone bring it, the two are estimated to fight." ”
"Don't worry, a big month is also big, and you won't fight."
Jasibe hung his head: "My brother is two years older than me, and when we were young, we still hugged each other and fought together." ”
"Didn't you say that your brother will let you when you grow up, look at you, you don't think so much about things, you are a mother, just teach them well. Okay, go home and report the good news, you have it, my life should be difficult, alas! Go home and recuperate, and I'll take Jindou to your house to see you in a few days. ”
After sending Jia Xibei away, Gao Zhao returned to the house, tilting his face left and right in front of the mirror to exercise the muscles on his face.
I also want to go out with Jasibe this summer, this woman is married, that is, she has a child and a child, and in less than two years, she has a child and a child.
Thinking about her mother, who gave birth to the four of them in the first ten years, her memory is that it didn't take long for her mother to have a strong belly, and she felt that most of her mother's time was spent on the kang, feeding the children on the kang and taking the children to do needlework.
This is envied by many people, and those who gave birth to one or two often ask their mothers what secret recipes they have.
At noon, the princess's mother-in-law came back with golden beans.
Gao Zhao went to Rongxi Hall and saw the princess's mother-in-law smiling.
"In the morning, Jin Dou came to buy a candy man for his grandmother, I think the outside is not clean, there seems to be someone in your uncle's house who can do it, so I took Jin Dou with me, Jin Dou said that I want to give one to my grandfather, my father, my aunt, my cousin and my cousin. Our golden beans are good, and none of them will be left behind. ”
Gao Zhao saw that the subordinate who followed was holding a sugar man in his hand, and winked at his daughter, and Jin Dou also winked at her.
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