"Nana, do you know that you look like a fifteen or sixteen-year-old beautiful girl? But I also looked like a vicissitudes of life. Wenwen looked at Li Na with some envy.

"How can there be, Wenwen, how can you say such an exaggeration?

If you praise me like that, I'll be embarrassed.

What else do I look like like a fifteen or sixteen-year-old beautiful girl, I'm married? Besides, don't be so presumptuous, okay? You're beautiful too! ”

Li Na looked at Wenwen funny, her little niece was more likable when she grew up than when she was a child.

Her round apple face, although it is not the kind of awl face that is popular nowadays, Li Na thinks this child is really beautiful and cute?

And Li Na has always hated the kind of awl face that is popular nowadays. It feels like that face is really ugly to death.

"What? Nana, are you married? Then you're getting married too early, aren't you? Wenwen looked at Li Na in surprise.

"yes, we're different there than here. If you want to get married, you can do it at the age of 18. Li Na looked at her with a smile

"By the way, Wenwen, I heard that you also have a boyfriend. I've heard you're getting married soon. Isn't that boy very handsome? ”

"What's the matter, Nana, don't mention it, don't you know, we're both going to break up?" Wenwen talked about his boyfriend, and he was angry.

"What's wrong? Text? Would you like to tell me about it?

Don't worry, I will be a loyal listener, I have always heard people where I hear, and I will never come to betray you. ”

Li Na looked at her gently, this child is now older and will fall in love, and he will also have an awkward relationship with his boyfriend.

"Don't mention it, Nana, my boyfriend I don't dislike him for not having a father,

I don't dislike that his family doesn't have a house, and I don't dislike that he doesn't look very handsome.

I wanted others to be nice to me, but do you know that he actually calculated me?

We all talked about getting married, but his family refused to pay even a single bride price?

Actually, I don't care about the bride price given by their family, I just think that their family is too disrespectful to me to do that, even my parents think so.

And my family doesn't want much of this bride price at all.

In our place, we all cost about hundreds of thousands of bride price?

And my family only needs 100,000 yuan, and my parents are not short of money. After getting married, I will bring this bride price money, but it is just a formality, but his family is unwilling. Wenwen said in a low voice

"Huh? Is that the case? Then this person really can't be married.

Although this bride price is also a bad habit, right?

But if it weren't for the bride price according to the local customs, maybe it would be even more difficult for girls to get married.

There are a lot of annoying men and mothers-in-law who will treat girls who don't want a bride price as upside down? Li Na looked at Wenwen in surprise

"Yes! Oh, yes! That's what my grandma and my mom said. Nana, you don't know? What could be more infuriating?

Not only did his family not want to pay the bride price, but they had to add his name to my house.

What else did he say? If he wants to pay off the mortgage with me in the future, will he lose a lot? That's because his current salary is higher than mine.

If you say that he is calculating like this now, will my life be better when I get married?

He also came up with two proposals, saying that if I didn't want to add his name.

Just let me sell my current house, and her family will pay a down payment with me to buy a house.

After we got married, the two of us repaid the loan together, but they never mentioned the bride price.

My grandmother was furious and thought the family was too calculating.

If they want to pay more money to buy a house, they just want to pay 100,000 yuan.

And my grandmother paid me 600,000 yuan for this house?

You say that such a person, how dare I marry him with confidence? Wenwen is still very angry when he talks about it.

"And what about later? Text. Li Na looked at her with interest

"What's the future, I broke up with him after the conversation broke down, don't you know?

That bastard is still making noise outside every day, saying that I said I wouldn't marry him because of the bride price.

He said that I worship money, love vanity, hate the poor and love the rich, and tell me very badly?

Do you say I didn't marry him because of the bride price?

With the kind of conditions in his family, what do I have to covet? If I were really the kind of person who worships money, I wouldn't have fallen in love with him in the first place, right?

Nana, don't you have any bride price there?

In fact, what I want to say is that if there is no such custom of bride price in our area, I can even if I don't want it, but I can't stand the calculating attitude of their family.

Besides, my family is not recruiting sons-in-law, I have a younger brother, how can their family calculate me like that? ”

"Wenwen, I think you did it too right, and you can think more clearly.

If you marry in such a family, you will definitely lose your life's happiness, and they will not even have scum left after they calculate you.

And who says we don't have a bride price there? What I want to tell you is that if our men want to marry wives, they will pay more for the bride price than here on your mainland.

When my husband first married me, he bought me two big houses, and when he bought them, they fell directly into my name. He also paid a lot of money, about 20 million. ”

Li Na thought to herself that 20,000 yuan in the 70s would probably be worth about 20 million in modern society.

Maybe more, not necessarily, as for the small courtyard house she bought at the beginning, some people still think she lost a lot of money at the original 8,000 yuan? But in today's Beijing, it's worth hundreds of millions?

"Really? Are you like that here? It turns out that you will also ask for a bride price there, but I didn't expect it to be so ruthless. Wen Wen was no longer angry, and his eyes widened in surprise.

"Not only that, but we're still very particular about the right people?

However, my dowry is also quite a lot, and the value of the bride price given by my husband is about the same.

But of course, those things are my pre-marital property.

But since the two of them are married, do they live together? It won't be so clear, that's it. Li Na smiled

"I think you and your one are ex-boyfriends, right? You two are really not suitable. I don't think the two of you are the right match. That's why their family calculates about you.

There is a kind of people in this world, they have such a kind of thinking, that is, they think that I am poor and I am justified. Those who think that those who are better than them should help them unconditionally.

I'll say something you don't like to hear, right? Maybe the guy and his mom?

I just feel that the conditions of his family are so bad, and you are still willing to follow that man, and I think you really like that man too much.

Why do they want to calculate you so much? Wenwen, next time you fall in love, you must keep your eyes open! And this kind of scumbag must be as far away as possible. "I want to talk about "Seventy Struggle Little Women" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "excellent reading literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find confidants~