It is not difficult to determine which couple is happy or not.

However, what is the standard of happiness in this day and age?

Chi Jing was stumped and asked casually, "What is the destination that women dream of?" ”

There are only three women at the scene: Duan Shungu, Xiaoyu and Chijing, Xiaoyu... Well, ignore it, if you really ask her, she will probably tell you that she has something to eat, and let her play with the big snake every day without having to do exercises, which is the greatest happiness.

Therefore, this question is obviously aimed at Shun Gu.

Aunt Shun sighed faintly, her vision for the future before she left the cabinet had been completely shattered from the moment she was sold by her family, and now that she thinks about it, she can't even remember the slightest shadow.

This life has become a boat, and for her now, it is already the greatest luxury to be able to follow the girl for the rest of her life: "Of course, I will follow the girl." ”

"Oh, Aunt Shun, I mean, what the average daughter's family thinks is a good home." Chi Jing hurriedly added.

Is it a daughter's home in general? Aunt Shun thought for a while, if she was to start her life again and become an ordinary woman, "Both parents are here, children are complete, and her husband knows each other, and she is stable in this life without illness or disaster... Something like this. ”

Chi Jing let out a soft "um". I secretly thought in my heart: I didn't expect that the standard of happiness in this year was so high...

"No, being able to marry a rich child is the best destination for a woman." Qin Yu's words almost came out of his nose.

What could be happier in this world than marrying a wealthy and powerful husband?

"Young Master Qin, what else can you see in your eyes besides silver?" The Chu family disdained the authentic way.

He doesn't understand, obviously Qin Yu can already be said to be the richest man in Dongli, why is he still so greedy for money? The human ** is really endless.

"You hillbilly, what do you know?" It is in this situation that Qin Yu has the leisure and condescension to talk to them about these children who have not.

"Poor couples mourn everything, because the family is poor, is there less selling wives and children?"

Chu Jiaqi smiled, "Then if there is silver, there is true love?" With a lot of money, can you buy youth and peace? Is the life of the rich really as happy as we imagined? ”

"Nope." Qin Yu said solemnly.

The Chu family was stunned, did Qin Yu agree?

How do you know that Qin Yu continued: "You can't imagine the happiness of the rich! ”

"......" the Chu family.

Chi Jing on the side nodded silently in his heart, what should he do if he wanted to praise Qin Yu for the first time!

She looked at the speechless Chu family and said with a smile: "Chu family, tell me your opinion." ”

"If I am a woman, it is enough to marry someone I can rely on." He is very simple in his thinking, and he is not greedy.

In the same way, if he marries a wife, he should marry someone who can share weal and woe.

"What about you, senior brother? What do you think is the best place for a woman? Chi Jing asked again about to leave, and his curiosity was even greater.

Jiang Li shook his head, and he said without being tired: "I don't know about the others, but I know you." ”

"Mine?" She hadn't even thought about it, so how could he know?

"Me." Will be concise and to the point.

Chi Jing was dazed at first, then had an epiphany, and then his cheeks flushed slightly.

I don't know where the other women will be, after all, I'm not them. But the best place for you is that I know it's me.

It can only be me.

"Nima..."She turned her face away unnaturally, how did she not know that the senior brother was so flirtatious before, and he didn't even bring a draft...

…

It's not hard to get married.

The first group of eight characters, first look at the four pillars of the man. Chi Jing directly ignored the pillar of the year, the pillar of the month and the pillar of time, and with the pillar of the sun as the son, she could conclude that this man was a wife and his marriage was not beautiful.

Renzi is one of the inferior sun pillars, and those born on this day come with a lonely luan, and their marriage is grinding.

In addition, Renshui sits on the branch as a son, and Zishui is the robbery of Renshui. What is robbery? It is the one who specializes in positive wealth, and the positive wealth represents the wife.

Therefore, the male life of the pillar is to rob himself, either he can't marry one, or at least two wives. The two wives here do not mean that they have two wives after they are divorced.

From a modern point of view, the most likely thing is to remarry after divorce - that is, a second marriage. But now that it is ancient times, there is a 90% probability that this eight characters is the continuation of the ex-wife's death and the subsequent marriage.

And each of the "wives" pointed out here is the wife of the Ming media, not a concubine.

The wife is very bad, and he sits on himself and robs money.

But it would be too arbitrary to conclude that the first group of marriages was not good from the man's Rizhu alone. As we all know, in the process of getting married, it is one of the necessary processes for both men and women to join the eight characters.

Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Nazheng, invitation, and greeting, these are the six rites of marriage. The second of the six rites and the third of the six rites are the process of marriage.

There are two purposes for asking the name, one is to know the woman's name, after all, the same surname is very likely to be a close relative, then it will be embarrassing. The second is to ask the eight characters of the birthday to see if it matches the eight characters of the man.

Najib, on the other hand, retrieved the Geng post with the woman's name and eight characters written on it and placed it in the ancestral temple or the Buddhist hall at home to seek the consent of the ancestral gods and Buddhas.

If nothing bad happens within three days, you can move on to the next step.

So, will a marriage that has been together be happy? Definitely.

In this era of male superiority and inferiority of women, marriage is just to see whether the woman's eight characters and fortune aura are beneficial to the man, as for whether the man is beneficial to the woman? Most are ignored.

I can restrain you, and rightfully so. But if you don't have the slightest disadvantage for me, I'm sorry and refuse to marry.

Therefore, the marriage decision can not only look at the man's eight characters, but also the woman's. Everything in the world, one thing overcomes one thing, let alone men and women?

Maybe the woman's sun-pillar can just resolve the man's self-robbery and change his second marriage?

Chi Jing thought so and looked at the woman's eight characters.

also looked at the sun pillar first, and also just glanced at it, yes, no play.

The man's day pillar, the woman's day pillar, the water chong binghuo, the sub-water gram noon fire, the sky chong earth! are all cadres who fight to the death and never give up, these two couples must be noisy for half their lives every day, and even fight... Still want to talk about happiness? Difficult.

Chi Jing sighed, can two men and women who are obviously not compatible and incompatible also get married? Did the woman bribe the marriage teacher, or did she elope without going through the six-rite process?

She made a cross next to the first group. In short, this group was eliminated, and the next one.

The male and female sun pillars in the second group did not clash with each other.

But the second group of this man's eight figures... Chi Jing was surprised, and even Jiang Li's expression became strange.

Seeing that the two of them were silent, Duan Shungu leaned over and asked with concern, "Is the second group happy?" ”

Chi Jing smiled bitterly, "Not happy." ”

Aunt Shun was stunned, "Are you unhappy?" ”

"Well, it's very unhappy."

"How?" Shun Gu looked at the eight words of the second group of dry creations, "Xin X year... Geng Yinyue... x Shen day... Age... Hmm, that's a lot of gold. ”

"I have no money, I take food injuries as my wife, my wife palace is more present, and my spouse Gong Fengchong..."Chi Jing sighed.

"What will happen?" Shun Gu didn't understand this, but her curiosity was even stronger.

"At least five wives." After calculating in his heart, he suddenly said loudly.

"Huh?" Aunt Shun's face was shocked, "Five wives?" That's really rare in the world. ”

You know, most men are just wives, and the rest are concubines. or two equal wives, and the rest are concubines. The three wives and four concubines also talked about it verbally, and there are very few people who are really so ridiculous.

After all, there are many women, just like the harem of the emperor's old son, if everyone has the right to call the shots in the family, it will be chaotic.

So at first glance, this man actually had five wives, and Aunt Shun sighed again: "He is not afraid of chickens and dogs jumping at home?" ”

"Then you're mistaken, Aunt Shun." Chi Jing smiled, pointed to the eight characters and said, "His wives are not married together." ”

"I know there's got to be a first-come, first-served come." Shun Gu said.

"No, you still don't understand, Aunt Shun. This man's wife has always been only one. A look of sympathy appeared on Chi Jing's face.

"One? However, Fang Cai didn't say five... Ahh Shun Gu's mouth was so shocked that she couldn't close it, "He, he, he killed five wives?" ”

My good boy?

"Pretty much." Chi Jingdao, there must be those who die, but maybe some of them are missing or run away by themselves. In short, this man has become a kiss five times.

"But his wife's figure is right next to her!" Shun Gu pointed to the "Kunzao" Dao in the second group.

Qianzao is a man, Kunzao is a woman, this is something that most people can understand.

Chi Jing glanced at his wife's life, pinched his fingers and counted the years of the husband and wife, and said bluntly: "This should be the life of his first wife, it seems that this woman should be eighteen years old, and there are signs of marriage in this year, Shizhu was rushed, Kezi..."

This lady ordered to create the five elements to be dry, and the gods were extremely prosperous... It is the image of the turbidity of the gods, and the lifeless people are also.

Combined with various signs, his first wife died in childbirth in the year of marriage.

And at the spring equinox of the following year, his eight characters moved again and married his second wife. Also, you can't blame it for being unkind, after all, children can't be left unattended, human nature.

"And what about his fifth wife? Have you been with him for the rest of your life? The Chu family also stood up and said.

There are people who are worse than him.

"Nope. This is the life of old age without companions, lonely and dying. "Chi Jing Dao.

"Then it is impossible to be happy with such a life." Shun Gu said abruptly.

Chi Jing nodded and gently crossed the second group of couples.

…

The first group of second marriages, the second group of five marriages, and the third group should be better, right?

After all, no matter how bad it is, can it be worse than the second group?

However, it turns out that there is only one happy marriage, and there are thousands of unhappy marriages, and they are still too young after all.

There was not much of a problem with the three groups of dry characters, and after a cursory look, Chi Jing even showed a shallow smile.

"There are many of these eight characters, and the representative sentiment is mild. And the sun pillar Ding Hai, Haizhong Tibetan Ganren is the official, A is the seal, and the official seal is born... From such a day to the point of view, most of this man is a strict wife. ”

"What do you mean by being strict with your wife?" This time it was Xiaoyu's turn to ask curiously.

"It's just a good old man who listens to his wife." She smiled and rubbed Xiaoyu's head, "This kind of husband is actually quite good, why don't Xiaoyu find a husband with a strict wife in the future!" ”

"Will my husband make me eat a lot of meat?" Small fish interest is not authentic.

"Haha, of course! Don't talk about eating meat, you can do whatever you want, he won't dare to stop you. Chi Jing smiled, full of confidence at the same time.

This group must be the happiest combination, right?

"It's not it." Jiang Li's face was a little ugly and reminded, and he secretly glanced at the wife.

Jingjing seems to have a high respect for men who are strict with their wives, but their own eight characters are not of this type, what should I do!

Chi Jing looked at him puzzled, he pointed at Kunzao with his sword, and said, "Rolling waves of peach blossoms." ”

Chi Jing gasped, and looked at the wife of the strict man, it was really a peach blossom!

The peach blossoms in the eight characters do not refer to the peach blossoms that are picked up from the peach trees that people usually plant.

Peach blossoms, also known as salty pools, are rumored to be the places in the sky for fairies to bathe and cleanse, so it is a little more easy to attract people to think of the beautiful meaning.

Not to mention the salty pond of the fairies in the sky, let's talk about the wine pool and meat forest of the king of Shang, and the Huaqing pool of Yang Guifei.

Which of the above is not mentioned by anyone, and the first thing that comes to mind must be the woman's bare shoulders and buttocks, and she is good.

Therefore, a woman with peach blossoms is born to be particularly attractive to the opposite sex, and her every move is unique and seductive.

But passive attraction is one thing, active seduction is another. Although she is naturally charming, as long as she is upright and has a noble character, she must be a woman of a good family.

But there are many kinds of peach blossoms, and this "rolling wave peach blossom"... It happens to be the kind that is most prone to red apricots out of the wall!

So, what is a rolling wave of peach blossoms?

If the four pillars and eight characters, the main life is the day pillar of the propylene child, and when it encounters the moon pillar or the time pillar, the peach blossoms are also rolling. Or, when the Xinmao Sun Pillar meets the Bingzi Moon Pillar or the Time Pillar, it also rolls peach blossoms.

In short, as long as Bingzi meets Xin Mao, this is a punishment of heaven and earth, and darkness Chen Cang! Both men and women are born by nature**! Not only that, but it is also very easy to die because of the wine!

"Huh? Could this be the eight characters of Wu Dalang and Pan Jinlian? Duan Shungu shouted!

"It's unlikely, besides, is Wu Dalang a strict wife?" Chi Jing retorted, and whispered to Shun Gu on the side.

"The more I listen to it, the more it looks." Shun Gu said.

"Probably not. In short, this third group is a loyal and honest man who married the wife of a water-based poplar. "Chi Jing Dao.

"Does he know he's green?" Qin Yu said, and it was rare to have an interest in discussing.

Having said that, Tang Xi in his family is like a wolf and a tiger, shouldn't he take advantage of him to go out, and Hongxing is also out of the wall?

The eight characters show that although this person has a gentle temperament, he is actually unassertive, cowardly and timid. According to this character, if you know, you should also turn a blind eye. Chi Jingdao, I don't know if it's better to sympathize or scold a few words.

If you want to live a decent life, you have to have a little green on your head......

"Phew!" Qin Yu said.

"Phew!" Chu Jiadao.

"Phew!" Xiaoyu also followed.

Bah! will be separated from the heart.

"But is such a marriage a happy one?" Duan Shungu said lightly and asked the most important thing!

Happiness? His wife doesn't know who to cheat with all day long, and he is a man without a seed in the eyes of others, so how can he save face?

If you say you are not happy? This wife chose herself, she can live with one eye open and one eye closed, she doesn't feel any discomfort and doesn't want to make any waves, anyway, life is short, and a lifetime will pass quickly, so why bother to make this scene, make everyone look bad... I want to talk about "Chi Jing" with more like-minded people, pay attention to "excellent reading literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find confidants~