【Shile Collection】03: "Father"

When you croak, open your eyes and learn to speak, you are forever connected with someone. This person is the most precious connection God has given you – the Father.

My father didn't conceive and give birth to you in October like my mother, but my father's love is no less than that of our mother. Mom gave us life, but Dad taught us how to behave. Mom gave us gentleness, but Dad treated us harshly, we didn't understand, and we didn't understand that this is a strong father's love.

The man has tears and does not flick, when you cry for the first time, he cries, it is happy, it is the kind of happy cry of being a father, we don't understand, and in the end we don't understand, because when I understand, my father is already old, and he is no longer the great backer of the year, and my father has worked hard all his life for this family.

I used to think that my father would never get old, but in fact, it was also our excuse, I always didn't care seriously, always said that I had no money, and then Kari suddenly had a few thousand dollars more. We always thought that Dad should make money. Maybe it's caused by the current society, but I say it's actually our own problem. When we go to the Internet to pick up girls, we always tell our family that we are busy and have no time. But what is the important thing you are doing?

In the blink of an eye, decades have passed. There is a person who is willing to leave his hometown, willing to go alone to support his family, this person is a father, and you will never meet a second father in this life, in your previous life, or in your next life. Sometimes Dad will beat us up when he sees that we are wrong, and we may hold a grudge. I don't know that when we became parents, we found that this was the most beautiful and precious gift that our father gave us, but time carved the wrinkles for him, and he was old for a lifetime.

I've never officially said I love you to my dad, and this escape has been going on for more than ten years. Finally, when my father was resting because he was tired, I really found out that my father was old, and my father, who had always been strict, would also fall. Seeing that the sporadic gray hair on my father's head has developed a lot, I deeply realized how difficult it has been for my father to work for this family over the years. Originally, he was not too old in his 40s, but he looked haggard, and for this family, he was no longer handsome.

In my memory, there wasn't much for my dad. I always go back and forth year after year, and the time spent at home doesn't add up to much. I work outside the home all year round to support my family. It's always been mom inside. Maybe it's because my dad is not around, but my feelings for my dad are light, at least not as good as my mom. But my father's love for me was not at all. Although my father was silent, one night when I was a teenager, he taught me my outlook on life and love. There can be many likes in that sentence, but only one love has become the creed of my life. But I have cared very little about my dad over the years, and every time it is a minute-by-minute phone call, it starts and ends. In this way, I spent college in a hurry and spent my first formal job in life. If you don't cherish it, this hard-won fate will be scattered. We grew up, but our parents grew old; When we get old, our parents are gone. While they are still there, why don't we be brave enough to confess, just as we pursue our other half. Don't be embarrassed, how many times in your life are you embarrassed?

I've never written about my father, maybe it's because I don't have a lot of feelings for him. However, now I know that there is a person who will never leave his family and never abandon us, and this person is the father, the father who gave birth to me and raised me. No matter when and where, no matter what happens to you, Dad is always full of love.

Do you have such a person, whether you are at the end of the world, no affectionate language, but there is a better happiness than any love confession, this person is a father!!

I love you dad, though twenty years late.