【Waste Collection】02: The most beautiful time
God, that is, man, only became God when he did things that man could not do. Over the years, I have met a lot of people and learned a lot from these people, and this is growth. The most important thing for people is to find their own world, and as long as they find their own world, life will be meaningful. Don't have the heart to fight with others, don't fight, it's always yourself who wins. Sometimes a decision can change a lifetime. Life is like this, life is like this. Thank you for having you in my life.
Foreign researchers have discovered that even though nostalgia can bring melancholy and longing for the past, the end result is happiness in the end. Nostalgia allows us to walk more clearly on the track of life, gives us peace of mind about ourselves and our connections with others, and makes us feel better about ourselves. In fact, most of our lives are just reminiscing about our 20s, which psychologists call "memory collisions".
Do you have a 20-year-old with no regrets? I asked myself this, and I thought I didn't. But when I thought about it step by step, I realized that I had always had a colorful 20-year-old. I once had the most beautiful memories in high school, in the Princess Hall of District 67 of Doupo Qiankun, I met you in college, and in the Tianya community, and in the voice of Changfa. Although I have had a lot of regrets before, I have also been in pain, crying, and even inferiority, but I slowly found that there are still many sweet memories behind the regrets, which is what I should cherish the most.
There is no mystery outside of the present, and there is no imposition on what cannot be done. We don't raise our hands to the void for anything other than hope. We pay, we take, and that's enough. Why bother to fall into the cage of pain and not want to go out, the most beautiful thing has always been the scenery of our journey, and as a result, sometimes it becomes unimportant. Happiness has always been around us, but we are unwilling to touch it, and we are always blinded by loss, but we do not find that rich experience, and the memories left to us by worthy people in life are enough.
Mandalay once said: If the sky is not always bright, then live in the dark; If it is dangerous to make a sound, then keep silent; If you feel powerless to shine, you don't have to shine on others. But don't get used to the darkness and defend it, don't be complacent about your own stubbornness, don't mock those who are braver and more fervent than you. We can be humble as dust, and we cannot be twisted like maggots. For example, once the personality label is formed, it is difficult to break it in any fixed circle, and even if it is replaced by a new environment, it is often dragged back to the original behavior habits by an inexplicable force. It's easy to live, it's easy to live, it's not easy to live. Be accountable to yourself, otherwise your strengths will also turn into your weaknesses.
What is the purpose of life? What is the meaning of life? What do people live for? I didn't understand before, I thought that life was so tiring and still alive what was the point. Now I slowly understand life and even life, although there are hardships and tiredness, but those most beautiful times, those people encountered in life, the memories of those scenes, those happy experiences are the harvest we should cherish the most, and it is the preservative of our life.
Some people say that what you forget is not important, and what you remember is important, but this is actually not too rigorous. According to the research theory of psychologists, many memories of the long past will slowly be stored at the subconscious level, which leads us to forget. In the most beautiful time, are there any small things, I don't answer. Every memorable event is a combination of a number of small things and trivial things, and our memory is actually a collection of these little things. So whether it's important or not, we forget. So I chose to write down the memories of this scene, although I will forget it, but many years later, when I open my notes, I will remember that this was my most beautiful time.
Tomorrow, hello; Today, good night; Tomorrow, goodbye, thank you for the wonderful memories that time has left me, thank you for the people I have met in my life.