Chapter 581.
Li Guoqiang is really worried that his daughter will really marry those men who have been educated youths, which will be a tragedy.
Li Guoqiang thinks that those educated youths, even if they don't recognize the wife, but in the future, those children will come over, can they ignore it?
How much burden and trouble this will bring to his daughter.
Besides, the heart of a man who has been an educated youth is ruthless! They abandon their wives and children, and then go back to the city, and find women with similar conditions to them.
And Li Guoqiang doesn't think that he himself is alarmist, because he knows those who are educated youths who return to the city.
There are many people who come here through entrance examinations if they are not allowed to do so, and many of those people have taken root in the countryside before.
He had to instill this kind of thinking in her daughter so that she wouldn't be blinded by those men.
"Girl, in fact, those who are educated youths have wives and children, you can't be deceived by those people.
Those people did not have proper formalities when they got married in the countryside. It's easy for them to abandon their wives and children.
It's okay if you want to fall in love, but if you want to find someone who is the same age as you, it's best not to be overly strong and have been a young intellectual, so these bad problems will not occur. It's not that your dad has any prejudice against those educated youth, but in fact, it is.
However, I estimate that the boys who can be admitted to the normal school, except for those who have been educated youths, under normal circumstances, this character will not be too bad.
And you should not look down on those who are people's teachers.
I'll tell you about the people's teachers in the future. The benefits and wages may be even better than those of our government departments!
When you graduate from school, you're a regular teacher. That's much better than the way I gave you to work as a worker in our hometown.
I also have a vague hunch that this worker will not always be so good, and he will always be treated so well. So! Girl, you definitely have to give me a good school, you know?
You still have this house, and you don't have to be too picky about the man's family conditions.
But you'd better inquire, and it's best to find those who have both parents. Don't fake, don't have too tricky people in those families.
In the future, you just need to live according to the rules and regulations. The days ahead will never be bad! Li Guoqiang talked a lot to his daughter, in fact, he is usually a person who rarely speaks.
But now it is about his daughter's lifelong events and future. He also said a lot to his daughter.
"Dad, what are you talking nonsense, I just fell in love when I was old, why don't you talk nonsense!" Li Ruolan listened to Li Guoqiang's words and chopped her feet angrily
She listened to his father for so long, and finally found an opportunity to refute him. Dizzy, how old is she? She really has no intention of falling in love.
What did her dad say? She hasn't gone to school yet?
She has never known those men who are educated youths.
Why was her father pulled so much, and instilled in her a lot of bad thoughts about educated youth?
But Li Ruolan, she really has to thank her father. In this way, when she went to school in the future, she really rejected the pursuit of several young men who had been educated youths.
There are also several young men who have been educated youths, and Li Ruolan has a good impression of them. But as soon as she remembered what her father had said at the time, she cruelly rejected them. will make her life so smooth in the future.
"Hehe, child, when you go to college, it's all adults.
You are a little younger, you didn't go to high school, and you just took the exam.
But those people are not, some are much older than you, am I not worried that you will be deceived? ”
Li Guoqiang was embarrassed, the child's mother couldn't take the train to see her daughter.
He, who is a father, has no choice but to break up and crumple all these truths to his daughter and explain them clearly.
"By the way, girl! Is this school still early?
Do you go back to your hometown to live for a while, you don't know that your mother also misses you very much.
In this way, when you come back, we can bring you more souvenirs from our family.
You don't know that although your mother doesn't say it tomorrow, but she thinks about it in her heart, I see that she has hidden in the bed several times and secretly wiped her tears, you must know that you are our old girl!
But our most beloved child! Your mom just doesn't have a culture and is a little old-fashioned. The burden of saying so many sad things is in her heart, and the child she cares about is yours!
And today, today Dad as a man tells you a secret. ”
Li Guoqiang and her daughter smiled mysteriously, "If you really fall in love in the future, Dad will tell you." Dad is a man, and only a man will know a man best.
In a relationship, if a girl is only "bad", a man will run after you, not if you run after others.
First of all, the "bad" of women is personality, and women who are really loved by men have their own unique personalities.
Men are submissive to women and women who are full of their own charm.
Men will choose the latter one, men have a desire to conquer, you have to make men feel that they have to conquer. If you love yourself, someone will love you.
The second is that the "badness" of women is that if they leave, men have a kind of "cheap" nature, and what they can't get is always the best.
Men will always keep in mind what they can't get, which is the meat of men's hearts.
Women keep a certain distance from men in their relationships, and they must say love in their mouths and rulers in their hearts, and they must not do anything to make men fall in love with you. ”
"Dad, how can you say this to me, I'm going to tell my mother all this you said. Look at how your mother scolds you then. ”
Li Ruolan heard his father say such explicit words. couldn't help but blush, so angry that she looked like something.
"But, Daddy, can I really go back? I hear those people talking nonsense, and I also have a headache. "Li Ruolan is actually still very homesick.
Although she doesn't have to worry about food and clothing here. The living conditions are also good. And there are no legendary neighbors to bully her.
But she is still very homesick, she has never been away from her parents when she is so old.
"Of course you can, but if you can't, how can Dad tell you?
Don't worry, girl, stay for a while, what can those people say? If someone really says something, just ignore them.
Besides, now that my daughter is a real college student, who of them would dare to talk nonsense anymore.
I'm the first one to refuse, and besides, my daughter is a college student now, and compared to your conditions now, the family is now, but no matter how different it is, they don't lick their faces and want to climb you.
But the child's father said something you don't like to hear. You must have been unintentional at the beginning, but that kid I think he definitely has a purpose, he just likes the little power in your father's hands.
Let me tell you, I've already inquired, and that kid is now a partner again, and I heard that the home conditions of the object he did are also very good!
You don't know, he is mad at his best friend's house.
I guess though. The family was not a last resort, and would never marry the child to him.
So if you run into that kid, you must not pay attention to him.
When you go back, you just have to go out and let your sister or someone follow you, and you can't make any more gossip. ”
Li Guoqiang did not hesitate for the sake of her daughter's lifelong happiness, and he discredited that kid and his family as worthless.