Chapter 395: The Truth of Feelings
With the strong backing of Lian Xin, Xiao Min's doctoral application came down quickly. Just in time for the start of spring school in January. Xiao Min was the only one in the class who applied for the start of school in the spring, so Lian Xin put more energy into her.
In mid-December, Xiao Min had to go to Yale to report, and now in early December, Lian Xin's daily life focuses on teaching, which is to worry about Xiao Min.
Since she told Su Ling in the bar that she would not tell Xiao Min any news, Lian Xin found out that Su Ling really didn't ask her about Xiao Min's situation at all. Although even if he asked, she wouldn't reveal it. But Su Ling didn't ask, did she think that this person didn't like and care about Xiao Min so much?
For feelings, Lian Xin figured out the truth by himself.
1. Even if you know that you are rejected, you have to try and act.
Take the matter of Su Ling and Xiao Min as an example, Xiao Min doesn't want to see Su Ling now, but it doesn't mean that he won't see him in the future. She and Jiang Yu at the beginning are the best examples. Sometimes women say that they are bored, but in their bones they still yearn for someone who can be good to them. Su Ling suddenly gave up, did he miss it.
2. Love can't just stay in words.
It's not that no one chased her before Jiang Yu, but these people! just said that he liked her, and never saw actual action. Is it because you are afraid that the cost of love is too high, and you only use words to tempt it? Or is it actually not at all, just like a blind date? The so-called blind date like like is to see that person is not bad, then like to see.
What is the point of a woman showing love just verbally. When men are paying attention to cost, women are also looking at cost. If a man who shows love to you doesn't even act, then why waste her feelings and time.
The above is just Lian Xin's own perception of feelings, not the same as all feelings.
For Xiao Min and Su Ling, although Lian Xin felt that it was a pity that Xiao Min broke up with her ex-boyfriend, but after getting along during this time, she felt that the boy didn't seem to have feelings for Xiao Min. Maybe it's her delusion. But this illusion made her unconsciously inclined to Su Ling.
From what she knew about Su Ling...
Yes, Su Ling seems to have a lot of love and has a lot of girlfriends. But he actually has another kind of loyalty to the relationship of Murong and the same paragraph.
Sometimes a man's amorous affection is just to hide his deep affection.
After a long time, Lian Xin deeply understood that the former Jiang Yu was the best elaboration of this sentence.
But these are just Lian Xin's own thoughts, without Xiao Min's permission, she didn't take the initiative to mention Su Ling.
Xiao Min is about to go abroad, and I don't know if Su Ling knows it. Yale is also Su Ling's alma mater.
Lian Xin saw that Xiaomin Mashan was about to go abroad, and he was a little disappointed in Su Ling, no, Su Ling came to save her disappointment immediately.
In the days when I helped Xiao Min get everything done and waited for the departure. One night, Lian Xin answered the phone in a daze:
"Sister-in-law, why do you say she doesn't like me? I love her so much, is she so indifferent? I miss her so much, I really want to..."
After finishing speaking, there was no sound on the phone, and even Xin, who didn't wake up, turned over and fell asleep.
When he got up the next day, Lian Xin completely forgot about the fact that he took the phone in the middle of the night.
On the day of Xiao Min's departure, before she left to send Xiao Min to the airport, when she turned on her mobile phone and was about to make a call, she found that she was:
Su Ling called her at around four o'clock in the morning two days ago!
Why is she not impressed at all???