[My 213 Life] 92: It's hard to make a heart-to-heart chapter
Somehow, in recent days, I have frequently thought of one of my few Tibetan poems that I had written for my friends, "Old Heart* Gift to Friends' Admiration and Wonder"——
"The misty stream shakes the soft boat, and the clouds are around the hair. Good mountains, good water, good jade skin, wonderful and boundless to keep guests. "Actually, when I wrote this Tibetan poem, it was just a joke, but some things that have happened recently have touched me a lot, some people who seem to be very pungent at the beginning become more cute the more they understand, and some people who seem to be very ladylike can only laugh at it, I am too superficial.
At the moment, we play with whoever we are happy with, and we don't want to be wronged and will be ourselves, but in fact, we are just lazy and lazy to manage our interpersonal relationships.
In fact, many people are not used to the spicy and stimulating taste when they first enter the throat, but as the jade syrup slides into the stomach and intestines, the taste that remains between the teeth and palate will be sweet and rich, and it will become more and more wonderful.
Some people are just the opposite, at the beginning is sweet and fragrant, but then it is extremely bitter, fast-paced we only taste the level of sweet fragrance and fragrance when we mistakenly treat this kind of people as best friends, but they only see us as usable passers-by, in love, marriage.
But there are also humanoids, whether they are at the beginning or in progress, or even after separation, they are all the same on the outside and on the inside, just like a flower that comes out of the mud and is not stained, seemingly quiet but elegant and fragrant; But like the distant stars on the dome, bright and warm, just like a lively bonfire party, such as my third sister.
I still remember when I was in high school, my dad somehow added a girl from the same school as me, and chatted happily, and even often praised this girl for how well-behaved and sensible she was, and then as expected, my dad let me know her, and she said her name
"Mengya". In fact, at that time, I was a little inferior, ugly and fat, so I was very cold to this fateful friend, but in fact, at that time
"I" is very eager to chat with her in my heart, maybe this is the taste of youth, but I pity my father's kindness.
I still remember when I first started work, I made a lot of mistakes in my work, but it was not the content of the work, but the emotional intelligence gap when working with colleagues, but this made me particularly memorable.
I remember that I was a simulated consultant at that time, and as a result, I asked a lot of questions that were messy and illogical, and the jumps were very large, so the response of my colleague was unsatisfactory, which made my colleague special
"Hate" me, but in fact it was the first time I consulted the problem, I have no experience and will not consult, I dare not admit that I was wrong for the sake of face, so if you can see it, remember that this is the truth of that matter.
P.S. You scolded me too much at the beginning, I am very manly, really manly! Now many years have passed, I know so many friends and girls, but I still don't know how to know a person the same as before.
So I seem to have a good relationship, but after I separated from my friends, no one took care of me anymore, because I didn't like to take the initiative and everyone had their own lives, and they didn't want to bother each other.
Because of this, many people would rather be with their mobile phones for a long time than ask a few friends to go out for a walk......