114 Brainwashing
After finishing speaking, Qian Yulan wiped her tears, smiled again, and apologized: "I'm sorry, Sister Zhao, I said these bad things again, sister, don't forget your heart, my sister is blessed, your father and mother protect you, and you will definitely be able to marry a good family." With-Dream- . lā”
Gao Zhao took her hand and comforted: "Sister Qian, don't be discouraged, there are still many good people in this world, my sister is blessed, you see that my aunt likes you the most, and always says that I want to grow up like you, Sister Qian, you have raised your body well, and you will give birth to a few big fat boys in a few years after entering the door, you see that your mother-in-law still doesn't offer you up." ”
Qian Yulan nodded with a tearful smile, every time Sister Zhao warmed her heart like this, she couldn't tell her grandmother when she was sad, crying grandmother would only make her more heartbroken, only Sister Zhao understood her and comforted her.
"Then can your mother come back? If your father has another concubine, what will your brother do? ”
"I asked my uncle and grandmother, and said that if my mother knew that she was wrong and stopped making trouble in half a year, she would let her come back, and then my uncle and grandmother would stay in my house for another half a year and then go back to the old house, and we had to stand up in the second room by ourselves, and we couldn't rely on my uncle and grandmother to help me for a lifetime, but unfortunately I didn't marry in the county, otherwise I could always watch and protect my brother."
Gao Zhao disagrees with this point of view, she can't be protected by her mother, and she has a sister to protect her, when will her younger brother grow up?
"I said Sister Qian, what your brother needs is growth, not to protect the pain, yes, you are afraid that your aunt will give birth to a concubine, and your brother will have a hard time in the future, in fact, maybe he will know what's wrong? Of course, it's true that you can't be bullied, but you can't protect your brother because you pity your brother, for fear that your sister-in-law will be affected, so your brother won't grow up when he gets old. When people get married, they have to bear their daughters-in-law and children, and those sons and daughters who are protected by them take their daughters-in-law and children to rely on their mothers and sisters when they get married? Does Sister Qian want to marry her younger brother? Your Qian family still has to rely on your younger brother to support the door, not on your foreign daughter. ”
Qian Yulan was stunned, she didn't expect this layer, after all, she was a little girl, and Gao Zhao was an old core pretending to be tender, and in her previous life, she saw a lot of gnawing on her father's mother and her sister's younger brother, isn't it a habit for her father and mother to be a sister's protector and protector?
Gao Zhao leaned forward again and said: "Sister Qian, while your mother is not there, you haven't gone out yet, teach your younger brother well, that is, men have to be responsible, they have to support a family, and when they become sisters, they have to rely on their brothers." ”
Qian Yulan also sometimes told Gao Zhao that she hated her brother and was spoiled by her mother, but Gao Zhao felt that she was affected by her mother, even if she married in the future, she would have to be responsible for her younger brother and pay for her younger brother.
In the past, Gao Zhao was not easy to say, and he just took this opportunity to say it thoroughly, otherwise Qian Yulan would marry in the future, saying that she didn't care about her mother's family, no matter her mother, she could still be hard-hearted, but for her younger brother, she would definitely not say anything, and she would have to let her brother gnaw on her for the rest of her life, which would make her embarrassed in her mother-in-law's family.
Just like the Gao family to the Jiang family, the two families are still exchanging gifts, and the Jiang family has always given a lot, if the mother is like Mrs. Qian, can the aunt be willing? Even a father wouldn't let his mother do that. It's not selfishness, it's the way of life.
Qian Yulan nodded thoughtfully, Gao Zhao continued to brainwash: "My foreign family does well, so my aunt likes people from my foreign family, and several of my uncles are helping my mother, although it is from the countryside, there is no valuable, but the property in the countryside is not less for my family, of course, your uncles have also taken things for your family, but has that love been remembered on your mother's head?" Didn't you say that your grandmother said that all of your foreign families are good except for your mother, does Sister Qian want her future in-laws to say how your mother's brother's family is? ”
"Yes, my uncle is good to me and my brother, every time I come to see my father, I am accompanied by a smile, my father and my uncle are my mother's ......"
Qian Yulan didn't say anything, and she couldn't say or didn't want to say how her mother treated her, she was sad when she said it, she touched the marks on her neck, and that time it broke her heart thoroughly.
Gao Zhao had long noticed that she was wearing a high-necked skirt, probably to cover the scars on her neck, poor Sister Qian, just pity her, so she had to brainwash her, she couldn't dedicate herself to her brother in the future, vomiting blood and complaining that there was less dedication.
"Look at my two younger brothers, I have taught them since I was a child, the eldest sister will rely on the two of you in the future, not only the eldest sister, but also Qiaoyun, they all say that marrying a daughter depends on their mother's brother, so let them fight hard, even if they can't get into the show, even if they can't show their talents, they have to cut wood to support their daughters-in-law and children, and they have to help the married sisters, and they have to let them know from an early age that they are manly, they are the support of their sisters, and they are the support of their parents for the elderly. Didn't anyone say that they were waiting for the eldest sister to marry someone to help them? I also feel sorry for my brother, and if I get married, I will definitely help my mother's family, but I can't say this to them too early, don't let them have an expectation since they were young, and wait for their sister to help. ”
Qian Yulan thought back to herself, hugged her brother and cried bitterly, saying that her sister would protect him in the future, saying that she would protect him when her sister got married, her brother's expectant eyes, her brother never said a word, when she was a brother, she would protect her sister, because no one told him, what my mother has always said is that you will rely on your sister in the future, and what my mother said to herself is that your brother will rely on you, you have to remember that you are sisters and brothers of the same mother, you are a sister, and you must take care of your younger brother.
She has always felt that she has to take care of her brother, no matter how old he is in the future, he will also be her brother.
"My aunt loves my brother, who doesn't know this? But if my brother makes a mistake, my aunt will teach them the same way, and let my aunt say that if anyone ruins the descendants of the Gao family, she will dare hard! ”
"I also teach my younger brother, but with my mother's protection, he doesn't listen to me." How could Qian Yulan not know what this meant, that is, she was powerless.
Gao Zhao came up with an idea: "While your mother is away, you have to instill it in your brother, you have to tell him what is wrong, don't feel distressed, you have to be punished, you have to be punished, I am happy to bully Uncle Shizhu with others when I was a child, my aunt beat him well, Uncle Shizhu has a bad brain, so he will bully casually?" Happy that will be small, you know? Seeing other children do it, they also do it, but my aunt told him about the basic morality of being a man, anyway, he talked a lot, so he had to let Xing Xing apologize to Uncle Shizhu, and after he came back, he slowly reasoned with him, what should be done and what should not be done, and he should pity the old, weak, sick and disabled. ”..
Qian Yulan thought that her younger brother had bullied Uncle Shizhu and went home to learn her tongue, her mother not only did not reprimand, but also listened with a smile, she didn't know well, and if she wanted to talk about her brother, her mother scolded her for teaching her brother a lesson for being a fool?
No wonder outsiders say that the children of the Gao family know how to be polite and well-educated.