Zhang Yueying couldn't help but burst into tears when she came here, compared to those material things. She was even more touched by the fact that her mother had always cared about her, and it was really nice to have her mother's care.

Then she began to read the contents of the letter again.

"Moon Shadow, in fact, we women are very difficult in married life. The current marriage is too unfair to women, the property of the in-laws has nothing to do with themselves, and the property of the mother's family has nothing to do with themselves, and they have to get pregnant and have children, do housework, take care of their in-laws and their parents, and the man only needs to earn money, and the key money does not belong to the woman.

And how can there be so many strong women among women? I have to take care of my family and work, and the divorced woman basically leaves the house, and she has spent most of her life, and her youth is gone.

How many women in this world will be forced to be cornered, and there are many men who have cheated, plus there is no need to worry about the division of divorced property now, and it is even more unscrupulous, many women are unwilling to swallow their anger and live a life, or they are clean and out of the house.

Mom estimates that there will be more and more girls who are unwilling to get married and have children in the future.

I think that in today's society, there is a serious difference in the ratio of men and women, and then there are more and more divorces, more and more cheating, and there will be more and more women who are not filial to their in-laws and do not care about their families.

So even if you live a little selfish in the future, no one will accuse you, I don't want my daughter to be a good wife and mother in the eyes of the old man. The cost of being a good wife and mother is too great, and it may even be unaffordable for women.

Mom said this not to ask you to refuse marriage, nor to make you disrespectful to your in-laws, I just want to tell you that in marriage, it is better for women to be selfish, and women must have their own careers, so that they can be invincible.

My mother wants you not to give up your job for the sake of raising children and for the sake of your family. A woman's work is the best guarantee and future for a woman.

Also, Mom wants you to have an extra heart at all times.

Don't listen to the man's words I will support you, and you will happily give up your job and become a housewife.

Mom thinks that there is no guarantee of being a housewife in today's society, and Mom hopes that in the future when the marriage is particularly stable and someone helps to take care of the children, Mom hopes to have another child. Otherwise, it will be very hard for you to work and have children at the same time.

Besides, it is very easy for women to get old when they are tired like this, men are visual animals, and few men will become yellow-faced women because of women's dedication to the family, and they do not dislike their wives who have become bloated because of the family's hard work, and the wrinkled face.

Mom said this, I just hope that you will have an extra heart no matter what the situation. Don't believe it, the man's so-called sweet words, those sweetness are unreliable.

Also, don't be fooled by that nonsense. Some people say that after a woman gets married, if you treat your mother-in-law as your own mother and be filial, then she will treat you as her own daughter.

Daughter, mom is here to tell you that your mother-in-law, she will never be your mother, and she will never treat you as a daughter.

Maybe she will be nice to you usually, but you have to remember that once it touches her or her son's interests, or because of any relationship, the first to be given up, the first to be hurt is definitely yourself.

For my parents-in-law, my practice has always been to pay filial piety during the New Year's holidays, and when they have a headache and brain fever, live in a hospital or something, send the nutritional products that should be bought, take the money that should be spent, invite the nurses who should be invited, and visit them. To put it in a very appropriate way, it is a gentleman's friendship.

Take out the attitude you should have towards your elders, but don't take it personally. If you really get past it, you're going to get hurt.

Mom wishes you a smooth and prosperous life.

By the way, if you have any difficulties, be sure to tell Monana that she can basically help you solve your difficulties as long as she has time. ”

Zhang Yueying read the letter, and couldn't calm down for a long time. In the end, she decided to postpone her wedding with Liu Dekai, and she decided to think about it again.

It's just that her mother may have thought too simply, and Miss Monana, even if she was an illegitimate daughter, was born into a large family. is also a rich second generation from a top family, like these people have a lot of eyes like a sieve, if she has difficulties, will she really help herself sincerely? And if she wanted to, would she have the time to help herself?

Forget it, don't think about that. In fact, for those ordinary girls, their starting point is already very high. He is a graduate of a well-known university, has a lot of savings, and in the big city of Shanghai, he also bought a garage in full. Be content!

Even with what you have now, it is something that ordinary people may not be able to have in their lifetime. If you don't live happily in the future, then you're too useless!

Let's have a good rest! Tomorrow is a new beginning. Although I don't plan to be a strong woman, I do have to work hard. Only by occupying your own place in the workplace can you survive better.

She made a phone call to Monana, and sure enough, the bell rang for a long time, but no one answered, so she switched to the automatic voice function, and she left a message for Nana, if there was a chance, the two of them could go shopping together.

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Early the next morning, Li Na got up early to worship her grandmother.

Of course, because Mo Shen has never liked this kind of entertainment, and besides, he is only entertaining Li Na's bad relatives, so Li Na has to go alone.

Fortunately, she and her cousin agreed yesterday that the two of them would go to the sacrifice together, and the two of them still had a companion together.

When I went to worship my grandmother, there were still some small episodes.

When they got there, it stands to reason that his uncle and aunts should have been there early.

When they arrived, only Li Na's aunt and a few of her sisters-in-law were there.

Her aunts and uncles weren't there, and they didn't know where they were, and the whole scene was very deserted.

Fortunately, Li Na and her cousin agreed yesterday that no matter what scene they saw today, the two of them would not get angry or speak.

It's just a little embarrassing that because her aunt and uncle aren't there, they can't even pay for it.

It's just that this scene is so deserted that there are almost no people to sacrifice. This saves them from worrying about being found out and looking for trouble.

After they waited here for nearly two hours, Li Na's uncles and aunts arrived here belatedly. also found the account room, Li Na sneered, because she felt that this account room was not needed at all, how many people came to pay tribute to her grandmother?

Li Na and Wang Yumei were cold, and each paid five yuan to the account room for sacrifice.

The whole scene was very depressing and angry, which made Li Na feel a little breathless.

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