Chapter 380: Whether to cross the river or not

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So I planned to go back.

Say goodbye to a few people and walk back alone. But on the day he returned home, his mother-in-law happened to marry off his fiancΓ©e. When he saw that he had returned, he was afraid that he would make trouble, so he called him to a room and had drinks brought to him.

Seeing that glass of wine, he suddenly thought of the words of that Xiucai: a pond of clear water, but no fish.

When his mother-in-law heard him, she thought that he was talking about having wine and not food, so she asked someone to bring him food.

When the appetizer came up, the person who brought the appetizer forgot to take the chopsticks. So, the scholar said again: It's a pond of fish, and there is no net to fight.

When his mother-in-law heard this, combined with everything in front of her, she thought that the chopsticks had not yet come. I asked someone to get chopsticks again.

After eating and drinking, the scholar was leaving. But he was stopped by his father-in-law, because he heard his wife say that the child was already promising. So he gave his daughter-in-law back to him.

After Jiang Yu'er finished speaking, one of the sisters was expressionless, and the other had a strange face. In the end, Ngawang, who was driving the car outside the door, laughed. The sisters were still confused: "Sister, aren't you telling a joke?" Why don't I feel like it at all? "Flowers are the most naughty, and they like to ask about everything.

Only Min'er was still there, wondering why Ngawang was smiling.

Jiang Yu'er was a little speechless when Hua'er asked, so she said again: "If there is anything funny, you can think about it yourself slowly when the time comes!" ”

Hua'er muttered: "My sister is the most annoying, I like to sell Guanzi!" ”

Min Kui woke up a little sleepy-eyed: "Sister, why didn't you call me when you told the story just now?" ”

Jiang Yu'er reached out and pulled him over, and found a wet towel to wipe his face to make him sober up. "Quill wants to hear it too?"

Min Kui suddenly fell asleep, nodded and said, "Mmmm! ”

"Well, my sister will tell Quill the story of a pony crossing the river." For children, Jiang Yuer likes to tell him some more philosophical fairy tales. There are some things that adults can't give him, so he can only realize them slowly.

"The pony and his mother live by a very beautiful river with green grass. Except when his mother crossed the river to deliver food to the village on the other side of the river, he always followed his mother's side and never left him...... Jiang Yu'er tirelessly told the story of the pony crossing the river, and several children also listened to it with great interest.

"Sister, you say, will the pony really drown in the end?" Min Kui seemed to have been brought into the story, and asked a little nervously.

In fact, they are all kind children, and no one wants to see tragedy happen.

"Don't talk, wait for my sister to finish!" Hua'er gave her brother the words she had just been taught by Jiang Yu'er.

"Oh!" Although Min Kui was very curious, he still listened to it.

Pony and Mom come to the river again, and Mom lets Pony test the river for herself. The pony cautiously probed and flowed across the river step by step. Oh, he understood, the river was neither as shallow as Uncle Niu said it was, nor as deep as the little squirrel said. You will only know if you have tried it yourself. Jiang Yu'er finished telling the story.

"Quill, what do you think you've learned from this story?" Jiang Yu'er held Min Kui in her arms and asked softly.

The little guy tilted his head and thought for a while, "Everything has to be a step-by-step process, and you can't rush it. No elephant eats a single bite, and nothing comes to fruition without going through! ”

Jiang Yu'er was a little surprised, and asked him what he thought after hearing this story. Although his answer was somewhat incorrect, Jiang Yu'er thought of another place. The little guy just took the story he told him as a story.

And just now, he was taught by Hua'er to wait carefully for the things he listened to, but he summed up such a truth. Jiang Yuer really didn't know whether to cry or laugh.

Facts, what he said is indeed the truth. To be a man, you have to look for gradually, and you can't eat a fat person in one bite.

However, why didn't he experience the feelings in the story, and everything had to be verified for himself to know? Can't you just listen to what others say?

Jiang Yu'er looked at Hua'er and Min'er again: "Hua'er, Min'er, what do you two think?" "She didn't say who's right and who's wrong. Because, the answer she wanted, Min Kui had already given her. Although some of the answers are not the answers, isn't this what he can understand through this story?

Hua'er thought for a while and said, "Sister, I think you can't listen to the opinions of people in everything, you should experience it yourself, and then you can know the final result, is it feasible?" ”

"Hmm!" Jiang Yuer didn't say it right, and she didn't say it wrong. You looked at Min'er, who hadn't spoken: "Min'er! ”

Min'er raised her head, looked at Jiang Yu'er fixedly, and said, "Sister! Min'er is not as smart as her younger siblings, but Min'er personally feels that while listening to the opinions of others, she should also observe the surrounding environment, and whether she has met the conditions? Although my sister said that she would not be the first to eat crabs, if there was no person who was the first to eat crabs, how would we know that crabs could be eaten? There are some things that may be safer to follow others, but how can you know the joy of success if you haven't experienced it yourself? ”

After listening to Min'er's words, Jiang Yu'er's eyes suddenly lit up, and she was very satisfied with this answer. Although there are some mistakes and omissions, it seems that at present, the most thoughtful answer.

After listening to Min'er Hua'er's words, Min Kui didn't hear the voice praising himself, and immediately hugged Jiang Yu'er's arm and said coquettishly: "Sister, let's three, who is right?" With a flattering face, it seemed as if he was waiting for Jiang Yu'er to praise him.

It is said that daughters are pampered, and men are strictly educated. Jiang Yu'er is a little pampered to Jiang Ziming, but there are some things that will still tell him if it is wrong.

Of course, in the face of a child who is less than five years old, Jiang Yu'er will still educate tirelessly: "Kui'er, what the three of you said today is very reasonable. There is no real right or wrong in literature. Everything has to be understood by yourself. The deepest answer is the most correct answer you want. Sometimes, what we say may be wrong for others, but this is our own understanding. There are also some things that may have been misinterpreted by yourself, and you have to listen to the opinions of others. ”

"Of course, we still have to learn to distinguish between right and wrong, although there is no clear boundary between right and wrong, we should also take other people's views, and then combine the scene at the time, understand one thing in many aspects, and do one thing well. Got it? Jiang Yu'er touched the little guy's head.

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