"Then why did you break up all of a sudden?"

Although Xiao Min and her boyfriend have not been together for a long time, their relationship has always been very good. I heard that the two have known each other for a long time, and they were together in their senior year, and then in order not to separate, they were admitted to the graduate school of C University together.

In addition to eating hot pot once, Lian Xin remembered that the boy also accompanied Xiao Min to class a few times. The appearance looks in contrast to the lively Xiaomin, but complementarity is also a standard for couples.

Xiao Min shook his head: "He said that he had his reasons, and I didn't want to force him." Hello everyone, let's get together and disperse! ”

There was too much sadness between Xiao Min's eyebrows, and even Xin didn't know what to say, so she had to comfort her and say: "The teacher has no experience, if one party in a relationship doesn't want to go on, then let it go." entangled, both sides are uncomfortable. ”

Xiao Min pulled a faint smile: "Teacher, I'm fine." ”

Lian Xin nodded: "Well, the teacher knows." So, do you wonder if it's because you want to go abroad for a change of environment? ”

"Hmmm! It doesn't seem like there's anything to worry about, so maybe it's good to go abroad. ”

Although Xiao Min looked very sad, Lian Xin couldn't help but hit her and said, "Xiao Min, although the teacher can understand your current mood, he has to remind you of the real situation." Starting in September, you are only in your second year of research, and it is impossible to go out right away, so the argument of changing the environment may not have much effect. If you can't let go, try again, don't run away. Emotions aside, do you want to go abroad? ”

Xiao Min shook his head: "I don't know." ”

On the question of whether to go abroad, she will be entangled, and a big reason is that her relationship has changed. It seems that without scruples, she can no longer think too much about the factors to pursue what she wants. But everyone has a comfort zone, and she's afraid to take that step.

"As a person who has come over, if the teacher thinks that there is a chance, let's go out for a while! Get a feel for the academic environment outside. I have to say that the top research and teachers in our discipline are still abroad. ”

"Teacher, am I too unpursued?"

Xiao Min felt as if she was judging her life path only by her feelings.

"No, everyone thinks differently. Some people just want to be just a housewife, husband and child. Some people want to leave a permanent mark on this world. So, ask yourself inside and do what you want to do most. Others can only give you advice, not help you make decisions. ”

"Teacher, I see."

"If you decide to go out, prepare in advance so that you don't get scramble."

"Good! I'll think about it. ”

"If you don't understand, feel free to ask the teacher."

As a person who has come over, Lian Xin is very familiar with the process.

Xiao Min nodded: "Okay"

"By the way, teacher, there is something I should trouble you."

"What's the matter?"

"If Su Ling asks about me, can you help me keep it secret? There's really nothing between me and him, but some things are too complicated for me to say. I don't want to have anything to do with him, though. ”

"Okay, the teacher promises you."

It seems that the relationship between Xiao Min and Su Ling is indeed not simple, but the parties don't say it, Lian Xin feels that there is no need to get to the bottom of it, and just ridicule it occasionally.

"Teacher, tell me about your previous study abroad!"

Xiao Min thought that it would be easier to make a decision if she knew more.

"Okay!"

Lian Xin relied on his memory to talk to Xiao Min little by little about the past.