Chapter 481: Marriage Events

Although Yu Xiaobao has been working with Schneider for a long time, he has learned more technical things, and the interpersonal relationship handling at work is relatively weak. This is not because he is sluggish, but because his job position is relatively special, after all, Schneider was the leader of the Guangzhou Office and one of the nine elders of the Executive Committee at that time, and what he said was a word, and no one would question or oppose it, and Yu Xiaobao, who was with him, also got some shade, and ordinary naturalized people also respected him. Now that I have been transferred from the SCO to Hong Kong Island, some problems in work experience will gradually be exposed.

Yu Dashan's arrival undoubtedly made up for Yu Xiaobao's shortcomings in this regard, and he was able to stand out from the dozens of people who took refuge in Haihan in the small fishing village to grow into the first batch of senior naturalized cadres, and it was not just luck to rise up. Although Yu Dashan has no culture, and after receiving two years of literacy education, he only knows three or four hundred commonly used words, but there is no doubt that he does have some talent in terms of work ability, and not every naturalized citizen can quickly be competent in management work, and Yu Dashan has adapted to the environment well from the beginning and has made satisfactory results to his superiors.

As for the future prospects, Yu Dashan sees very clearly that the foundation of Haihan in Sanya can no longer be shaken, even the Ming Empire can't do it, and Haihan's continuous external expansion will sooner or later form a new regime. Although Yu Dashan did not know whether Haihan would have an emperor in the future, whether there was an emperor or not, Haihan's development prospects were obviously much better than those of the weak and powerless Daming. And the person who realizes the great goal of honoring the ancestors for the Yu family probably has to fall on his father and son, specifically, that is Yu Xiaobao, who has just come of age and is deeply loved by the high-level of Haihan.

However, compared to mentioning Yu Xiaobao at work, Yu Dashan has more important things in his heart and plans to take this opportunity to talk to Yu Xiaobao.

"Xiaobao, unconsciously, you are also over eighteen years old, this day flies so fast!" Yu Dashan pretended to sigh and began to introduce the topic: "You have lived alone in Guangzhou for the past two years, and there is no one to take care of you, it's not easy outside, right?"

"It's good to get used to it, the chief said that when people are young, they should exercise more outside, and only by living independently can their minds become mature......" Yu Xiaobao paused, and changed his words: "It's you, Dad, you are alone in Sanya, and it shouldn't be easy to have an empty home, right?"

When Yu Dashan heard this, he felt that the taste was wrong, and he frowned and asked, "What do you kid want to say?"

Yu Xiaobao put down the peanuts in his hand and said: "In the early years, the days were hard, dad, you cut down on food and clothing to pull the child up, and now the old lady has passed away for more than ten years, and the family situation is also better, dad, are you thinking about finding another partner?"

"You kid is quite lenient!" Yu Dashan reacted at this time, daring his son was worrying about Lao Tzu's life.

Yu Xiaobao said: "Dad, this is not a child's troubles, the child is in Guangzhou all the year round, and there is no one around you who can take care of you......"

"Stop, stop!" Yu Dashan shook his head again and again and interrupted Yu Xiaobao's words: "You listen to me first!"

Seeing Yu Xiaobao obediently shut up, Yu Dashan said solemnly: "You have reached the age of eighteen, I think my father has already married your mother at your current age! This marriage event is also time to think about it! Let me ask you, do you have any plans now?"

Yu Xiaobao was stunned and said: "The child has no plans to ...... right now."

"Don't plan to, well, then you can listen carefully!" Yu Dashan tapped his fingers lightly on the table, and said word by word: "Now our family is also a cadre with a head and a face in Sanya, and you don't worry about marriage yourself, and there are people outside who help you think about it." For most of this year, there have been seventeen or eighteen cases of people coming to the door to directly say yes and asking people to inquire about the news. Dad, I'm thinking that you're almost old, it's time to think about it, and I'm going to help you find a suitable family affair to settle down, what do you think?"

"This ......" Yu Xiaobao didn't expect that he had come out for the past two years, but he had become a sought-after fragrant bun in Sanya. He touched his head and asked a little embarrassedly, "Daddy, are you kidding?

"No kidding, it's true!" Yu Dashan nodded very sternly and said: "Although our Yu family is not a rich family, but now you and I are both people who work for the chief, so we have to pay attention to the right people." Therefore, I rejected all those families who had not even gotten their naturalized citizenship not long after coming to Sanya, as well as those families of the Li and Miao ethnic groups who had not moved out of the mountainous areas. ”

Yu Xiaobao has no objection to this, since the naturalization restrictions of Haihan began to be restricted, some people have come up with all kinds of strange ideas to obtain naturalization. And in addition to joining the army, there is also a very simple and easy way to marry naturalized people and even Haihan people.

Under the existing civil administration system, after the completion of such a marriage, the direct blood relatives of the non-naturalized party have the right to decide for themselves whether or not to join the naturalized family. This is undoubtedly a very feasible shortcut for new immigrants who have no one in their family to join the militia and are eager to obtain naturalized citizenship. A significant number of newcomers have obtained naturalized citizenship in a short period of time in a similar way, and have been able to enjoy the benefits and benefits that are exclusive to Haihan naturalized people earlier than their competitors.

In a situation like the Yu family, there is no drag on one big and one small, the two fathers and sons are both cadres who are reused, and there are no women in the family, for some people, the conditions are simply so good that they are impeccable, and it is strange if they don't take the initiative to come to the door. And the people who came to propose marriage were far more than just saying that Yu Xiaobao was a match, but more of them were coming to Yu Dashan. The reason is also very simple, Yu Dashan is not yet forty years old, and he can be regarded as a prime of life, and the range that he can accept as a widower is much larger than that of Yu Xiaobao, a young man. In fact, the people who have given Yu Dashan a matchmaker through various means and relationships are far more than the people who have given Yu Xiaobao a matchmaker.

And it was precisely because Yu Dashan encountered such a situation of sending marriage to the door that he moved the idea of setting up a family affair for Yu Xiaobao as soon as possible. He knew that although he and Yu Xiaobao had been reused by the Haihan chiefs at present, after all, there were only two people in the family, and no matter how well they mixed, they were still weak.

Yu Xiaobao didn't know that the situation in Sanya had developed to such a point, for him, the matter of starting a family didn't seem to be more urgent at the moment, and he needed to do his best to complete the task, after all, the few traversers he had contacted the most so far were all single. Subtly, Yu Xiaobao's attention to this matter is far less than that of his father.

Yu Xiaobao didn't have much psychological preparation for this, and after listening to Yu Dashan's description, he was silent for a while before asking tentatively: "Then you have rejected a lot, and there should be few left, right?"

"That's more!" Yu Dashan saw that his son didn't seem to show disgust, and the situation relaxed at the moment, and he counted them one by one: "I'll just talk about a few families with better conditions, the first one, Zhang Tiangui's niece, the old Zhang family and our family can also be regarded as a good match, but his niece is from Guangdong not long ago, and the specific situation is not too clear to me, so I have to inquire about this back." The second one, the second daughter of Tailor Wang, the manager of Shengli Harbor Department Store, is three years younger than you. The third, Zhan Zheying, the daughter of maritime businessman Zhan Gui, has nothing to say about their family conditions, and it is said that Zhan Gui is now cooperating with the Ministry of Security, and he is also his own person, but his daughter is a little younger, she is only ten years old, and she has to wait a few years to get married. The fourth ......"

"Wait, wait, wait, dad, don't talk about it yet......" Yu Xiaobao shook his head and waved his hand: "I don't think it's right about this!

"This is your lifelong event, and it is the www.biquge.info of our Yu family's prosperous Biqu Pavilion in the future, can you not be cautious?" Yu Dashan reprimanded with hatred: "If this object is selected well, it can also help you get promoted all the way to prosperity in the future, if you don't pick it well, it may drag you back!"

"Dad, I haven't seen you for a long time, but the child didn't notice that you have become an official fan!" Yu Xiaobao joked half-jokingly.

"What nonsense!" Yu Dashan raised his hand and gestured, and only after seeing his son habitually holding his head did he put down his hand stupidly: "Your kid is also a cadre with a head and a face now, and you can't raise your hand to fight like before, you have to save some face." ”

"If you want to fight, you can fight, the child's body is solid, it's okay!" Yu Xiaobao responded with a smile.

"Let's get down to business! Nowadays, there are still many people with good conditions, and I have also asked the chiefs for their opinions, and they said that it is better for you to decide, not to ...... Bao ......" Yu Dashan couldn't remember that word, and he was speechless for a while.

"You can't arrange a marriage!" Yu Xiaobao reminded in time.

"Yes, yes, that's it!" Yu Dashan continued: "The leaders said that in the future, it is still permissible to propose marriage, but it is better to consult the opinions of the children, so as not to be unhappy after marriage." I'm thinking that your kid is close to the chiefs, maybe he thinks the same as the chiefs in this regard, if he settles things for you in Sanya, it is estimated that your kid will definitely make trouble. So take advantage of this opportunity to come and work, and ask you what your plans are first. ”

Yu Xiaobao responded: "My plan? My plan is that I don't have a plan." Daddy, the child hasn't thought about starting a family now, what can he do?"

"There are always a number of girls you like, right? tall and short, fat and thin, black and white, you name a rough, I can also ask someone to be a matchmaker. Yu Dashan patiently continued to ask.

"This ...... I ...... "Yu Xiaobao encountered such a situation for the first time, Rao is usually smart and clever, but he couldn't answer his father's questioning.

"If you have no opinion, then I'll help you get an idea when you go back!" Yu Dashan picked up the bowl and drank the wine: "It's not too early, wash and sleep, you have to work on the dock at dawn tomorrow, but you don't have time to sleep!"

Although Yu Xiaobao felt that there was something wrong with this matter, he habitually didn't want to question his father's decision, so he had to not respond too much for the time being.

As soon as the sky dawned, there were militia soldiers standing on the sentry tower and blowing the call to get up, and then the civil affairs cadres in each residential area began to carry the gong to ring the mountain, so that those people who still hadn't woken up quickly got up.

According to the regulations, the people who woke up first went to the public pool to quickly wash up, and then took their own dishes and chopsticks to the door of the canteen to line up for breakfast to be distributed.

After blowing the time to get up and burn incense, four long queues have been discharged at the entrance of the canteen, which has been converted from a few brick houses in the local area. Nearly 1,000 laborers currently living here, as well as Haihan cadres, naturalized workers, and a company of militia soldiers who supervise their work, all receive food here. Of course, the type of food you can get varies depending on your class.

For example, ordinary laborers only have a bowl of vegetable porridge and a coarse steamed bun, while third-level laborers, that is, those at the foreman level, can have an extra salted dried fish. Senior cadres like the Yu family's father and son, as well as militia soldiers, also enjoy better treatment, and there is no limit to the amount of food they can eat, and they can eat as much as they want.

As for the food of the traverser, it is made separately by the canteen, and as long as the logistics department can get the high-protein food of eggs and milk, it will definitely appear on the table of the traverser. As for other foods such as preserved egg and lean pork porridge and toast, they are all popular choices for travelers. Of course, in order to avoid the dissatisfaction of some people with this manifestation of class differences, the place where the travelers ate did not find a random place to squat outside, as ordinary people do, but had a special canteen for the chief's use - in fact, it was just a large military tent.

However, when there are very few travelers like the local people, the tents are often in a relatively empty state, so high-ranking cadres like the Yu family father and son are fortunate to be allowed to enter the place reserved for the chiefs to dine together - this is definitely a long-lasting benefit for the Haihan naturalized people.

"You do a good job, after the project here is completed, the executive committee will definitely reward you for your merits. When the time comes, cadres like you father and son will definitely be beneficial. Liu Shanxia said with a smile to the respectful Yu family father and son.