Li Na listened quietly to Zhang Yueying while having dinner with Zhang Yueying, Zhang Yueying is a very lively and talkative girl. She can liven up the atmosphere by herself. And Li Na is a good listener for her.

And Zhang Yueying, even she doesn't know what the reason is, she has always been very wary of people, and she is willing to put all kinds of small troubles in her heart. And everything is for Monana on the other side. Maybe this is the so-called fate that people say, or the wonderful family relationship between them!

The roses on their dining table exude a faint fragrance, neither strong nor demonic, and the atmosphere of their conversation at this time is more harmonious and calm, Li Na and their mother and daughter are like a pair of old friends who have not seen each other for many years, talking about everything and talking eloquently.

"Nana, I'm really scared of getting married, because I feel that the marriage law is becoming less and less protective of women.

Moreover, I am because of Liu Dehai's attitude towards his parents. I don't know why it's here, but now, their attitude is much better than before.

But I also felt a little uncomfortable in my heart, but I was reluctant to let go of this relationship. Zhang Yueying mentioned her boyfriend Liu Dekai and said a little depressed.

"Moon Shadow, you're actually on pretty good terms. I think you just need to have your mind clear.

Don't give up your job because of marriage, and work hard for your career.

And if you have a garage and those fixed deposits, don't be hot, and be told that the company at home has difficulties in operation or any other reason, you can happily take it out and give them emergency help, then you should have a good life in the future.

If you get married, don't you still have to be just for your premarital property? I think that's a good thing.

You can do the same! If he really encounters any difficulties in the future, and you are really soft-hearted, you can ask him to make an IOU.

Although this is a bit hurtful, it can best protect your interests and not be calculated, so this marriage, you can attack and retreat. ”

Li Na thought for a moment and said, "Moon Shadow, you must not be confused. When I got married, I went to school, and I quit my job.

You can't be coaxed by Liu Dekai to give you all these things to others.

I've heard that some stupid women are coaxed by their own men, and for the sake of that so-called relationship, they give their mother's garage or dowry or something? It was given to the man unconditionally. I think that kind of woman is extremely pathetic, and it is even very likely that she will be dumped by him and her man in the end.

Don't think I'm joking, bad things happen all over the country.

I'm not saying that your boyfriend is bad, I just want you to be more mindful. lest there be future tragedy.

When the time comes, you think about you as a woman who has no job, no appearance, no skills, no resources and connections, except for a belly of resentment, and does not have many bright spots, and may even carry a drag oil bottle. Then in the future. If you want to marry a good man, how easy is it? It's not easy to find a job! ”

"Nana, you're right, the marriage law only protects the propertied person, whether you are a woman or not, and no matter how much you pay in marriage." In fact, for Zhang Yueying, she has read books for so many years, and she understands the essence of the current marriage law better than Li Na.

"Nana, that is to say, the current marriage law is more and more emphasizing what you have and what I protect you. You don't have anything, I'm sorry, don't ask for it, you don't want it. Having it yourself is the biggest royal road. ”

"Yes! Moon Shadow: You've analyzed it too thoroughly. You're also a girl with a little asset, right? As long as you carry it yourself, you won't be deceived. You don't have to worry about what will hurt you in your marriage.

And I now think that the current change in the concept of marriage and the marriage law is of course bad news for women who don't want to be self-reliant and want to be supported by men.

However, for a self-reliant, self-reliant, independent girl like you, who has a car and a house, it will give you more confidence and more dignity.

So Moon Shadow, don't be depressed, I think you'll be happy.

Your boyfriend has some thoughts, though. But I heard you say this and his love history, and he is quite sincere to you.

Besides, how can there be people in this world who have no selfishness, this is a normal phenomenon.

If you really don't have the slightest selfishness, then you are saints, not ordinary people. ”

Li Na smiled, she thought that the boy named Liu Dekai was quite good to Zhang Yueying? After all, the conditions of Zhang Yueying's family, she knows better what is going on.

Liu Dekai is also a native of Shanghai anyway. The family also opened a small company, which is quite good.

He can take a fancy to Zhang Yueying, a girl from a small place out of town, except for liking her, there will definitely be no other reason.

Liu Dekai is a little selfish, it is indeed a normal phenomenon, in this world, who dares to guarantee that he loves his partner without a little selfishness?

"But, Moon Shadow, if you do get married in the future. Some property and housework relationships still have clear boundaries.

I've heard about this on the Internet, and I think it makes perfect sense. Li Na paused and told Zhang Yueying what she had seen.

"Today's marriage is a cooperation, and the premise of cooperation is that we have the same resources, the same ability, and the same output, so that we can share the financial resources and risks.

Otherwise, it's just parasitizing and being parasitized, and being fostered and being fostered.

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, they are all human beings in nature. We all want not to be taken advantage of. I also hope that the other party can get along with me as an equal.

After all, human nature is selfish, and if you divide your property, you will be more or less muttering.

If it is serious, it will turn its face and break directly. Mildly, it will bury hidden dangers and cause problems in the marriage.

Whether it's a ticket, a car, or a house, if you want it, you can earn it yourself! ”

"Well, then you see that the passage you just saw is so good, it really fits our reality. Where did you see it? Zhang Yueying asked involuntarily.

"That's who I am. I read the headlines before you came to me, and I forgot who the author was, but I think what he said made a lot of sense. ”

Li Na said casually, she felt that Zhang Yueying's mind was quite clear. That Liu Dekai wants to get her in the future, take Li Na to take a look, his chance is definitely not big.

However, Li Na had a good impression of Liu Dekai's friend, the man named Mu Linyong. That person, whether it is doing business or dealing with people, looks much stronger than that Liu Dekai.

But when it comes to feelings, who can say for sure? She can't call the shots for Zhang Yueying. Besides, even if she wants to make decisions for Zhang Yueying. The boy named Mu Linyong doesn't necessarily like Zhang Yueying, right?

Besides, when she saw that the family conditions of the person named Mu Linyong were very good.

Zhang Yueying really married into their family, and it may not be better than now! Because Li Na knows that in today's society, she is also very particular and right. So she just turned around in her heart and didn't mention it to Zhang Yueying.