Chapter 364: Buying Food
Shang Qian was a little embarrassed for a while, and he didn't know how to answer the female teacher's question.
To be honest, she is not familiar with this Teacher Li. But when people ask her so enthusiastically, they always have to answer, and it's not good to ignore people.
The same carriage after all.
She pondered her words and replied, "I'm married, and I've just been married." ”
"I really can't see that you got married at such a young age, girls generally don't think about getting married when they're young, they all want to have fun for a few more years, your husband must be very good to you, otherwise I wouldn't want to marry him so early."
Shang Qian replied: "Yes, my husband is very good to me, I want to marry when I meet the right person, early marriage and late marriage always have to get married, as long as that person is good to you, it is okay to get married earlier." ”
"I envy you so much, I have such a good husband."
This sentence is still a little confused, what does it mean to envy having such a good husband, doesn't she have a husband? She looks like she's a decade older than her, isn't she married yet?
So Shang Qian asked tentatively, "Aren't you married yet?" ”
The female teacher's expression suddenly became lonely, her eyes were lowered, and she said: "I was once married, and at your age, I married each other at a young age, but then the marriage was not harmonious, and many family reasons were not resolved, and then I divorced." ”
Shang Qian was surprised, it turned out to be like this.
No matter how you say that a woman is willing to marry you, it is all about loving you, and there will be some small friction between the latter two people after marriage, but it is not impossible to solve, this kind of marriage and divorce is really unacceptable.
Especially those who have children and then divorce, so it really hurts the children, a woman marries you and is willing to give you children, which is enough to show that she loves you very much.
Hey, when she encountered this kind of thing, Shang Qian didn't know how to comfort her, did the question she just ask touched her sadness.
Shang Qian was a little sorry: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have asked, did I remind you of something bad?" ”
The female teacher replied: "It's okay, it's all over, and I'm living alone now." ”
She continued: "I have been married to him for three years and have no children, so there is no fettering divorce." ”
"Then do you plan to find someone to marry in the future?"
"I don't have this plan for the time being, it's good to live alone."
At this point, the atmosphere in the carriage was somewhat quiet.
Shang Qian thought to herself, should she continue to talk?
Before she could speak again, the female teacher began to speak first.
It's still a serious tone.
She said: "It's not easy for two people to be together, and it's better not to get divorced." As long as the man can be more tolerant, the woman should not go too far and keep holding on to things. I know that many women are more cautious now, and they can't bear it at all, and they always feel that their husbands are looking for a mistress outside, but I think it's better not to always misunderstand each other like this if you don't really see it, suspicion can easily make the relationship more and more divided. ”
"Uh-huh, I wouldn't be like this, thank you."
Although Shang Qian and Long Jingze would not have such a problem, she still thanked her seriously.
People are also kind enough to say this kind of thing to you, and if they are not good to you, they may not say this to you.