Chapter 817: Women Should Support Themselves

After so many years of Spring Festival, it is estimated that this year is the most comfortable for Gu Huizhu.

And the most awkward thing is Gu Baoer's parents.

Gu Baoer has lived in the Gu family for two years, but her marriage has not yet been settled.

When they first moved in, the three beads of the Gu family were all in the boudoir, and now all the girls are married, and the engaged are married, only Gu Bao'er is still alone, but she is still the oldest, which makes Gu Bao'er's parents not very happy.

Gu Shenghua has long been aware of this problem, in fact, he has been helping Gu Baoer find it, and he also specially contacted Boss Zhao Ren, who came to propose marriage to Gu Panzhu before, but it is a pity that he went back to the south to do business.

Gu Bao'er is getting older and older, and Gu Shenghua is also beginning to worry, thinking in his heart, marrying a subordinate of the Yamen may not be bad, it is better than not marrying. Anyway, in the unit of the Yamen, Gu Bao'er can't starve to death no matter what, which is hundreds of times stronger than her marrying a village man in her hometown.

During this year's Spring Festival, almost all topics revolved around Gu Baoer's family affairs, and Gu Baoer had her own troubles. After a long time, she simply moved to another courtyard to live with Gu Huizhu, not wanting to listen to the chatter of the seven aunts and eight aunts.

Gu Huizhu knew her mind and planned to have a long talk with her.

"Did you recognize Adjutant Lin? Or are you waiting for my dad to arrange it for you? ”

Gu Bao'er gritted her teeth and refused to speak.

Gu Huizhu gently stroked Gu Bao'er's hand and said, "If you don't make it clear, I can't help you." ”

Gu Bao'er exhaled: "After I finished talking to you last time, I thought a lot, whether to leave my life to others to decide, or should I decide by myself." ”

"Oh?" This was unexpected, Gu Huizhu really didn't expect modern independent thinking to be so trendy, and even Gu Bao'er, who hadn't read much, began to think about this problem, but, "It's a good thing to think like this." ”

Gu Bao'er looked up in surprise: "Really? ”

Gu Huizhu smiled: "Why isn't it true, isn't it just the result of my hard work in life?" ”

Gu Bao'er suddenly said: "Yes, you can resist the uncle to find you relatives at that time." ”

"That's right. In fact, women should be self-reliant and can make a difference, not to say that they have to ask for anyone's opinion on everything and get their affirmation before they can start, let alone rely on their family or husband for everything. ”

Gu Bao'er shook her head: "I don't understand anything, what can I do?" ”

Gu Huizhu saw that she had finally opened her mind, and was worried that she would be dazzled by inferiority complex again, so she hurriedly said: "If you have the heart and are not afraid of being late, just say that in front of you, you can ask for an independent marriage, what do you need to know?" ”

"Of course I do, if I don't marry well, the rest of my life will almost be over. And... I'm not like you, I'm literate and have a bright future, even if I don't study abroad, I can stay in Yuecheng as a teacher. I don't have anything, I can't seem to do anything......"

Gu Huizhu shook his head: "It's not like this. How long can Israel serve a servant? You can read more books and learn more and cultivate your own mind. It's not just about living for the sake of living, it's also about improving yourself. As for marriage, it is not a curse to ask for an independent marriage, nor should it be seen as a punishment. You won't marry the wrong man, and you won't necessarily end up in a bad end. Besides, my sister Bao'er is so good, she will marry casually, and she will not be bad. ”