Chapter 1347: First Look at Feng Shui 3
If Wu Haiping did not treat her children well and was indeed partial, then her children's actions could be considered excusable.
However, Wu Haiping did not feel sorry for them, she did it very fairly, and she can be called a perfect mother.
In this case, the words and deeds of the Zhao brothers and sisters are chilling.
Wu Haiping, who had been reduced to the point of being unrelated, was even more sad, and looked at Quan Shengnan with tears, "Little sister, you say, what should I do?" How can I resolve the problem at hand? I don't ask for anything else, really, I just hope that my children will take care of me when I am sick, scrub my body and serve me a bowl of rice when I can't get up, and don't let me die of illness and starvation like those old people who are not filial to my children and grandchildren. Am I demanding? Won't all my property be theirs when I die? Why, why do they have to give up my property now to be willing to support me? I can't believe their promises, I can't believe them. ”
As mentioned earlier, she has money, and her children are still like this, if she has no money, the consequences are unimaginable.
Quan Shengnan did not answer her question directly, but asked with a little curiosity: "You have money, why do you want to let your children support their old age?" You have money, you can afford to hire a nanny, you can afford a doctor, you can afford to live in a nursing home, you can arrange the rest of your life when you have money, and you don't have to count on your children. ”
Wu Haiping sighed: "Little sister, you are young and don't understand an old man's desire to have his children appear in front of him. When people are old and dying, what they want to see most are their children and grandchildren, not strange nannies, nurses, and staff. ”
"Then have you ever thought that when your son and daughter divide the property and promise to support you in old age, they will only hire a nanny for you to take care of your old age, or send you to a nursing home, and you only need to pay some money, and I will not appear in front of you at all? In that case, what is the difference between your request for your children to provide for their old age and what I said before? ”
Listening to Quan Shengnan's words, Wu Haiping was stunned for a moment, looking at her blankly, not knowing what to say.
Quan Shengnan sighed, in fact, this situation is not uncommon, many men and women use their busy work as an excuse to send their elderly parents to nursing homes, or hire a nanny for the elderly to take care of their lives when the elderly live alone, rather than doing it themselves, because of the pressure of life brought by society, people have no way to blame this behavior, and they can't judge right and wrong.
Say they are unfilial? They arranged for their parents to live in their old age.
Say they are filial? They are unable to satisfy their parents' faint desire for their children to appear in front of them.
Empty nesters soon became an extremely common situation in society.
Looking at Wu Haiping's face, Quan Shengnan couldn't help but sigh again, because the old man stuck to his pension money and didn't dare to share it with his children, which led to her own desolate old age, before her death there was only a puppy to accompany her, and the professional manager who managed the business for her often came to visit, and after his death, it was the puppy's mournful wail that attracted the neighbors, only to find that the old man had been dead for a long time.
In the end, it was the executor of the old man's will, that is, the professional manager, who appeared to take care of the old man's afterlife, and donated all the old man's property to the elderly institution.