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Zhou Yu was very relaxed in his free time after a long absence, and he taught his two children to walk at home.

This is not the first time Zhou Yu has taught them to walk, and he has not succeeded in several times before, so Zhou Yu decided to adopt some strategies to educate them.

Zhou Yu demonstrated to them, he knelt on the ground and stood up slowly, first half squatting, and after his body got used to it, he slowly stood up.

Hold your center of gravity and take small steps forward.

"Learning the steps I just took is actually very simple, as long as you stabilize yourself and don't fall, move slowly, it's not difficult to learn to walk."

Zhou Yu saw that they were indifferent, still sitting on the ground and playing games.

He took out a box of strawberries from the refrigerator, and the fragrance of strawberries came out when he opened the box.

"I want to eat, I want to eat, Daddy I want to eat." Zhou Shengge said with a puffed face.

"I'm going to eat too, give it to me, give it to me. Sister, don't rob me. Zhou Hong shook his head and said.

Zhou Yu put the strawberries 5 meters away from them and said to them, "As long as you come here, these strawberries will be given to you to eat."

You have to walk here to count, and climbing doesn't count. ”

Zhou Yu also encouraged: "You are all big children, you have to learn to walk by yourself, others can already learn to walk by themselves when you are your age, and you can't always crawl all over the ground."

"Daddy, I can walk."

After Zhou Shengge finished speaking, she slowly stood up from the crawling state with her little head held high, and moved forward little by little with her calves.

Each step is small, but it still persists in moving forward.

Zhou Shengge walked a long journey of 5 meters with difficulty and came to Zhou Yu's side.

Zhou Yu took out the prepared strawberries, handed them to Zhou Shengge and said, "Shengge, your favorite strawberry, this is a reward for you."

Zhou Shengge wiped the sweat on his head with his little hands, took the strawberries and began to eat them deliciously.

After Zhou Hong saw it, he said with a crying voice: "I also want to eat strawberries, sister don't rob my strawberries."

After he finished speaking, he quickly crawled to Zhou Yu's position, his movements were still very fast, and he was very skilled at a glance.

Zhou Yu saw his son crawling to his feet, and immediately hugged Zhou Hong to his original position, and said with a straight face: "When you reach the end, then you will have strawberries to eat, and there will be no strawberries to eat when you climb over, you must learn to follow the rules."

Zhou Hong sat on the spot and cried, he saw Zhou Yu ignoring him, wiped his tears, pouted and tried to stand up.

Zhou Yu looked at Zhou Hong's performance, and he was not surprised at all.

At this age, he has learned to observe the expressions of adults.

The only weapon he knows is crying, as long as the parents are used to the child at this time, then the opportunity will be missed, and the child will not develop the habit of following the rules.

When the child reaches the age of seven or eight, parents will find that the child is no longer manageable.

They will use high-pressure methods to manage, and use their strong physique to suppress children.

By the time children reach puberty, their physical strength is almost the same as that of adults, and they will refute the authority of their parents.

When parents see that their children are not acting according to their plans, they think that their children are rebelling against them.

This is actually not setting good rules for children when they were young.

It's not just laws and morals that are rules, they're just rules that everyone agrees on and can't violated.

Cultivating children's rules when they are young is to exercise their self-control ability and to cultivate a bridge for adults and children to communicate on an equal footing.

Behind every bear child there is a pair of bear parents, who have not educated their children well, which is definitely unqualified parents, and there is no reason to shirk it.

Some parents do not know how to educate their children, but they use simple and crude methods to make their children what they want them to be, and send their children to Professor Yang and others.

Through threats and intimidation, they want to tame people like taming animals.

These parents just want to have children who are obedient, they don't know how to educate their children at all, and they don't deserve to be parents.

Zhou Yu withdrew his thoughts and waited for Zhou Hong's performance.

After Zhou Hong found that crying didn't work, he also followed his sister's example, slowly stood up and prepared to walk to eat strawberries.

He didn't take a slow pace like Zhou Shengge, seeing Zhou Shengge eating strawberries, he was very anxious, and he walked quickly like a trot.

I had just learned to walk, and my body center of gravity had not yet been mastered, so I was anxious to move forward.

Zhou Hong's center of gravity was unstable under his feet, and he immediately fell to the ground.

Zhou Yu observed Zhou Hong's state through the Xingling glasses and found that he was in good health, and there were no bruises on his body.

Zhou Yu immediately put his mind at ease, and did not help Zhou Hong up, but encouraged him on the side: "Fat Dun'er, you can do it, you walked very well just now."

It's normal to learn to walk and wrestle, and when your dad and I learned to ride a bicycle when we were kids, I knocked out one of my teeth.

It's not terrible to fall, it's terrible to not be able to get up after falling, you have to believe in yourself, you are a man, you will be able to get up on your own. ”

After Zhou Yu found that Zhou Hong had no problem, he chose to encourage.

Unlike Chicken Soup for the Soul, in order to cultivate the child's independence, parents should encourage the child to stand up on his own even if he is injured.

The child's psychological tolerance is not strong, and if he is hurt beyond his psychological capacity, his parents must comfort him, and at the same time begin to take care of him, so that he can feel the love of his parents.

Otherwise, you will inevitably feel afraid of something in your heart, afraid to do things, and at the same time very indifferent to your parents.

Zhou Hong stood up with a firm face and tried to walk again.

After two falls, he finally walked a distance of 5 meters.

Zhou Hong immediately got a strawberry, forgot the unhappiness just now, and ate it with a smile on his face.

Chen Jin walked out of the bedroom, she stroked Zhou Shengge and Zhou Hong's little faces, and praised: "You are very good, and now you have learned to walk." Mom and others will reward you and cook you your favorite meal. ”

Zhou Shengge and Zhou Hong, led by intelligent robots, go to their playground to play.

Chen Jin asked Zhou Yu: "You didn't let me come out just now, just to exercise their independence."

"That's right, my mother is their biggest support, if you disagree with me, no matter how hard I try, I can't educate them well." Zhou Yu said with emotion.

Children's education can only be completed by the agreement of parents and joint efforts.

"They are still young, you educate them so strictly, will they lose the joy of childhood." Chen Jin said worriedly.

"I'd rather they have less joy in their childhood than less pain in their adulthood.

I, Zhou Yu, will never let my child be a rice worm and become an idle bastard.

In ancient times, it was said that there were only three generations of wealth, which was talking about the nouveau riche.

The real families of ancient times, they even existed for thousands of years, even if there was a change of dynasty, it would not affect their status.

This is not unrelated to education, learning is always a painful thing, and there is no way to learn happily.

Only by enduring the pain for a while can we usher in the happiness of life in the future. Zhou Yu said in a firm tone.