Having land is confidence, as long as you are willing to do it, you will still have enough to eat.

Qiao Simei remembered that she was with that bastard Chang Hai at the beginning, didn't she dare to leave him because she had no confidence?

"Can that field be used as a dowry?" Fourth Sister Qiao couldn't help but ask.

"Yes!" Qiao Xiaowan smiled and nodded: "I must be able to, sister-in-law, whoever the field falls on will be whoever." ”

In the previous life, when the field was divided, although the woman also had a field, but when she got married, the field was still in her mother's house, and she had nothing to do with her daughter.

The patriarchal mentality, even in previous lives, was still deeply ingrained in some places, and it was not possible to change that ethos.

But here, Qiao Xiaowan wants to change.

The status of women is now because of their relationship with female soldiers, which has made the general public accept that women can be soldiers and fight, but it is really difficult to really reverse.

This needs to be done slowly and little by little.

Little by little, the atmosphere of this dynasty was changed, so that the status of women was higher, and they no longer had to be subservient to men.

"Xiaowan, it's hard." Jo Lai de said.

Although Jolaid is a carpenter who does not know much, he also knows that this is really difficult.

It's not that my daughter is not doing well, it's just that I let the field fall on the woman's head, and I can take it away as a dowry...... It's probably challenging the way people think about women for thousands of years, and it's really hard to do.

"I know, Dad." Qiao Xiaowan smiled, and a light flashed across her eyes: "But it's man-made, I believe I will be able to do it." ”

After a pause, Qiao Xiaowan blinked: "I'm not the only one, but Wenjing helps me." ”

With Wenjing to support herself, no matter how many difficulties she has, she will persevere.

Li Sanmei interjected: "Xiaowan, my mother doesn't understand these things you said, but my mother knows that what you are doing is right, why can we women only beg for a life under the hands of men, and live by looking at men's faces, although my mother married your father, and she has a better life than most women, but my mother knows that many women are much more bitter than my mother." ”

"Mother thought before, I am really afraid that you will have a bad life in the future, because you are a woman, if you want to marry a man, you have to take care of housework for the man's family, husband and children, if it is a good one, maybe I will respect you, if I meet a bad one, three wives and four concubines will not say, but also give you a look, mother, I have been worried about you."

Li Sanmei said, her eyes were red: "This is also the reason why my mother wants you to be with the stone, at least the stone mother knows what kind of person he is, and the mother is relieved." ”

Saying that, Li Sanmei wiped a handful of tears again and laughed: "Fortunately, you are also angry, and the stone also loves you, but there are many mothers like mothers, and they are only afraid of their daughters in their hearts, for fear that their daughters will not marry well, and look at the faces of men to live, so Xiaowan, you must do this thing, because you did it right!" ”

This is really Li Sanmei's sincere thoughts all along, think about it when there was no family in Changhe Village, looking at the faces of her in-laws, this is something that peasant women will encounter.

A daughter-in-law becomes a mother-in-law, isn't that the truth?

Qiao Xiaowan looked at her mother intently, and she was surprised: "Mother, you really impress me." ”

I originally thought that my mother was just a village woman who didn't talk much, but I didn't expect to say such a thing, my mother is the real wise person, a wise and foolish person.

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