Chapter 884: The path of growth is not easy
Gu Bao'er said again: "I hope you don't think I'm fake and pretentious." I see that you are not overly polite to people you don't like, in fact, I envy you very much, you can change your attitude at will. ”
Gu Huizhu shook his head: "I'm not as powerful as you say." Sister Bao'er, you have grown up, and it is strange for this to come out of the mouth of my younger sister. But you're really different, and I'm so happy.
If you're in your hometown, I'll think you've been very good too. But Yuecheng is a big city with a lot of fish and dragons, and if you are always so simple, then the Overseer's Mansion will still happen two years ago when you wear the wrong clothes, you don't know who might harm you when, and you are very likely to be used as a doll and fiddle with it at will.
I feel sorry for you, the road to growth is not easy to follow, I think, you also came through the thorns.
However, the effort and the gain are almost proportional. If you don't change, the happiness you can have must be limited, for example, in the future, you can only continue to live a life that opens the door and sees the mountains and fields, only if you change, you become better, can you meet a better life. ”
Gu Panzhu was stunned, she didn't think about it so deeply, it turned out that she would live an ideal life if she became excellent. However: "Then if I marry now and get better in the future, will I also find a better husband than before?" ”
Gu Huizhu was stunned, can he still explain it like this?
"I didn't think about this, your brain is spinning so fast, Sister Bao'er, you are so smart. However, people need to keep improving, and after you get married, you have to work hard with your husband to manage a good family life. When you're improving, he's improving, isn't that fine? ”
"If I ......" Gu Bao'er was still a little embarrassed, she replied shyly, "If I marry him, it will be Lin ......"
Gu Bao'er blushed, glanced at Gu Huizhu, and never said her name.
Gu Huizhu smiled, she understood.
Gu Bao'er cleared her throat and said, "If I marry him, he is marching and fighting, how can we make progress together?" ”
"This is a problem of cognition, he went to the front line and fought for a long time, so in the future, he will be able to strategize, this is his progress; You manage the logistics, take care of yourself and your children, and even if you think of a new dish every day, it's your progress. It doesn't have to be two people working in the same direction.
But if you don't change the food you cook day after day, year after year, and you don't know what you can't do, you still don't, then there's no progress. Gu Huizhu took a sip of tea and said with a smile.
Gu Bao'er clapped her hands happily: "So that's the case." That said, I just need to keep learning and improving, right? It doesn't really mean that I have to learn anything. ”
"Of course!"
"I understand, Huizhu, thank you so much, I am full of confidence and hope in life again. You are the sun, helping me get out of the haze of inferiority, teaching me to face myself again, telling me to remember to be brave enough to look up and smile. ”
Gu Huizhu clenched Gu Bao'er's hand, she was very excited and very happy: "Sister Bao'er, you should thank yourself the most." It's not that you think that if you want to get rid of your confusion and take the initiative to get out of the cage of your heart, no one can help you. Sister Bao'er, come on. I'm sure you'll be happy. ”
"Hmm!" Gu Bao'er nodded heavily.
The two chatted for a while, Gu Huizhu remembered the original intention of finding Gu Bao'er, and said, "I'm going to go back to the house with my second sister, what should you do?" ”