Xiangxing really hopes that this corridor can be shorter, a few steps away, so as not to be so uncomfortable, next time I won't come out, this Miss Cousin heard that it is the new head of the Gu family, so the whole family has been cleaned up, and I must not touch Miss Cousin's moldy head.

Xiangxing's prayer may have been verified, and she was about to arrive at the door, so Xiangxing breathed a sigh of relief, bent down and opened the curtain and said, "Miss Cousin, please!" ”

Qingyi took Shui Mama and Ruo Mama, as well as Yuzhu and Lingzhu in, and entered the house, Shui Mama and they consciously followed behind, and stopped outside the flower hall, only Qingyi went in by herself.

"Qingyi, please say hello to my uncle and aunt!" Qingyi smiled and squatted down.

Mrs. Ye hurriedly stepped down from the main seat and helped Qingyi up, "Hurry up, child, I haven't seen you since the birthday banquet in Shifu, why didn't the Luo family trouble you." ”

Qingyi also stood up and smiled softly: "It's okay aunt, all the female relatives of the Governor's Mansion on the day of the birthday banquet in Shifu are out of shape, and now the streets and alleys know about it, where is the time to pay attention to me?" ”

Mrs. Ye took Qingyi to the chair closest to her and sat down, and the big girl on the side immediately brought the tray to Qingyi with the freshly brewed tea, and Mrs. Ye went down with a wave of her hand.

Mrs. Ye couldn't hide her smugness and said: "I think it's the will of heaven, I heard that the obscene pants of Mrs. Luo and Mrs. Luo fell off that day, and now the whole of Suzhou and Hangzhou is spreading loudly, and no one in the Governor's Mansion has come out these days, and no one knows what the situation is inside." ”

Qingyi said with a smile: "If you do too much injustice, you will kill yourself, this is what my aunt said, it is actually very simple, but my uncle still has to be careful recently, so as not to make trouble for my uncle if there is any evil fire in the Governor's Mansion." ”

Lord Ye knew that this matter and Qingyi would definitely not be able to get rid of it, but Qingyi's boldness and ruthless counterattack Lord Ye appreciated it more, and the good days of the Governor's Mansion in Suzhou and Hangzhou were about to come, so it was just right.

However, he still received Qingyi's kindness, and Lord Ye said: "It's okay, I can't find any fault of the official, and the official who pays taxes or something is also very strict, the security of Suzhou and Hangzhou City is still okay, and there is nothing to find the official's big mistake overall, but the ordinary small mistake is that it is useless for the official to be caught, and he can't pull off the horse, at most he reprimands a few words, and it's better not to say it." ”

Qingyi was a little relieved at this time, remembering the intention of this one, Qingyi said straight to the point: "Uncle and aunt, Qingyi came here today for her cousin's marriage, I don't know what the two of you think about the matter of the cousin's marriage with the Gu family?" ”

Mrs. Ye and Lord Ye were a little surprised by Qingyi's straightforwardness, and they didn't know what Qingyi meant?

Mrs. Ye said suspiciously: "Yueyan's child's marriage was orally discussed by the two elders of the Gu family and the Ye family when she was ten years old. ”

Qingyi said bluntly: "I don't know if this matter can be changed?" ”

Lord Ye and Mrs. Ye glanced at each other, not understanding why Qingyi did this?

Mrs. Ye grabbed Qingyi's hand with some apprehension and said: "Ning'er, my aunt knows that you should have seen something that you said that I and your uncle can't see, we have only had such a daughter for so many years, so naturally we hope that she can marry well, so if there is something you really have to tell your aunt, otherwise this marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is not something we can often meddle in when our daughter marries someone else." ”

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, Mrs. Ye's excitement leaked her concern, and Mrs. Ye, who is usually more rigorous, rarely has emotions such as leakage, which proves the truth that whose child is distressed.

Qingyi patted Mrs. Ye's hand comfortingly and said: "I know that my cousin will be a wedding in two days, and I have wanted to come over for a long time, but we have a lot of things to do in the Gu Mansion in the past two days, so it has been delayed until today, I have seen that Gu Haibo, on the day the gold shop opened, my impression of him was okay, but I was most worried about the eldest lady of the Gu family." ”

"What's wrong with the eldest lady of the Gu family?" Lord Ye is a man, and it is a little inconvenient for him to ask about the matter of the inner house and his daughter, but for the sake of his daughter, there is no one else here, and Lord Ye asked directly.

Qingyi felt that her cousin was really a happy person, and Qingyi hoped to see her cousin happy, so Qingyi said: "It's not that there's anything wrong, but I feel that the eldest lady of the Gu family is a little stronger in taking care of Gu Haibo." ”

I thought it was something, Lord Ye and Mrs. Ye were relieved when they heard Qingyi say this, Mrs. Ye said: "The family rules of the Gu family are quite strict, and the eldest lady of the Gu family is inevitably a little stereotyped, but she is a person who understands the rules very well when she usually gets along, and the reason why she is ready to marry the Gu family is also because your uncle's mentor is the old man of the Gu family, and your uncle's father and the old man of the Gu family are good friends, so they agreed on this matter verbally back then, but the eldest lady of the Gu family is a capable woman, and the uncle of the Gu family is not in good health, So she holds up the big house by herself, and as a woman, I admire her very much. ”

Qingyi found that saying this did not alert her aunt, and the term "love plot" was not popular in ancient times, and Qingyi really didn't know how to describe it for a while.

Qingyi said: "I think my uncle and aunt misunderstood what I meant, I also told my cousin at the birthday banquet in Shifu that day, but unfortunately my cousin didn't understand what I was talking about, and I didn't understand what I was talking about with my uncle and aunt today, I really don't know how to describe this matter for a while." ”

Rao is Qingyi's teeth are sharp on weekdays, and there is nothing too good to do when he encounters the confused ancients, so he can only explain it slowly.

Mrs. Ye said: "What does Ning'er mean by this, it doesn't hurt to say anything directly, we only have Yueyan and a concubine, even if it is a concubine, I have never treated it harshly, although the person I am looking for is not rich and noble, but it is okay to marry in the past, and our family does not need to make a concubine a concubine to win over the relationship, I dare not say that the dowry is the best in Suzhou and Hangzhou, but it is also good." ”

Qingyi knew that Mrs. Ye was telling the truth, although Lord Ye did not have many concubines, but there were no sons, so there were only a few concubines, and Mrs. Ye was not harsh, although she couldn't say how beautiful it was, but it was still not bad, so Lord Ye still respected Mrs. Ye very much in this regard.

Qingyi frowned slightly and said: "Ning'er is clear about this matter, but has my aunt ever thought about it, if you are the eldest lady of the Gu family, you were dragged down by your sick husband when you were young, although you have a son and daughter, but who in the back house of a big family is not a little tired?" The eldest lady of the Gu family gritted her teeth and persevered under the support of her son, and there is only this one son, who must be held on the tip of her heart, which is similar to a widowed mother, can the aunt know that the daughter of the average family is unwilling to marry the aunt with the young son and the person who raised it with hard work knows the problems inside? ”

Lord Ye and Mrs. Ye were asked such a question for the first time, and they couldn't answer for a while, and Mrs. Ye asked in confusion: "Is there anything wrong with the sons brought out by such a widow who are all a little promising?" ”

Qingyi said: "I will not question their character, but it is limited to those women who are enlightened and knowledgeable, I will admire it very much, and the other will be discussed, the key issue is that generally such a son marries a daughter-in-law and comes back The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult one, after all, the widow raised the son alone, but the son has a wife, and has the most intimate relationship, it is not her alone, after a better period of time, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law can be better, if it is not good, the daughter-in-law can turn over after the mother-in-law dies, Even often abused his daughter-in-law in places where his son couldn't see it, and he also sued his son in front of him, saying everywhere that his daughter-in-law was not, no matter how he looked at it, he didn't like it, and he had the custom of making rules, so he made it difficult in every way, and his aunt and aunt were no strangers to these things. ”

Lord Ye was a little puzzled when he heard this: "These things are not unfamiliar, I often try such cases, but generally mother-in-law sues daughter-in-law more." ”

Qingyi said: "That's it, in this era of filial piety, even if the daughter-in-law has any great grievances, she will not come out to sue her mother-in-law, so how to deal with her husband?" ”

Mrs. Ye seemed to understand a little, but she still didn't understand a little, as if a puddle of fog was blocking her eyes, and she wanted to reach out and push it away.

Mrs. Ye said: "Ning'er, might as well just say that this has anything to do with Yueyan?" ”

Qingyi said: "It has a lot to do with it, so my aunt knows that my eldest cousin has married a daughter-in-law, so my aunt might as well think about how she felt at that time?" ”

Mrs. Ye fell into deep thought, it was still very laborious to marry her son, and her daughter-in-law was finally relieved when she married home, but when she saw her eldest son helping her eldest daughter-in-law come in on the first day, she was still a little surprised.

It's like the son he raised has given to someone else, and he didn't feel much when his son's eyes were on himself before, but he felt that his son was quite sensible, but now his son is a shy daughter-in-law, and he is still showing latex in front of him, which is really a bit unpleasant.

Fortunately, it didn't take long for the daughter-in-law to get pregnant, and the matter slowly faded, and she accepted the eldest daughter-in-law in her heart, but she didn't feel sorry for the eldest daughter-in-law, after all, the official woman is still very sensible and considerate, and she hasn't stuffed anyone into their room, and the eldest daughter-in-law is still very grateful, so the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled quite well.

Mrs. Ye said faintly: "I didn't get used to it in the first few days, I felt as if my son had become someone else's, but it faded in a few days, and then your cousin-in-law became pregnant a month later, and my experience was all about taking care of the birth of my future little grandson, but I didn't let anyone go to their room, your cousin-in-law is very grateful, so slowly this relationship got along." ”

Lord Ye also seemed to remember something, but there was still a point that he didn't understand, and he also understood a little when he heard his wife say this.

Qingyi nodded and said: "It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with, but it is difficult for my aunt to handle it so well, the key is that this is because my aunt has two sons, and my uncle is usually very powerful, but the reverse is still the problem just now, if my aunt only has one son, Gu Haibo, and the son's father has been sick for many years, and everything outside the family has to be borne by one person, and I want my son to hold up the lintel, the relationship with my son is extreme, and it is the foundation of your survival. If so, what do you think a mother would do to her future daughter-in-law? ”

Qingyi looked at her aunt thinking, while her uncle looked at Qingyi puzzled, Qingyi said: "In the same way, if your uncle looks at the daughter he worked so hard to raise and marries your son-in-law, how do you feel when you look at your son-in-law?" ”

Lord Ye remembered that if Gu Haibo married his daughter, and he couldn't go back to his parents' house often in the future, he would have to take care of his mother-in-law's family, which really didn't seem to be a taste, so if a mother married her daughter-in-law, wouldn't it be the same reason?

So while Lord Ye figured it out, Mrs. Ye also suddenly realized, and the husband and wife asked together: "The Gu family can't be, right?" ”

Qingyi said firmly: "Why not, last time I saw Mrs. Gu looking at my cousin, there was something wrong with her eyes, as if she had robbed her beloved things, not very affectionate, especially one day my cousin and Gu Haibo bought a pair of necklaces in my gold shop, but Mrs. Gu knew that night, and Mrs. Gu did not arrange any maids to serve Gu Haibo, if it was for my cousin, I don't look like it, And in the Gu family's big house, the maids who had bad intentions for Gu Haibo and wanted to climb the bed were all tortured by the eldest lady of the Gu family, and were finally sold, or sold to that kind of indiscriminate place, so I said that the problem is a bit serious. ”

Master Ye said with some hesitation: "Those maids who climb the bed are also going to be beaten in Ye Mansion, if Yueyan marries a wife, the intimacy between this husband and wife is a matter of course, how can it be compared with those maids?" ”

After all, Mrs. Ye is a woman, it is easier to understand a woman's heart, and when she thinks of this, she is really worried about her daughter, according to Qingyi, the heart of the eldest lady of the ancient family for her son is not just a relationship.

Mrs. Ye said: "Master, this matter is really a bit serious, just because our family Yueyan is married to a wife, and she can't sell it, but she can make rules, or take advantage of Gu Haibo's absence to bully us Yueyan, you also know that our family Yueyan is a strong child in his bones, and he can't conflict with his mother-in-law head-on, Gu Haibo is so filial, he listens to Mrs. Gu, just like if I had a conflict with my mother, who would you help?" ”

Lord Ye also remembered some unpleasant things in the past, although the mother was not unreasonable, but there were also difficult times, it was very difficult to be sandwiched between the mother and the wife, of course, you can't face your wife openly, otherwise you will be said to be unfilial, this is yourself, what if Gu Haibo encounters such a problem?

Lord Ye's worries were obvious, and Qingyi continued: "I saw Gu Haibo, he is the most afraid that his mother will be angry, so I have listened to Mrs. Gu since I was a child, I think no matter what Mrs. Gu asks him to do, I will do it, even if I divorce my wife, I think such a foolish person can't do it, so I will worry about my cousin's situation in the past." ”

Ye Dadao: "This kind of thing can't happen, although the teacher is now over the age of old, but he is still the head of the Gu family, it is impossible for the teacher not to know such a big thing, I think the eldest lady of the Gu family has no way to make the decision alone, besides, isn't there still the uncle of the Gu family?" ”

Qingyi said: "No matter how powerful the old man of the Gu family is, he is not in charge of the inner house, and his cousin can't watch it every day when he marries, this is not in line with the etiquette, the Gu family is known as the noble family, the house of etiquette, such family rules are very strict, the cousin does not say that he is pampered in the Ye Mansion, but he is also loved by his uncle and aunt, but has she ever been wronged?" ”

"But when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I did get up early to set up rules, a stop is a day, I have to pick up vegetables for my mother-in-law to eat, and my mother-in-law eats after the meals are cold and makes do with a bite, after a long time, the general people's appetite is not good, and they usually have to serve tea and water to their mother-in-law, and some people have to prepare their daughter-in-law for breakfast, and then they have to prepare their daughters-in-law, and then they have to serve three meals a day, and they usually serve in front of them if they go out to socialize, and they can only rest when they serve their mother-in-law in the evening, and continue to live like this the next day, Repeatedly,"

"Even during pregnancy, some mothers-in-law are about to give birth and have to wait, and my uncle also said that this ancient family is the most important rule, I am even more worried, I believe that my cousin has not done these things at home, but it is still commonplace in the house where the rules are powerful, and the mother-in-law teaches her daughter-in-law like this, it is not called a lesson, it is called a rule, even the mother's family can't find anything wrong, if you stand up, you will be laughed at and say that you don't understand the rules, the mother's family is not well educated, and if you don't get it right, you can take people back directly."

Please remember that the first domain name of this book is .. The fastest website for mobile version update: m.