Chapter 222: I just can't do it

In Ye Xi's view, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. When the children are older and have their own thoughts, they will naturally have a plan for their own lives, so they can't afford to worry too much about their elders.

If the elders are too careful, it will only stiffen the relationship.

"It's not easy for her, a woman pulling two older children. Probably because of her family, she is even more different from others in her heart. Wang sighed, "She is afraid that she is not worried enough, and the two children will have a bad life because they are not managed by their father, and they are even more afraid that their children will make others laugh." ”

Yao's mother is a strong person, the more because the two children only have their mother to rely on, the more she wants the two children to live well.

Of course, a woman has survived for so many years, and it is impossible not to be stronger.

"I naturally know the difficulty of the Yao family's aunt, and I can even understand her thoughts. It's just that when the child is older, he also has his own ideas! I believe that a person as old as Brother Dong has always had an idea and will live his own life. ”

Wang laughed, "You! It's still a kid after all. When you become a mother yourself, you will also know the thoughts of being a mother. There are many truths that everyone understands, but they just can't do it. ”

As a parent, how can it not be clear that when the child is older, it is time to gradually let go.

It's like an eagle, because it can't protect its children all its life, so you can't keep the young eagle under its wings, but let the young eagle fly on its own.

What's more, the child's mind, where the parents will not understand, because everyone has come from that age!

It's just a matter of understanding for a while, and it's another thing to really do it.

If you don't wait for your children to really settle down, where can you rest assured.

But stability, it is easy to say, how can it be considered stability? Do you have a good future, or do you have a biological child?

In fact, it is the heart that can't be finished, first worrying that the child will not be able to support himself because he is not productive. is also worried that the child is blindly just for the sake of success, but it will delay the major events of his life......

When the children really become biological children, they will worry that the husband and wife are not harmonious enough, and whether the grandchildren are not well-behaved......

It seems that there is no time for some things to stop.

And isn't this just a lifetime?

"It's just that Brother Dong doesn't like those girls, and the aunt of the Yao family is just trying in vain to help with it like this."

Wang looked at Ye Xi in some surprise, "Do you know something?" ”

Ye Xi suddenly looked into Wang's eyes, "Mother...... You...... Do you see something too? ”

Wang smiled helplessly, "I was also young, you young people's thoughts!" How could I not understand at all? ”

"When did my mother find out? I didn't even see it before! ”

"You've been very busy these days, where can you tell. But I have been going to check the pulse of the girl of the Tan family, the two of them look like that! But whoever has a heart, how can he not see it. ”

"It's still my mother's knowledge." Ye Xi smiled, "That mother, do you think they will have results?" ”

Wang's face sank slightly, "It's really hard to say this, whether there is a result or not, it still depends on what they do." The so-called do your best, obey the destiny of heaven. If they don't fight for it themselves, it will be fruitless. ”

"I mean Master Tan, if Master Tan also sees something, will it fulfill them? Or...... Will drive away Brother Dong......" Ye Xi bit his lip.