Now Tan Yun can still find a way to delay, but after waiting for a long time, the pressure will become more and more.

No matter what era it is, the forced marriage of elders is unbearable for young people.

When you are young, you often crave something different. When I grow up, I tend to be more and more modest, lest I be different from others.

And the elders especially have this kind of thought, thinking that everyone is a biological child, and life should be like this according to the step-by-step process.

If the children want to work hard for their careers, get married a few years later, or simply do not marry, the elders will break their hearts and fear that their children will be different from others.

Sometimes I feel ridiculous, as if I don't follow the pace of others and become a monster in the world.

When children are not married, their parents are heartbroken and anxious. And the children who are urged by their parents to get married every day are also under great pressure and are afraid to avoid it.

Some people choose to get married hastily because they can't bear the pressure.

And the result of a hasty marriage is often a dismal ending.

But there are still many elders who feel that even if they get married and remarry, it is better than not getting married all the time.

Because there are many divorced people, it seems that it will not be talked about by too many people. If you keep getting married, you will be criticized even more.

The sorrow of the world is probably to live their own lives, but they have to be influenced too much by others.

"Where does the heart belong?" Master Tan frowned, "But Ah Yun has rarely seen anyone before. ”

"Even if she doesn't have a heart to belong, I don't think she needs to be urged if she really wants to get married. If she is not happy, naturally she has not met the right person, and it is useless to be reluctant. Ye Xi said seriously. Parents should love their children and hope that their children will be happy. ”

The purpose of marriage should be to be happy, not to marry for the sake of getting married.

It's just that sometimes the elders are too anxious and too obsessed with the marriage of their children. It seems that as long as you can get your children married, as for who the other party is, whether you can make your children happy is not the main consideration.

It's really putting the cart before the horse.

"It's just that she always drags like this, and women are different from men." Master Tan said helplessly.

The world is often more harsh on women, and as women get older, they become less and less likely to talk about good family affairs.

This is also why he doesn't worry about his son's family affairs, but he cares more about Ah Yun's family affairs.

"Then what kind of person does Master Tan want Ah Yun to marry?"

"Naturally, character and temperament are the most important, Ah Yun has suffered a lot over the years, and I don't expect her to climb to anyone's house. My Tan family doesn't need to exchange their children's relatives for anything. The most important thing is that they are doing well. ”

"If the character and temperament are good, but the family background is poor, is Master Tan happy?" Ye Xi asked.

Master Tan suddenly looked at her seriously, "Xiaoxi, you ask this, do you know something?" ”

Ye Xi was a little entangled in his heart, and he didn't know whether to tell Master Tan about Tan Yun and Yao Dong.

She didn't know if it would be good or bad for the two of them to say it.

Originally, she didn't plan to put more beaks, and left everything to the two of them to solve by themselves. After all, outsiders are the most taboo about feelings.

It's just that right now, since she talked about this topic, she really wanted to explore Master Tan's tone.

If Master Tan didn't care about Yao Dong's background at all, then he pushed the two of them.