Chapter 195: It's not easy to be a father
"I thought my dad had always thought we were doing well in this family." Ye Xi looked at Ye Degui's eyes fixedly.
Ding's person is very good at acting, no matter what kind of face he has in front of her and Xinyao, he has always concealed it very well in front of Ye Degui.
Ye Degui's face changed slightly, "Xiaoxi, you are still young, when you have children in the future and have a home to take care of, you will also know that it is not easy to be a father." ”
He had to admit that at the beginning, he did always think that Ding was a very virtuous woman.
Since she came to the Ye family, she has really managed this family well. In the end, a family must be run by a woman, otherwise it will not be like a home.
After Xiaoxi's mother passed away, he was both a father and a mother, and he was really physically and mentally exhausted.
He had to worry about things in the academy, as well as his own study, and he had to take care of the children, and he was tired every day.
Someone has long advised him to continue, but he has been hesitant, because he is worried that the woman who enters the door will not be good for the children.
People are full of selfishness, and if they are not their own children, it is difficult to see them as their own.
Later, someone mentioned the Ding family to him, one Ding is a relative of the sister-in-law, and the other Ding has a son of his own, thinking that the two families are in one place, as long as he is good to Huang Dahu, the Ding family will not be too bad to his children.
After the Ding family had the Ding family, the burden that had been pressing on him was lighter in an instant.
There are people in the family who are in charge, so he just concentrates on the affairs of the academy. Although Xiaoxi and Xinyao both told him about Ding's badness, he always thought that the children were ignorant, and the Ding family came, and the children were not used to it.
When there is suddenly one more person in the family, and he has to shout "mother", the children will be resistant, and he can understand.
And Huang Dahu is indeed too naughty, and may bully Xiaoxi and them, which also makes Xiaoxi and them misunderstand Ding.
Huang Dahu was naughty, Ding told him, and he also taught Huang Dahu a lesson in front of him.
It's just that no matter how much he believes in the Ding family, when the people in the village say that the Ding family has said too many bad things about Xiaoxi and them, he won't be unconcerned at all.
Although he always felt that it was not as serious as outsiders said, he also began to mumble in his heart, thinking that Ding was really too partial to the children.
But at the end of the day, what can he do? As long as this family is stable, it is inevitable that someone will be wronged and endure more.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and whoever is too safe and stable is indispensable to some undercurrents.
As long as Ding doesn't go too far, he will turn a blind eye, and life will pass as usual.
When the daughters get married, they will all be fine.
"Just because it's not easy for his father, he connived at the Ding family to do whatever he wanted in this family?" Ye Xi looked at Ye Degui with a little sarcasm.
Sure enough, Ye Degui knew what the Ding family was doing, but he didn't want to care about it.
I don't know if men are all like this, when facing the family, there is always less patience and responsibility.
It seems that as long as this home looks passable, it will be fine. As for whether such a calm requires anyone's patience and grievances to be fulfilled, it seems that it is not within his consideration.
"Even if she is not, she has done a lot for this family in the past few years. If you think about it, as a stepmother, she is not bad. ”
Ye Xi was silent, and he didn't know what to say for a while.