(Cat flutter Chinese) "Girl, no matter how powerful a man is, in front of his family, he will inevitably show some childishness, your father is like this, Xiao Yan, and it will probably be like this in the future."

Tong Xiaohuai finally understood now, her mother came over, in fact, to teach her some ways to get along with lovers.

However, she does need to ask her mother for advice.

Because, since she had known Yan Bo for so long, she had always felt that she was being . Pet. on that side.

Admittedly, this is a good thing.

After all, every girl wants to have one. Pet. and can protect his own strong boyfriend.

But if it goes on for a long time, will he become a burden to Yanbo?

"Mom, can you explain a little bit more?"

Although she has only just started dating, Tong Xiaohuai feels that she will never be willing to let go of a man like Yan Bo.

So, she can't let herself be a burden to him, and at the same time, she can't let him get tired of hating herself.

And at this point, she has always felt that her mother has done a very good job.

In the eyes of others, Tong Lao Da is a very powerful and strong man, but Tong Ma is an excessively elegant woman, who always gives people a weak and fragile feeling.

But Tong Xiaohuai knows that his mother has long been perfected with her soft and rigid skills, and it is precisely because of this that my father has basically obeyed his mother for so many years.

Therefore, Tong Xiaohuai has always admired and admired her mother very much, in her eyes, her mother has always been a woman with great wisdom.

However, unfortunately, she herself has inherited more from her father's fierceness and fiery, only the superficial temperament looks elegant, but it can't even be talked about nobility.

And the inner temperament is one-tenth of the Lan Xinhui quality that can't learn from my mother.

Mother Tong reached out and touched her head and asked her gently.

"Then tell your mother, what kind of traits do you think you should have as your boyfriend?"

Tong Xiaohuai thought for a while, "Probably, it's just a feeling that makes me feel at ease." ”

Actually, there should be a lot more, but specifically, Tong Xiaohuai can't say.

"Well, the word peace of mind looks simple, but in fact, these two words contain a lot. One, he must be strong and have the ability to protect you in order to give you peace of mind. Second, he must be loyal to you in order to make you feel at ease. Is that right? ”

Tong Xiaohuai thought about it carefully, the sense of security he felt when he came out of the noodle restaurant that night and was pulled over and hugged tightly by him was, to put it bluntly, indeed as his mother analyzed.

Subconsciously, she knew that he was strong enough to protect her, and at the same time, she also knew that no matter what happened to her, he would not abandon her or even leave her, so she would feel at ease.

"Well, mom, you're right!"

Tong's mother then said, "In my opinion, for many women, a competent boyfriend and husband are actually a father, husband and son relationship, in him, you can feel the same tolerance as your father to you, the mutual support and understanding between partners, and his dependence and trust on you. ”

In the same way, for many men, a competent girlfriend and wife are a relationship between mother and wife and daughter. When he encounters something troublesome, he needs you to listen and explain gently, at this time, you are his mother, when he is in a normal state, he will accompany you to face all kinds of society or family, at this time, you are his beloved wife, when you are occasionally willful, he will treat you as a daughter unconditionally pampered, so, as a woman, occasionally come to a little harmless little willfulness, in fact, it doesn't matter, because, most men, in fact, also enjoy this kind of wife as a daughter. Pet. Of course, this situation can't be too frequent, once in a while, it's fun, and if you do it often, it will make people annoying. ”

Tong Xiaohuai's eyes widened and stared at his mother, "It turns out that there is still so much knowledge?" Sounds tiring! ”

Tong's mother smiled and nodded, "You are our daughter and have a blood relationship with us, but you have a lot of knowledge when you get along with us, but these knowledge does not need to be summarized in words, but in your heart, there is always a ruler that is constantly measuring and revising, how to get along with us, so that everyone can be happy and not touch their bottom line." Isn't it? ”

Tong Xiaohuai thought about it carefully, it was really like this, so she had to nod in agreement.

"Between us, there are still so many scruples about the bond of blood, not to mention, with a complete stranger, he has nothing to do with you, because of mutual attraction and came together, if either of you is not ready to run in and tolerate each other, then your relationship will be difficult to last."

Tong's mother's words made Tong Xiaohuai fall into deep thought.

Then, the more she thought about it, the more terrified she became.

"Mom, I think I've been enjoying his kindness to me for a while, and I still take it for granted, isn't that right?"

Tong's mother's words made Tong Xiaohuai reflect on it, and this reflection made him break out in a cold sweat.

Tong's mother touched her face, "What about men, when they first pursue a girl, they will be very patient and will spoil you specially, but after a long time, only if he spoils you and indulges you, it will definitely not work, and he must also feel your feelings for him?" If you like him, you will never take it from him without knowing it, and give it at all, I don't think you are such a person, unless you don't like him. ”

Tong Xiaohuai became more and more embarrassed, "But I don't seem to have done anything for him." On the contrary, he has done so much for me during this time. ”

"Fools, between lovers, it is not the scales to measure each other's giving and taking, it can only be said that during this period of time, between you and him, you are in a passive position. As for you, in my mother's opinion, you should like him so much, that's why you have the fear you have now. ”

Regarding the problem of getting along with lovers, Tong Xiaohuai learned a lot from her mother's words and realized a lot of truths, of course, she still had many questions in her heart, but considering that her mother had traveled a long distance, she didn't dare to keep talking.

Seeing that the time was already one o'clock in the morning, Tong Xiaohuai said good night to his mother.

Soon, she heard her mother's well-proportioned breathing, and it was obvious that she was very tired.

Tong Xiaohuai slowly blamed himself in his heart, only caring about solving the confusion in his heart, and actually forgot the fact that his mother was tired and miserable.

It seems that he is not only more accustomed to being taken care of when he gets along with Yanbo, but also in front of his parents.

But the fact is that the parents are getting older, and gradually, it is time for their adult daughter to take care of them. Cat flutter Chinese