323. Men have to pretend!
I think I have reached a very high height in the study of supernatural and feng shui, but I didn't expect that in front of these invisible bosses, I am still like a turtle, maybe they will find me in the future, but in the understanding of these traditional cultures and the quality of life, I am far from enough compared with them.
It's finally time to go to this tea party.
Before this, Mr. Huang also specially tailored a suit for me, it is said that the fabrics of this suit are imported from Italy, and such a set of clothes will cost tens of thousands!
This is simply something I dare not imagine, not that I can't afford this money, but because I think it's just a set of clothes, just wear it, why spend it so expensive, it's not good to keep this money for something.
Basically, people who have lived a hard life will understand that it is not easy to make money, so they know how to cherish their money more and spend every penny where it should be used.
However, Mr. Huang was a little dismissive of my remarks, and after he glanced at me, he said coldly, "You don't understand this."
When a man goes out, what do people watch? Does it depend on whether you have money in your bank card? ”
I shook my head at Mr. Huang's question, and the obvious answer was definitely no.
"That's it! Remember, you are now working with all kinds of people every day, and some of them have a very high status, and ordinary families will not look for you to see feng shui, so the packaging of the appearance and image is very important, which you should have known when you were in your hometown before. ”
"Hmmm......"
Of course I understand this, after all, when I was in Uncle Pan's shop before, I was indeed packaged as some kind of metaphysical master or something, and I was more decent in dressing, but it was only at the normal price, not wearing such a valuable thing, and more importantly, Mr. Huang also gave me a valuable watch, the watch that Li Su gave me before was already tens of thousands, and this watch was something I had never seen before.
Even the watch core inside looks like it is made of gold, and people say that men must have a watch on their body when they go out to show their identity and status, but I am a young man after all, and I don't have that much strength, and I haven't received this kind of training before, so after bringing this watch, I feel a little weak, and even have a feeling of pig's nose sticking green onions.
But for my doubts and lack of confidence, Mr. Huang shook his head and explained to me: "If you are a person in your forties or fifties, then when you participate in this tea party, you can dress casually, because at that age, they have seen through the prosperity of the world, and the things they have experienced have been experienced.
But you look like you're in your 20s now, if you're dressed sloppily and very ordinary, it's obvious that you're inexperienced in society, or you're young and frivolous, and you look down on that group of bigwigs.
Those bigwigs have never seen anything, they will know what you are worth as soon as they look at the clothes you are wearing, so that it will be much easier for you to talk to them, remember, respect is also your own strength, others can give you! ”
After listening to Mr. Huang's words and I nodded thoughtfully, I very much agree with his last sentence, in this world, everything depends on strength, you can only be respected by others if you have strength, and you can dominate the world only if you have strength, in the face of absolute strength, you are equal to order!
So I didn't hesitate anymore, put on these clothes, and Mr. Huang also changed into more formal clothes, every time I met with Mr. Huang before, he was wearing sportswear, looking very capable, but this time Mr. Huang wore so formal, it looks like the whole temperament is completely different.
Just when I thought that the two of us were going to the appointment, the door of the room suddenly opened, and Brother Hao Qing actually came in in a wheelchair from outside.
But what is surprising is that Brother Haojie is dressed differently today, he is not a casual dress at all, he is also in a straight suit, and he looks like he is going out.
His outfit today already explained what he wanted to do next, so I asked him with some concern: "Brother Haojie, can you go out in your physical condition now?" Let's go out this time, Teacher Huang and I should be able to handle it, after all, Teacher Huang is so experienced. ”
"No..."
Who knew that Brother Haojie shook his head with a smile when he heard this, and a helpless look appeared on his face: "You don't know the culture of the Beijing circle, this circle has been at the feet of the Son of Heaven since ancient times, so the people in the circle have arrogance that is not outside, and they may be able to mix in this circle, more or less they are people who are a little famous in the Beijing circle, and you are completely an outsider, and Mr. Huang usually doesn't show his face much, even if you are lucky enough to get in with this invitation, I'm afraid there are few people inside who can take care of you." ”
After Brother Haojie's words tonight, I was a little more puzzled, after all, Mr. Huang had already said just now, our current dress has met the requirements of participating in this tea party, and those old-timers will not also look at our clothes, since the clothes have been decent, and the usual manners have also been trained, it stands to reason that it should not be difficult to talk to them.
In the face of my questioning, Brother Haojie thought for a while, then continued to explain: "You only know one thing, you don't know the other, don't look at Lao Huang also grew up in Beijing from childhood to adulthood, but this kind of high-level tea party, he has never participated in it, your dress is just normal dress, that is to say, to participate in this kind of tea party, this is the most basic courtesy."
It's like if you go, people will pour you tea, but they may not talk to you!
And this time I want to be the matchmaker, only in this way can you talk to those old-timers, so that you can get closer to Li Jianguo more conveniently. ”