Jin Liuni's husband is Han Dacheng, 54 years old. 6 years older than Jin Liuni. They are all from Tunzi, Fenghuangling, Antu County.

Han Dacheng has six brothers, he is the eldest, so he is called Dacheng. Dacheng only attended second-grade elementary school. When he was in the third grade, his father fell ill with low back pain and was bedridden. In order for the younger brothers to be able to go to school. Dacheng had no choice but to come down to join the production team to help earn a few jobs and support his family. Since then, Dacheng and his classmates have "said goodbye", never entered the school gate again, and has become one of the few semi-literate people in Tunzi. Because he is big, loyal and honest, able to endure hardships, able to work, and willing to work, the villagers call him "Han Dacheng".

And Jin Liuni in Tunzi is exactly six female sisters. She is Xiaoliu, so she is called Liuni. She has five older sisters: Da Ni Er Ni Sanni Si Ni and Wu Ni. Among the sisters, Liuni is beautiful. Melon seed face, red phoenix eyes, white skin, good body, and loud when he speaks. This is well-known in Nanzhuang and Beitun.

One tunzi, two nationalities. Jin Liuni is of Korean ethnicity, and Han Dacheng is of Han nationality. Ninety percent of the households in Fenghuangling are ethnic Koreans. The rest are Han Chinese and Manchu. Jin Liuni is a land-sitting household. And Han Dacheng is an outsider. It was the grandfather's generation who came to Tunzi from Qingzhou, Shandong Province to settle down.

Although Jin Liuni is a little six, she is not pampered. She was born hardworking, hard-working, and loves to learn. She went to Lianzhong High School when she was in the poor middle peasant management school at that time. Just when she was reading vigorously, her parents at home ripped her off. said that your sister hasn't studied for a few days, you haven't studied less, how much a girl studies is to get married after all, come down and work. In this way, she joined the production team. At that time, she was 16 years old. After coming down, don't complain about the sky, don't be especially people. Lay down and work with the poor middle peasants. Willing to endure hardships, work hard, and get under muddy water. The poor middle peasants saw her as a good material, so they recommended her to be the female captain of the production team. There are 12 girls in the team, all of whom are of Korean ethnicity. At that time, they worked in production teams like most girls in rural China. The work that male members can do, they can also do, and it has become half of the country.

Once, the whole "big village" was built with a stone weir. The male members looked down on these long hairs and proposed to compete with them. It's no wonder that at the end of the day, it's not more than twice as much as them. Jin Liuni and the female team members were not convinced: "Don't look at you as men, our 'Mu Guiying' is no worse than you." "They took off their coats, put on their overalls, and put on their shawls. Like men, he who carries stones carries stones, who erects walls with brick knives, who plasters plaster. At the first break in the morning, the female players did pull down a considerable distance. After resting, the female team members became more and more courageous and skilled. By the end of the afternoon, there were many fewer stone weirs than the male team members. From then on, the male team members no longer dared to ridicule these "long-haired girls".

Another time, digging a reservoir. The water is a bit cool in the spring. Female team members, you look at me, I look at you, no one wants to go into the water. Jin Liuni looked at everyone standing still and said, "Sisters, follow me if you don't have any situation!" As she spoke, she pulled her trouser legs and went into the water first with a shovel in her hand. Under her leadership, except for a female team member who was just in time for her period, everyone went into the water.

Jin Liuni led the girls to do a great job. He has been awarded the title of "38 Red Banner Bearer" and "Advanced Model of Agricultural Dazhai" by Township, Banner and Yanbian Autonomous Prefecture for many times. Later, when she was 18 years old, she was recommended by the poor middle peasants as a "worker, peasant and soldier" college student, and was sent to an agricultural university in the province for further study. Two years later, when she was in her prime, the school expelled her from school and was returned to her original production team for "falling in love and violating school rules......

Then again, why did such an outstanding girl as Jin Liuni marry Han Dacheng, who was six years older than her and semi-literate?

In fact, there is a little-known story hidden in it.

In the seventies of the last century, everyone knew in Tunzi, Phoenix Ridge, that there was a "six brothers of the Han family" in the west. There is a "Jin Family Girl Liuni" in the east. The two happen to be men's and women's "six-on-six" food stalls. So, the people in the tunzi said: Heaven to earth, earth to heaven. Yin to yang, yang to yin. Female to male, male to female. No more, no less, impartial. and Meimei, reunion, just "six pairs of men and women" Tianxian match.

However, when it comes down to it, it's troublesome. The two "Jin Han" families are not right at all. It's not that the Han family doesn't want this good thing, but the sixth lady of the Jin family doesn't like the six "single" men of the Han family at all.

Later, a dramatic change occurred when Jin Liuni returned to work in the production team halfway from college. Two years have passed, and Jin Liuni is 21 years old. Her five older sisters have been married. It was only at this time that Jin Liuni began to think about her life's events. What kind of man are you looking for? Jin Liuni couldn't make up her mind for a while, but she thought: No matter what, she can't find a crop handle, fiddle with mud, and suffer hardship and poverty. Jin Liuni is a filial daughter, and her parents' opinion asks her to recruit an elderly son-in-law to go home. In this way, it can not only provide for the parents to provide for the elderly, but also leave roots for the Jin family and multiply.

Recruiting an elderly son-in-law is a harsh condition, and not many men are willing to do so; And Jin Liuni couldn't figure it out. What is the inheritance of the ancestry, the roots and the seedlings, that is the old fashion, and it has long been outdated. However, the matter finally got out: Jin Liuni wanted to recruit Han Dacheng to be his son-in-law. As a result, someone really took the initiative to do this good thing. personally found Han Dacheng as a matchmaker. Unexpectedly, Han Dacheng agreed to come down. And said: As long as people are willing to do it, don't be picky, I didn't say it. And Dacheng's parents also responded to the conditions put forward by the Jin family. In this way, Yue Lao went to Liuni's parents to do work again. Although the old man doesn't look down on Han Dacheng. But it's not so easy to think about coming, thinking about going, and finding a satisfied elderly son-in-law to enter the door. In the end, Liuni's parents agreed to this family affair.

Why is Han Dacheng willing to "settle down" in the woman's house? In fact, this was also forced out. Han Dacheng has six brothers. He is the eldest, nearly 30 years old, and no woman has taken a fancy to him. This is not because Han Da has a bad character or any physical defects. It's the family environment. Do you think, in a family of six bachelors, whose girl is willing to marry such a man as a wife? And the boss can't talk about his daughter-in-law, and it's not easy to find a partner if he presses his younger brothers. Because of this, Dacheng boiled up a lot of gray hairs on his head. And now someone actually proposes such a good thing, of course, Han Dacheng can't ask for it, and even says that it is a tiger belly - because Jin Liuni is not only beautiful, but also a clever and clever "half a college student".

Han Dacheng came to the door to be his son-in-law, and Liuni's parents agreed and agreed. But Liuni didn't do it. Not to mention that the Han family is rich and poor, Han Dacheng doesn't even have a primary school education, how to educate future generations when he gets married and has children in the future, and how to get ahead? Isn't that the ancestors struggling in the mud for generations? Liuni said: Just because of this, I look down on him, I don't do it, and I don't agree. If I find a good man and a cultured man, it will definitely be no problem. After more than half a year like this, Liuni felt that she was getting old day by day, and she had heard enough of her parents' nagging, capricious tantrums, and complaining and blaming. One day, Liuni will be unreliable......

Once, the eldest sister came home. At night, the eldest sister and Liuni slept together. When Liuni asked her sister's opinion, the eldest sister said without concealment: "Dacheng is a good way to earn food, and his size and character are reasonable...... As long as he agrees to your conditions, what's not to do? ......" Liuni asked eagerly: "Eldest sister, what conditions do you mean?" The eldest sister said: "Well, of course, the child born after marriage will be surnamed Jin," before the sister could say anything, Liuni asked rhetorically: "So our Jin family daughter can inherit the ancestry!" "Of course it is." "Hahahaha!" The sisters burst into laughter. At this time, the eldest sister said, "These two, he has to make a guarantee." In the future, all of them will have children who will go to school and study, and they will go to college and read big books. If you don't go to college, you can't do it, you can't catch up, you can't catch up with yourself! …… If you hadn't come down from college, who would have thought you would be like this? That's not a carefree family with a golden rice bowl, eating imperial grain, taking state money. But now you've come this far, and it's not all because you didn't finish college! ……”

"Ahem, don't talk about the eldest sister, it's supposed to be like this!"

Liuni listened to the eldest sister the most. Liuni has been hugged and fed by her eldest sister since she was a child. As the saying goes: the old sister is better than the mother. In Liuni's eyes, the old sister is like the old sister-in-law and mother, amiable, respectable, and cute......

When Liuni was 22 years old, she and Han Dacheng finally became married. Dacheng got his wish and got the beautiful, well-behaved, virtuous and capable Jin Liuni. Dacheng swore in front of Liuni: No matter how many children you have in the future, you will have your surname, surnamed Jin; All for them to study, go to college, read big books, and be useful people who stand up to the heavens and the earth!

A year after marriage, Liuni gave birth to her first daughter, Jin Mei, for Dacheng, and began to go to school at the age of seven (which was relatively early in the countryside at that time). Two years later, she gave birth to Jinzhu. In two more years, another girl named Jin Ting was dropped. Jin Ting, homophonic stop, stop and don't give birth to a girl. According to the fertility policy of ethnic minorities in China at that time, Jin Liuni could continue to give birth. She really wanted to have a boy in a different color, so she decided to have another one. After an interval of two years, another one was born, and it was still a girl - called Jin Ju. From now on. She didn't want to have any more children. So he discussed with Dacheng to put on the ring, take contraceptive measures, and no longer have children. Liuni said, God doomed me to not be able to support the boy's life. If it is reborn, it will still be a girl's .......