The host Xiaoqing said that Jin Wei's parents wanted their son to become Jackie Chan and forced him to work hard to achieve the goals they set, hoping that he could "fly higher" like Liu Xiang, but as a result, the domineering parental love made him go against the grain, and chose the path of crime in order to vent the depression of his soul, and one misstep turned into a thousand hatreds.

In this regard, Qiao Yan pointed out that qualified parents should have the ability to "understand human nature", because the most critical premise of raising children well is to understand their children. Only by fully understanding their children can parents know what their children need and better guide their children's healthy growth.

She said that almost all human problems can be traced back to childhood and family life. Parents play a crucial role in their children's development. What he brings to his child often determines what the child will become. Children's behavioral habits, personality characteristics, cognitive styles, etc. may be taught by parents, so parents' words and deeds are very important in the process of children's growth. And a good parent should meet these conditions: good communication, self-awareness, emotional stability, and multiple thinking. In family education, the most important thing for parents is to be good at communicating with their children, building mutual trust, discovering and nurturing their interests, and helping them to improve their personality.

So, how do you view your child's success? This is a matter of divergent opinions, and people with different values have different standards of pursuit. Qiao Yan shared a hypothetical idea about her son from a psychologist friend in the United States, when he passed by the farmers' market near his home, he would imagine what his son would do if he was the same fishmonger and vegetable seller who was busy all day long. At that moment, his heart was extremely tangled and irritable, and then he denied - "How can my son be a fish seller and a vegetable seller?" Then he thought, "What if my son grows up to be a fish seller and he sells happily?" ”。 He continued to think uneasily, "Do I really love him?" If I really love him, do I want him to live happily for the rest of his life, or do I want him to live his life according to my wishes? In the end, he got the answer, as long as his son could have a good time, it didn't matter if he sold fish.

"My thoughts are the same as that friend, the most important thing in life is to have self-confidence, and the second is to know how to take care of yourself." Qiao Yan said that children are not a tool for parents to succeed, and they should not impose their own expectations on their children. A child can grow up in a free environment, enjoy the intellectual, mental and physical childhood fun, enter adulthood, can choose their favorite studies, learn something, and then maintain a healthy body, no defects in morality, this is the greatest success of the child, but also the greatest success of family education.

Qiao Yan showed a clear point of view and decent manners and conversation, which won warm applause from the audience, and her popularity was no less than that of Wei Chihong's appearance. After the recording of the show, the host Xiaoqing also praised her for her very good performance.

While Qiao Yan was talking to Xiaoqing, the corner of her eyes glanced at the audience, Wei Chihong was surrounded by a group of female college students, her mood was affected, and she was a little unhappy.

Xiaoqing smiled and asked, "That big detective, is it your boyfriend?" ”

"Uh...... Yes. Qiao Yan blushed at her gaffe.

"You're so happy, your boyfriend is a male god." Xiaoqing's tone was full of envy.

Qiao Yan was embarrassed to continue this topic, Wei Chihong was pestered by those female students, she couldn't leave for a while, out of politeness, she could only talk to Xiaoqing without words. "Your TV station's programs are very good, such as "Super Brainpower", which is quite popular."

"Don't mention that show, if it weren't for Jing Junbai and Feng Yan saying such hurtful things on the show, how could they cause such a big storm, and it would have caused the TV station to apologize in public, it's too embarrassing." Xiaoqing was both disdainful and dissatisfied.

"Have you heard anything about Professor Feng's murder?" Qiao Yan thought that the TV station has always been a concentration of all kinds of news, and Feng Yan is a frequent guest of the TV station, maybe the people in the TV station will hear some rumors.

"I don't know about that." After Xiaoqing finished speaking, he thought about it again, "But I've heard Jing Junbai tell people that Feng Yan will die at the hands of a woman one day." ”

Qiao Yan asked in surprise: "Why do you say that?" ”

"I heard that Feng Yan is a master of picking up girls, and his style is very indecent. Aren't many murders now all love killings? Don't think that women can throw it away casually after playing, and some of them can't be easily shaken off if they get wet, and they will jump off the wall in a hurry. "Xiaoqing is sophisticated and transparent," It's ridiculous to say, Jing Junbai himself doesn't mess with flowers and grass all day long, he laughs at fifty steps and laughs at a hundred steps. ”

"Are the two of them on good terms?" Qiao Yan was curious.

"It should be okay, they smell the same, they are all 'carnivorous men'" Xiaoqing sneered, "They often exchange experiences of picking up girls together." Oh yes, Jing Junbai said that Feng Yan recently hooked up with a nurse, and she still has a husband, and the girl is tired of playing and wants to play with the young woman for a change of taste. Seeing that he still has a yearning look, he is also interested in the nurse, and it is normal for them to enjoy a woman together because of their virtue. They seem to look at women in a similar way. ”

Qiao Yan was disgusted to hear it, those two sanctimonious hypocrites, who looked like dogs on TV, did some dirty things behind their backs.

Qiao Yan saw that Xiaoqing was very good at talking, so she took advantage of the situation and asked again: "Do you know what the relationship between Yin Xinyue and Jing Junbai is?" It's the little flower girl who is held by Fire Dance. ”

"What else can there be but a lover's relationship." Xiaoqing said bluntly, "I saw them together last week." ”

Qiao Yan hurriedly asked for details. Xiaoqing recalled that it was one night last week, it was very late, and when she was about to go back after recording the show, she passed by a relatively hidden place and saw two figures shaking, listening to the sound like a woman crying, and the man kept comforting, because of the distance, she didn't hear what she said. Out of curiosity, she hid in the dark and peeked, and later saw Yin Xinyue walking out first, and after a while, Jing Junbai left. The two deliberately kept a long distance, like strangers, who must have been worried about being discovered.

Xiaoqing's words made Qiao Yan more sure of her speculation, the relationship between Yin Xinyue and Jing Junbai must not be simple, the two secretly dated that night, did Yin Xinyue cry because Jing Junbai was going to get engaged? Yin Xinyue went to Jing Junbai after knowing that she was pregnant, but she couldn't change his determination to get engaged?

The staff of the TV station came to Xiaoqing and reminded her that it was time to prepare for the next show. Qiao Yan said goodbye to her, and when she looked down the stage, Wei Chihong and the group of female students were gone.

Wei Chihong almost ran away, the group of female students were so enthusiastic and arrogant that he couldn't resist, they asked to take a photo with him, at first he was stubborn to meet their requirements, but when the group photo was taken, they all rubbed against his body, some were bolder, some held his arm, some touched his face, and even hugged his neck, and kissed him on the face.

So he was angry, a manly husband, was actually molested by a group of little girls, but considering his identity, it was not good to turn his face with them, so he could only say that he still had important things, and he couldn't delay any longer, so he squeezed out of the encirclement of girls.

Qiao Yan couldn't find Yu Chihong and called him.

"I'm in the car, you come here." Wei Chihong was still angry.

Qiao Yan heard that his tone was not quite right, and hurried to the parking place to find him.

Wei Chihong sat in the car, he puffed out a puff of smoke, and looked thoughtfully at the smoke spreading on the window pane, his thoughts were a little disordered and unfocused.

"No smoking." As soon as Qiao Yan opened the car door and came in, she snatched the cigarette from his hand, "Why are you smoking here alone, aren't you having a hot fight with that group of female college students?" Her tone was a little sour.

Yu Chihong looked at her with a serious face.

Qiao Yan reached out and touched his face. "What's the matter, who messed with you?"

Yu Chihong glanced at her. "Touch it a few more times."

Qiao Yan smiled dumbly, what evil did this person do. But she gladly did so, her little soft hands running back and forth over his face, and the other around his neck, trying to arouse his interest.

Yu Chihong's cheeks were hot from her touch, and his chest was also hot, he squinted his eyes, her long curly hair hung loosely in her ears, and there was an incomparably gentle, incomparably quiet smile on her face. He took her hand, and the sunlight slanted in through the car window and shone on her ivory, translucent fingers, and he couldn't help but look at it in amazement.

"How weird are you?" Qiao Yan lowered her head to look at him.

Yu Chihong took advantage of the situation to clasp her waist, kissed her lips and tongue, unbuttoned her blouse, licked and bit her neck a little bit, and the sensitive numbness hit her for a while. For a long time, he let go of her, her face blooming with a beautiful brilliance, and his eyes burned with passion.

Qiao Yan's face turned crimson, and she buttoned it indiscriminately, and when she returned to the public security bureau later, she couldn't take off her coat, otherwise the kiss mark on her neck would be a joke.

"I'm in a much better mood." Wei Chihong smiled comfortably, and the haze brought by those female students just now was swept away.

Qiao Yan squinted at him. "Why were you in a bad mood just now?"

"It's annoying to be pestered by those female students." Yu Chihong snorted, "Today's girls really don't know their own weight, and they are all so arrogant." ”

Qiao Yan finally understood why he was upset, it turned out that he was rubbed with oil by a girl. She laughed at him with a mischievous look. "The brave and fearless Lord Wei Chi turns out that there are times when he can't parry. If it spreads, people will laugh out of their big teeth. ”