Chapter 69: The Enlightenment of the Lost

When I first came to work in the pharmaceutical group, I was in a bad mood, giving up the beauty of the road and giving up the dream, the old one has collapsed, the new one is still barren, and I can't tell the panic in my heart. Unlike when I worked part-time in an investment company in the later period, there was always a glimmer of hope in my heart, and everything I did was full of vitality. I believe that everyone who has left Meilu or experienced direct pyramid marketing has had similar feelings, always feeling that they can do anything, but they don't want to do anything, and they don't know what is suitable for themselves. The appetite has long been supported by dreams, despises tradition, but lacks enough confidence in the future, and always feels that Shenma is not as good as the diamonds of Meilu. My heart was full of deep frustration, unwilling, but I couldn't lift my spirits no matter what......

You may still hate Miro, but you clearly still have something to miss. Was it the passion of fire at that time? A dream like a flower? The green years? Once brilliant? Or is it the pride of standing on the stage and pointing out the country? hates Meilu, but when outsiders accuse Meilu, they still can't help but jump out and want to defend Meilu! What to justify? Say they don't know the real beauty road? Isn't Meilu so unbearable in every way? I still don't want to deny everything about my past so easily! I hate Meilu, but I like its products, nostalgia for its atmosphere, and appreciate its culture, but I still feel that other companies can't do it, and I can't help but always have to take it out to compete with Meilu; I hate Meilu, but I don't know whether I have gained more or lost more, and I don't know whether to regret or rejoice? I hate Meilu, but no matter how long you have been gone, no matter where you are, whenever you see the word "Meilu", you still can't help but stop and stop; No matter how long you have been gone, you will always have a beauty complex in your heart, whether strong or light. hates Meilu, and once he finally leaves, he can't help but feel sorry for himself, lamenting the injustice of fate and the waste of time...... It seems that except for Meilu, I will not have a good life in this life, and then I have been thinking, if I go back again, or change companies again, will I do better?

The real Lao Meilu, unless forced to do so, is willing to leave silently, and then completely leave the city, escape everything, just like I left Tianjin at that time, this may be the common heart of every direct pyramid scheme refugee. Walking, because you have run all over the city, almost even your life has been put into it, and every grass and tree makes you feel sad. Meilu said that it is big and big, and there are people from all walks of life and all walks of life; It is small and small, so small that there is only the center and the venue, and you will think of the people and things in the lost years anytime and anywhere, those who hurt you, those who have hurt you, those who have borrowed money, those who have spoken boldly, and those who have lost their faces......

As long as you have really paid and sacrificed for that dream, then this scar must exist, it used to be very painful, long or short, we call this Meilu syndrome! I read an article on "The Ten Effects of Psychology", and after counting it, I found that Meilu is used: halo effect, proximate effect, self-test effect, herd effect, Matthew effect, butterfly effect, barrel effect, catfish effect...... No wonder it's so hard to get a person to actually wake up!

Meilu is a dream, and most of the people who come here have dreams that are processed by the desire production line, almost exactly the same dream. Such dreams can be infinitely amplified or infinitely replicated, but they always make people unable to find the real feeling. I admit that it is a great pleasure to be surrounded by countless crazy fans on the enviable and crazy stage of Meilu, but it still lacks some real confidence, some illusions that dare not face reality. I think this is a gap that no matter how good the product, no matter how good the training, and no matter how good the culture, it can't make up.

For many people, Meilu is not only an economic demand, but also a spiritual need. In modern society, there are so many people who are lonely, fearful, frustrated, and insecure, and Meilu gives us a longing that should not exist, a mirage-like dream, and in the end, we strangle this hope with our own hands, which should be the root of Meilu syndrome. Too many people may not get the encouragement, praise and praise that they are given in the United States Road in their lifetime, and those who have no education, no ability, no family, no funds, and no one cares after leaving the United States...... People who are wandering or sinking on the fringes of society finally choose to completely throw themselves into the arms of direct pyramid schemes, which is also the final destination of many former American passers-by, and many lives and souls are completely burned in the final madness.

What is the cornerstone of Meilu or MLM? It is the weakness of human nature: vanity, comparison, uncontrollable material impulses, and even a sense of accomplishment that follows you everywhere...... Buddhists say that all inner suffering is rooted in greed, hatred, and ignorance. And the reason why we can find "happiness" in it is because in Meilu, we don't have to think about achieving this virtual happiness experience, nor do we have to assume the responsibilities and obligations of social roles. In the movie "The Matrix", there is a sentence from Morpheus, the guide of the protagonist Neo, which is still fresh in my memory: If you are always in a dream and never wake up, how do you know what life is like? Just like Morpheus's perception, the immersion, attractiveness, and even false life brought by Meilu and all direct marketing schemes have made direct pyramid schemers more and more unable to extricate themselves, and so afraid of change and loss, even if they face the real world a little.

Meilu, the biggest destruction of people is neither money nor connections, but mentality! The people who have really experienced Meilu are the people who have been developed by Meilu to develop the deepest desires in their hearts. After quitting Meilu and figuring it out, you will start to slowly become indifferent, because there is nothing more than Meilu giving you temptations and desires. Meilu is no longer a specific company, a specific culture, a specific system, a specific product or a specific team, but a virus that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

For those young people who have been wounded in the war, the treatment of physical injuries is nothing, and the worst thing is their mental exhaustion, in which there is no longer a sparkle or love. Looking at the movie "The Shawshank Redemption" again, in fact, the American road itself is also a process of being institutionalized by the wrong system, if you don't have a strong inner home, otherwise it is easy to lose the direction of the goal and become confused after coming out. Rebuilding faith and rebuilding a pragmatic and positive direction of life is extremely important for the former Meilu people.

Time is the best healing medicine and teacher, and actively waiting is the best choice, after learning a lesson, look forward, everything is not worth mentioning, because now is the most worthy of our time to face - let the heart have a peace! Waiting is not necessarily a passive waiting, but a kind of preparation...... People sometimes need to endure loneliness.

And for those who are eager to bring out their relatives who are still attached to the beauty road, I hope you can seriously think about one question: the sun or the cold wind, which is easier for pedestrians to take off their clothes? Think about it, the more you are blocked by your parents, the more you have to get married to your parents? Therefore, if you are not optimistic about this marriage, you must not strongly oppose it first, let alone sweep your relatives out of the house, otherwise it will not only be ineffective, but will be rebellious. The heart is with you, and you don't have to be afraid of whatever he does. The heart is far away from you, and even if he doesn't do anything, you have to start worrying about paying attention. Therefore, you must first make him feel that you understand him, listen first, then care, and then accompany him to do a beautiful road, slowly inspire him to think about those unreasonable phenomena, expand his negative thoughts, guide him according to the situation, and finally get it. In fact, the people of the United States follow up with the newcomers, especially those who are disgusted with the United States at the beginning, also use the same method, and today, it is just the opposite.

Meilu people don't often say, you don't know how Meilu can oppose Meilu? To understand the beauty of the road to understand the positive, successful people of the United States, to understand the way they succeeded, those negative people are the losers of the United Road...... So, why are many times your efforts or opposition to saving your loved ones ineffective? Because you really don't know enough about Meilu. Everyone has a soft heartstring in their heart, and everyone will instinctively try to protect it. And whether you can shake him or not depends not on how strong you are, but on whether you have the ability to pluck that string.

Once, countless times I fantasized about the silence at the commendation meeting of my crown ambassador, when it came to the sad part...... then played the strongest note of "The Lonely Shadow of Heaven and Earth Let Me Go", and then wept...... It's a shame not to be able to experience this scene, but it's fortunate not to go through the process again.

After the people dispersed, a hook of the crescent moon is like water, and I sincerely hope that everything can return to normal after the catastrophe, but the reality of the situation is not so poetic. As a veteran who has been fighting in the United States for seven years and has made diamonds, I have seen far more problems and known the truth than those who are still suffering or enjoying at the grassroots level. Whenever I see them tighten their belts and rush forward desperately, I feel very sad, in fact, the only ones who can really make money are the leaders who joined earlier, even if they do diamonds, they may not necessarily have a stable income, and the vast majority of people have to end up being reduced to the bottom of the tower, or even the bones.

Deng Wen is a certain depth in the Jiangxi team who once worshipped me, and in the final turmoil, he chose to believe Zhu Ansheng. After leaving, he said to me: "I will never fall, there is nothing to say, the results speak for themselves!" I will definitely wait for Zhao Ning and Gan Weijun (Deng Wen is Gan Weijun and Zhao Ning's department) to come back, whether they come back or not, I will go down alone. Everyone has their own way, maybe I am so naïve in your opinion, but I will prove: laughing at life, what is the purpose of living? "Seriously, anyone can shout slogans, and I'm afraid that in the past seven years, my bold words are no less than anyone else's, but it's not the right time! Deng Wenzheng finally broke up with his girlfriend Yanwen, on the grounds that his girlfriend did not fully support him and dragged down his beautiful road. Today, I don't know how he is, maybe he is still struggling to support himself.

To Deng Wenzheng, remember that I replied to him like this: Zhao Ning and Gan Weijun will never come back! But you are still young, and many things will naturally be understood when you have experienced them. You say that one person is tired, and when your team grows older, and then watch them leave one by one, you will be even more tired! I know that no matter what I say now, you will not believe it, because you are very simple now, simple people are easily hypnotized under the drive of despair or desire, you can only listen to the voice of encouragement, any objective analysis can only be filtered as a toxin, at this time you have lost yourself, and people who have lost themselves will not succeed. Meilu is the business of a leader, like a moth to a fire, either to become a moth or turn into light, constantly attracting moths to fight fires. But no matter what you are, the ending is the same, because you will be tired, and you can't be radiant forever, either burn to death or burn out......

As the vast majority of partners who are still struggling at the bottom of the tower, if you can't quickly get rid of the fate of the bottom within five years, then the constant advance consumption, field conferences, replenishment at the end of the month, center fees, follow-up costs and delivery costs will eventually force you into a financial dilemma. And those friends who have already been on the silver medal, touch their conscience, is your income really worthy of your award? In the past seven years, 90% of the more than 200 DDs I know have "died" in Meilu, and the vast majority of them are in debt of 20,000~400,000 yuan when they leave. In Meilu, those who can struggle for three years without being in debt are all talents!

I say this out of a sense of responsibility, out of the trust that my friends have placed in me in the past. It's been bumpy and muddy along the way, and that's how I've come through it for the past seven years. If this road really leads to splendor and splendor, no matter how rough and thorny the road is, I will never stand in the way. I will cheer for you, walk side by side with you, and even overcome obstacles for you. But this path is different, it eventually leads to financial hardship and life loss, and I don't want you to follow in the footsteps of others. Explaining the truth is my last responsibility in the United States, and I didn't run away because I couldn't stand it, but I gave up because I saw it too clearly.

The success of Meilu is illusory, and most of them are just gimmicks that the leaders show to influence the newcomers. For the sake of so-called "influence", he did not hesitate to buy a car or a house in debt, but also to package it successfully, and finally pushed himself to the brink of financial bankruptcy. Have you ever seen a diamond with only 20 yuan a day to live on? I've seen it! Let's ask, in the 16 years of Meilu China, how many real diamonds are there? Most of them are high-level lies that deceive people - for the sake of awards and influence, robbing people, hoarding goods, low folds, cutting off the back road, and starting with a high amount...... Do it all! And all this is for the so-called vision and value. As is often said in leadership training, this is a bottom-up business, and you will always have to do the work of newcomers - because the old man is not easy to deceive! Of course, as a rare species, there are still leaders with conscience and personality in the United States, and if you are lucky enough to be touched, I can only say that you are lucky! But it is difficult for such a leader to lead you to "success" in the United States, because he is not ruthless enough!

I have sworn on stage countless times that if I die, I will die in Meilu! At that time, I was young and passionate! In fact, when a person is desperate, even if he sees only a glimmer of light, he will be a moth to a fire. At this time, people are easily hypnotized. And those who are still attached to the beautiful road: the newcomer is fascinated - his ears do not listen to what is going on outside the window, and he only reads the books of the sages; The old man suffers - the clothes and belts are gradually widened and he does not regret it, and he is haggard for Yi; And the high level is to be noble in front of people, and then you will suffer after winning people! Those who finally left the beautiful road with a lot of scars are either bitten by snakes for ten years and afraid of the well rope, or they are shaky and want to get back on their feet, but they are mentally exhausted and financially in debt. Meilu is the biggest destruction of people's hearts, if you hate someone, let him do Meilu! There are many ways to harm others, and this one seems to be the most gentle!

In the past many years, whenever a partner leaves the team, I always feel sorry for them in my heart - what a great opportunity, why can't I understand it? Now that I think about it, perhaps, the vast majority of people have never really understood, they come with a full of longing, and then they go away because their hopes are dashed; Coming because of money, staying because of feelings, dying because of sadness - everything is a feeling, everything is illusory. As the saying goes: the back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and the front waves die on the beach; The back wave continues to go forward, or die on the beach! Now, finally, it's my turn - and I'm the one who thinks clearly and jumps off the building on my own!

If there is anything else to be gained about Meilu, I believe that it is the all-round improvement of Meilu's personal ability. However, there are prerequisites for this kind of promotion, that is: (1) go all out for more than three years; (2) Employed in DD or above; (3) independent operation; (4) Standardized operation - all four are indispensable. In this regard, I am lucky, and there are too many people who have lost their wives and lost their soldiers, and have gained nothing in terms of ability. Meilu's training is so successful, so deep in the bone marrow, even if it turns into ashes and smoke, I still miss Meilu. And I'm one of them, a Milu ghost who doesn't want to be a Milu ghost! This article can be regarded as a faithful embodiment of this complex. I really hope that this memory that has lasted for more than a year will be closed soon, and as long as it is not completed, it will be difficult for the first half of my life to draw a complete end.

It's been more than two years since I "died" in the United States, and for such a long period of time, all kinds of criticism and rumors have flown towards you like dark arrows, especially after the serialization appeared on the Internet. But what can be done, and what can be done without cost? The same goes for telling the truth. The people who are most seriously injured in the United States are also the most emotional, like Xue Ping or myself, our group of "corpses" are all temperamental people, so they will be the most injured. People who do Meilu think that if you don't do Meilu, you are a traitor; People who leave Meilu feel that you are also a traitor if you choose another company - the success of Meilu Education can be seen, and the horror of Meilu Education can also be seen. Recently, there have been reports on the joint anti-transmission of Meilu and other companies on the Internet, and the thief shouts to catch the thief, which is very ridiculous to think about.

Looking back at history, Western civilization has its advantages and disadvantages, and the biggest problem is that it is self-respecting - arrogant, prejudiced and even extreme, lacking a bit of Chinese moderation. Some Westerners, together with those affected by it, really believe that human history will stop at the Western model, and that Western civilization will dominate the future of the world. In fact, once any theory or model, including the market system, is pushed to the sole and extreme, it will lose its rationality, and the outcome will naturally be unsatisfactory, or even a complete failure.

On the other hand, today's beautiful road has been developing continuously since 1995, and its existence must have its reasonable factors. But as a once avant-garde Western market model, in China, once Meilu is endowed with meanings such as the most ideal entrepreneurial model, the only right choice in life, and the opportunity to change your life, it is not difficult to understand its offensiveness. As a foreign product, Meilu and any direct pyramid scheme are extremely exclusive. Meilu always said: "Everything is inferior, only Meilu is high!" "From a cultural point of view, Meilu is indeed unaccustomed to the soil and water in China, it has been 16 years, and it is still not accepted and recognized by the mainstream society, which is also the dilemma of Meilu and all direct pyramid schemes!

And after staying in this kind of exclusive education for a while, people's whole mentality will become deformed, and once they leave, they will be at a loss. Reality is unforgiving, and many people are forced to wake up. Of course, it's better to wake up late than not at all, because no matter how you fly in your dreams, dreams, there will always be a day to wake up. Those of us who have been immersed in the American road for seven or eight years are financially embarrassed, exhausted by our youth, and alone...... It's really embarrassing. Then, you will slowly understand that life is a person of Meilu, death is a ghost of Meilu, and many times, this is not your choice!

For those of you who have been reading this article or attacking me, I hope that one day when you leave, you will remember what I said today, because I was you now, and the balance of the system will not favor you because of someone. As Meilu people often say, Meilu is the business of opening a coffin shop - one day waiting for you! I always believe that time will tell!

This is the enlightenment of a fan! Not only Meilu, but also all direct MLM!