Chapter 198: On whether to have a child or not
"Don't you want to?"
He looked up.
At this moment, she carefully wrapped her body with a quilt, only her shoulders were exposed, and her head was covered with kiss marks made by him.
"I'm not ready yet. And, I still want to work! Chat"
She said it very softly.
More than a month ago, they didn't know each other and got married.
More than a month later, they shared a bed and got better.
Now I'm even talking about having a baby.
This rhythm is too fast.
It's so fast that she can't keep up a little.
"Then you can get ready now. We don't use contraception. If you have it, you will have ......"
He stroked her lower abdomen and pondered:
"Maybe at this time, there is already one?"
For Jin Hengyuan, at the age of thirty-two, he is no longer young, and since he has married a wife and has children, he naturally has to put it on the agenda to discuss.
The important thing is that only when she is pregnant and gives birth to a child can she be regarded as truly being by his side.
For him, this is equivalent to an extra insurance.
The approach seems a bit shameful.
But he just wasn't completely sure.
And children are always the biggest twist in marriage.
Once he is born, with his understanding of Su Jin, the child will definitely become her heart, and it will be difficult to give it up. In the future, even if she knew those things, she would not be able to give up this family because of her children.
For Su Jin, at the age of twenty-six, her career has just begun to improve, and at this time, when she is pregnant and has a child, then she can't settle down to be busy with work.
Although Jin Hengyuan is fully capable of supporting her, and can also raise her into a pampered wife.
But the kind of life that depends on men to live is never what she wants.
What she wants is to rely on herself and live her own life value, instead of becoming a rice worm that does nothing.
In the life without Jin Hengyuan before, her dream is to be a designer with her own characteristics, in a small city like Shanxian, to make a little famous, you don't need to be famous, as long as you can let others remember your design and like your design.
With this design, while supporting yourself, you can also bring beauty to others, which is enough.
Today, she still has that dream.
And at this moment, facing the hand that was pressing on her lower abdomen, she was sweating profusely - she was suddenly afraid that he would be right.
What if it does exist now?
No, no, no, she didn't want to assume that.
"Can you not think about having children for a while?"
She softly voiced her disagreement.
"Reason!"
Jin Hengyuan is not surprised that she will be rejected, she is always young, and there are still too many dreams to come true.
"You'll have to give me a reason to convince me."
He threw down a sentence, got up, only a bath towel around his body, went to the cloakroom to pick out clothes, and gave her time and space to think.
Su Jin thought about it on the bed for a while and chased after him.
He had already put on his trousers and was wearing a shirt, with golden pinstripes on a navy blue background, and the extraordinary temperament of a man was immediately revealed.
Yes, he perfectly blended the dark atmosphere and the golden luxury.
When you wear it like this, it's absolutely handsome.
It's just handsome.
"Got it figured?"
He's buttoning up.
"Hmm!"
She looked at him quietly, and sighed softly in her heart: she found that she found this man more and more charming. What's the matter, alas......
"Tell me about it."
He leaned over and kissed her, kissed it gently, and did not insist on domineering and ordered her: No, you must have a child, nothing to say.
He respects her and is good at tolerating her.
It is this respect and tolerance that gives her a sense of comfort - married life is how it should be.
"One, after marriage, you have to give me a little more time to get used to it. Both you and your family background are new to me, and I need to slowly get rid of the discomfort. It takes some time. ”
She slowly spat out the first reason.
He raised his eyebrows, thought carefully, and nodded:
"It seems to make sense. What about the two. ”
"Two, we just got married, and I want to spend a while with you in a two-person world."
These words, she said delicately and delicately, the little woman's charm was undoubtedly revealed, and her face was still flushed with a shallow flush:
"Simply put, just you and me, no one else intervenes, not even our children, that will hinder our emotional development...... For us to have a better life in the future. I don't think it's necessary to have children for the time being. ”
For this reason, she also deliberately got close to the past and took the initiative to hug him:
"Hengyuan, don't you want to live in a two-person world?"
Of course Jin Hengyuan thought about it, but without waiting for him to answer, she had already added it directly:
"Before, you said that you want to fall in love within marriage, date me, watch movies, pick me up from work, and I must make up for it before marriage and after marriage. Now if we are pregnant with a child, it is equivalent to skipping the two-person world of falling in love before marriage and after marriage, and entering a family of three in a hurry, and we have to have a headache every day about which brand of milk powder to buy for our children...... Do you think it's really good to be so fast? ”
Jin Hengyuan did not answer, only asked:
"Are there three?"
"Yes. Three, you have a daughter, I haven't gotten along with her, and I don't know if she will reject me. ”
She rested her head on him:
"I've never been a stepmother, if I get pregnant early, what if she has an opinion? I think I'd have dealt with this satisfactorily before I think about having a baby. I hope that in the future, our children can be good sisters with Xiaoya. Don't let the little girl have the idea that I robbed her father. ”
He smiled uncertainly: "Well, it's very thoughtful...... Is there a fourth? Let's move on! ”
"Yes, fourth, I would like to work for a while longer...... Pregnant and gave birth, I must take the child, you also said, your mother has her own family, it is definitely impossible to bring it to us, give it to your grandparents, that's too unusual, give it to the nanny, I can't bear it...... So...... We have to push back the plan to have a baby, and wait for me to work for a while to talk about whether it's okay......"
After she had finished talking about the four reasons, she looked at him earnestly, hoping that he would agree.
"That's the reason, isn't it?"
After listening to this, Jin Hengyuan asked rhetorically.
Su Jin nodded: "Hmm." ”
"Now I'll ask you."
He stroked his shoulders with both hands.
"Just ask!"
"How long do you want to live in a two-person world?"
Of these four reasons, he was only interested in this one.
If he is really pregnant now, the loss for him is very great: the benefits that have just arrived must be deprived immediately. Thinking about those days of abstinence, he was super unhappy.
"Is a year good?"
Su Jin thought about it for a while and tentatively gave a deadline.
In fact, she really wanted to say that it would be two years, but it was estimated that it was impossible for him, so she changed it for one year.
"It's too long."
Jin Hengyuan withdrew his hand, considered it, and bargained with her:
"Half a year at most."
"Half a year is too short."
Su Jin disagreed.
"It's not short. That's more than 180 days...... You can do a lot of things. ”
Jin Hengyuan said with a heartfelt voice:
"If you want to understand someone, it's enough; If you want to connect with Xiaoya, it's enough; It can make us tired of being crooked for a while; As for the work...... That's bottomless.
"Xiao Su, let me tell you, even if you are given two years, three years, four years or even five years, as soon as you use it for work, you will feel that the time is so insufficient.
"I'm just a living example, I've been doing this for 10 years. When I look back now, I realize, wow, I have achieved nothing but a little money, a little work experience, and a family.
"Now, I understand that work should be important, and family should be valued......
"So, in half a year, we must have children...... Work or something to put aside for a while......
"Xiao Su, in this matter, listen to me. Home is more important than anything else. ”
It turns out that when you negotiate with a lawyer, you often lose more than you win.
Although Su Jin was a little dissatisfied that the time was too short, what he said made sense, so he nodded.
"Alright! That's half a year! ”
Jin Hengyuan smiled, took a belt to his waist, and reminded him of another word.
"In the past six months, I will do the measures, and you are not allowed to buy medicine privately. Hurt the body. After going back this time, we have to go to see the old Chinese medicine doctor, recuperate our bodies together, and prepare for half a year later. ”
"Oh!"
Su Jin nodded, a little uncomfortable.
"One more thing, the most important ......"
He tied his clothes neatly, and his hands fell to her hair again.
"What?"
She looked up at him.
His gaze was moving downward, and he glanced straight at her abdomen, and then raised his head:
"If you are pregnant now, then what we said before cannot be counted, and you must be born. I will never allow an abortion in order to give birth later. ”
"Well, this is natural."
She said yes.
And so the agreement was made.
He smiled slightly, leaned over, and kissed her on the lips: "One last request." During this half year, condoms are not worn during the safety period. That thing affects quality. Uncomfortable ...... I love the ...... with real guns."
“……”
I thought it was something important, but it turned out to be ......
The red tide rolled over her face again.
Su Jin bit his lip secretly and screamed sullenly: "Uncomfortable? Hmph, that's enough experience...... Yikes......"
The face was pinched hard:
"I'll have to defend myself. I have zero experience in this area. I've never bought a cover......"
Tsk, zero experience!
You can really put gold on your face.
If you have zero experience, where did Xiaoya come from, she is clearly a veteran.
Alas, when she thought that he had shot with other women, she felt a cloud of discomfort in her heart, but it was all in the past, how could she pursue it, she only screamed sullenly:
"Jin Hengyuan, you are really more and more capable of playing hooligan...... Not! ”
The lip was bitten again.
He laughed,
"A husband who doesn't play hooligan with his wife is definitely not a good husband."
“……”
When the two of them came downstairs, it was almost eight o'clock, and at the dining table, the two of them were eating breakfast noisily.
A faint smile appeared on Su Jin's face, and there was too much joy in his bright eyes.
When she was in the Su family, she had a simple and happy life.
At that time, the three children, giggling and laughing, got together, and the house was full of laughter.
That kind of life is happy and easy, and every day is simply repeating the most comfortable and comfortable beautiful years.
Later, the laughter was not there, and the small family that was isolated was cast a thick shadow by the cruel reality.
Now, she feels that way again.
The light, sweet, joyful, shy, and expectant days are spread out in front of you.
Yes, she likes to live like this.
For the future, she has full expectations.
It was going to be another wonderful life. ---Off topic---
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