VIII. Teachings
"Ah, auntie, look, it's so beautiful!"
The weather is clear and the wind is smooth.
Night, deep and blurry.
Chengdu, Fuhe, on a bridge.
There is a large and a small, two figures, strolling in the courtyard.
Chen Xi took his aunt's hand and pointed to the green light in the distance, cheering happily.
But at this moment, the beam of green light suddenly dispersed, colorful, shining on the surface of the river, painted into a lotus flower, extremely blooming.
"It's beautiful!" Chen Xi exclaimed.
"That's laser ......," Chen Rong chuckled.
"This is Chengdu Fuhe, this season, this time, there are a lot of people walking, and it can be regarded as a scenery in Chengdu!"
"That's great!" Chen Xi smiled lightly, revealing shiny little tiger teeth.
At this moment, she is like the lotus flower on the river, peerless and independent.
Together, the two walked down the stone arch bridge and walked along the tree-lined path by the river.
In my ears, there are laughter and laughter from time to time.
On the banks of the river, there are many people, and they are crowded.
"Ah, someone is pulling the erhu, it's so good, Liang Zhu!" Chen Xi jumped up and ran forward.
"It's still a kid after all!" Chen Rong shook her head slightly and chased forward.
At this time, she saw that Chen Xi was rummaging in his pocket.
"Xiaoxi, what are you doing?" Chen Rong was stunned.
"I'm looking for change...... Chen Xi stuck out his tongue, and from his pocket, he took out a roll of change, one cent, two cents, five cents, one piece, scattered, wrinkled, and rolled into a ball.
She did not hesitate to put all the money in her hand into a bowl.
"Girl, thank you!" It was a middle-aged woman who pulled the erhu and said with a smile.
"Auntie, you play so nicely!" Chen Xi said happily, and then, taking her aunt's hand, she turned around and left.
"Girl, wait!" Suddenly, the woman who pulled the erhu shouted.
"Auntie, what's wrong?" Chen Xi was puzzled and suddenly turned around.
"What a kind little girl, if my daughter is still here, she will be as old as you!" The woman said, took out a red rope from her neck, this is a small Buddha statue, and put it on Chen Xi.
"At this time, I asked for it in the temple, girl, good luck!"
"Eldest sister, this is too precious!" Chen Rong spoke.
"It's rare to meet someone who is destined!" The middle-aged woman shook her head, "This girl, I like it very much!" ”
"Thank you, Auntie!" Chen Xi touched the Buddha statue, she liked it very much.
"Go, be safe and sound, free from illness and disaster!" The middle-aged woman smiled, picked up the erhu again, and pulled it up by herself.
"Grandma Wang said that as long as you are kind to others, others will treat you well, and what she said is true!" Chen Xi said.
"In this world, there are good people and bad people!"
Holding Chen Xi's hand, the two walked strolling, Chen Rong said, "You are still young, you will understand in the future, however, it is good to have kindness, but it depends on who it is!" ”
"Auntie!"
Chen Xi stopped, his eyes kept flashing, "No matter what others do, I'll just be myself!" ”
"Good girl!" Chen Rong was very happy.
Although Chen Xi is small, sometimes, he shows tenacity and maturity.
She was very pleased with this.
Growing up in the mountains and forests, Chen Xi is not only tenacious, but more importantly, this girl always has a grateful heart for this society, pure and immaculate.
She has not complained about the hardships of life, she has always been optimistic and full of yearning for the future.
That's a good thing.
People, as long as they have goals and their own pursuits, can be full of enthusiasm and vitality for life.
She hopes that Chen Xi will continue like this, live a simple and happy life, have ideals and pursuits.
"Auntie, what's wrong?" Chen Xi asked.
She found that her aunt looked at her very strangely, relieved, but sighed.
"Hopefully, in a complicated world, you will always be you!" Squatting down and holding Chen Xi's face, Chen Rong said.
"I'll always be me!" Chen Xi's eyes flashed, very puzzled.
"Come, let's go there and rest for a while!" Taking Chen Xi's hand, the two sat on a chair.
"Auntie, are you worried about something!" Chen Xi asked.
"Although you are smart, but in this world, everyone has it, I'm afraid that you will meet bad people......" Chen Rong said, "You grew up in Daliangshan since you were a child, and you don't know much about the outside world, my aunt is worried, you will suffer when you come out in the future, you girl, you are too kind-hearted!" ”
"It's just grinding!" Chen Xi said, "Actually, when I first entered Chengdu, I felt that this place is different from home...... I don't like the way they look at my father, I don't like it! ”
"Girl......" Chen Rong smiled bitterly, "In other places, people always say that our southwest is a poor country and a barbarian land...... And for Chengdu, our Daliangshan is the same...... Our hometown is backward, and people look at us differently......"
"Since ancient times, the transmission of culture has been from developed areas to remote areas...... We started late, it doesn't matter, self-improvement, in this world, there is no absolute! ”
"Thank you, auntie!" Chen Xi said.
"Actually, I'm just a loser!"
Chen Rong smiled bitterly, "In the past, I was like you, full of yearning for the future...... I was the first college student to come out of our Chenliu Village, at the beginning, full of confidence, after coming out, I found that the world was different from what I imagined...... Not to mention the career, it is difficult to get a foothold, various industries, workplaces, on the surface and amiable, but behind the scenes, I am cheating, I even take a teacher qualification certificate, I have to break my head......"
"Not to mention failed love!"
"Auntie, I'll try!" Chen Xi said softly, but in his eyes, he was extremely determined.
"Some people say that a woman is virtuous if she is not talented!" Chen Rong said, "It's just nonsense, in their eyes, women should teach their husbands and children at home, and pay hard work, this is virtue!" ”
"Hmph, what is virtue? In their opinion, only if a woman obediently obeys their wishes, this is virtue, if you don't listen, want to be independent, it is rebellious......"
"I don't care what others say!" Chen Xi said softly, "I think knowledge, cultivation, sentiment, and thought ...... Taken together, these are virtues! ”
"Giggles!" Chen Rongjiao laughed, "Girl, what you said, this is just ......"
Chen Xi defended: "Mencius said, those who are moved to circumvent the rituals, the will of saintliness!" ”
"Girl, are you alright?" Chen Rong stretched out her hand and touched Chen Xi's forehead, "Don't be a nerd, you're still competing with your aunt." ”
"I'm fine...... Chen Xi's face turned red, and he continued, "Moving, it refers to your appearance and appearance, circumambulation, it means that when facing society, you meet the code of conduct, this is etiquette, etiquette, and virtue!" ”
"In the past, those people said that women are virtuous if they are not talented, because there are not many opportunities for women to receive education, and they say this just to make a woman obey their men's standards from the beginning!" Chen Rong said, "Girl, let's not discuss this, I just want to say, in the future, when you come out, no matter what you do, you must uphold your heart!" ”
"It's natural!" Chen Xi nodded lightly.
"Also, it's a good thing that you have a good heart, and my aunt is also happy, but keep an eye on everything, we don't harm people, but we can't do without the heart of guarding against people!" Chen Rong advised, "Especially those who are smiling and rhetorical, you must be extra vigilant!" ”
"I see!" Chen Xi said, but he didn't think so.
Although she doesn't like many things, Grandma Wang said that there are still many good people in this world.
"You have to take my words to heart!"
Chen Rong grabbed Chen Xi's hand, "Especially, you are slowly growing up, you have to be cautious with men......"
"What are you telling me about this?" Chen Xi was puzzled, tonight, my aunt seemed to have endless words, and she felt that she was very anxious.
"Our family Xi girl, she will definitely be a big beauty in the future, and there must be a lot of people who beat your idea!" Chen Rong said seriously, "This woman, sometimes it's really not easy, you have to choose the right person, it's even more difficult, some men, after staying with you for a long time, will get tired of it, and they will abandon you from the beginning, and as a result, it is the woman who is injured...... Sometimes, just a gossip can kill people and make you irreversible, so we must have self-respect and self-respect! ”
"Auntie, are you still thinking about that person?" Chen Xi suddenly asked.
"Nope!" Chen Rong said calmly, "There is no love or hatred for him, if I still think about him, wouldn't I be sorry for your uncle?" ”
"Then why are you ......," Chen Xi asked.
"Chinese-style education is very conservative, especially sex education, and it is even more difficult for parents to talk about!" Chen Rong said, "I am your aunt, I will not be by your side in the future, take this opportunity to talk to you......
In fact, in this regard, foreign families will not shy away from this problem when they have instilled this kind of thinking in their children since they were young...... Now, in the growth stage, whether it is the mind or the body, you are slowly maturing, and it is easy to go wrong without anyone to guide you! ”
"Auntie, you say!" Chen Xi nodded.
"Since childhood, parents have taught us that children should focus on learning, and must not fall in love, what they don't know is that they deprive the young girl of the flower season when the love is first blooming, the exploration and learning of love, but they also require the child to enter the society, quickly find the object, scribbled for life, this is really a great irony......"
Chen Rong said bitterly, "If you want me to say, there is no such thing as early love, love is not sooner or later, when you face a person who blushes and heartbeats, but can't control yourself, and can't help but want to see that person, love has already happened!" ”
"You admit it or not, allow it or not, it all exists objectively! It is this process of sweetness and bitterness, expectation and anxiety that a person experiences growth...... In fact, first love is pure and simple, and only adults will associate all this love with sex...... It's not that we're too precocious, it's that adults are no longer ......."
Chen Xi has been listening silently, and her aunt's words have undoubtedly had a great impact on her.
Actually, she was still young and never thought about it.
At present, she is mainly studying.
But my aunt said that she would grow up, and in the future, she would also meet the boy she liked.
Although now is not the time to think about this issue, my aunt has undoubtedly taught her a vivid lesson.
Although, in the eyes of many people, this kind of words, incredible.
Because, this is said to her, a ten-year-old little girl.
However, Chen Xi listened to it and remembered it in his heart.
My aunt actually told her that when the time comes, when you meet someone you like, don't hesitate to love boldly.
Love, just love, many times, cannot be linked to sex.
"Do you know Sophie Marceau?" Chen Rong said, "She made a movie at the age of thirteen, and that one is called First Love, and when you grow up, you can also watch this movie!" ”
"Hmm!" Chen Xi nodded lightly.
"Sex, many times, is an unspeakable topic......"
After a pause, Chen Rong said, "Sometimes, when parents are facing their children, where am I from, what are my parents doing at night, this kind of innocent question, adults will always give some vague answers...... Then, children who don't know anything, wait until they reach puberty, and then sneak to find some nonsense books and movies to explore, and the result is easy to lead people astray......"
Glancing at Chen Xi, Chen Rong continued, "Actually, it is the deepest desire of human beings, and it is the foundation for the continued development of this world, and people need sex, but they can't clearly understand it, so they regard it as heretical......"
"What I want to say is that for these problems, we must be brave, do not shy away, and face them with a good and correct attitude!" Chen Rong said softly, "My aunt will not always be by your side in the future, but my aunt believes that you can be independent and strong and cope with everything!" ”
"Auntie, do you regret it?" Suddenly, Chen Xi asked.
"No regrets!" Chen Rong said calmly, "I have loved, what do you regret!" ”
"I don't want you to go my way, though!" Chen Rong said, "I let you love bravely, boldly love, but I also let you be cautious, to choose the right person, do you think that my words do not match each other, contradict each other!" ”
"No, my aunt is all for my good!" Chen Xi said, "I understand what my aunt means, I won't love easily, but when I fall in love with someone, I will give it wholeheartedly......"
"That's a bit much, hey! It's good that you don't have a burden in your heart, I don't want you to carry too much, you can do whatever you want, you know? Chen Rong sighed lightly and stood up.
"Ah, auntie, the laser light is out!" Chen Xi shouted.
"Well, it's not too early, let's go back!"
Two figures, one large and one small, slender and slender, she took her hand, and gradually, disappeared into the dim light.
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