(1) Stepping out of the country 12
"But I'm ...... But I can't go! Xun Siya wanted to go and shed tears helplessly!
"Why? Our family is not short of money, what are you worried about? Don't cry, don't worry, everything is with me! Gu Lixiong patted his chest.
"You ......" Xun Siya finally cried, she shook off Gu Lixiong fiercely, wanted to speak and stopped, her face was full of grievance and helplessness, and looked at Gu Lixiong with unfamiliar eyes.
"I ......" Gu Lixiong really couldn't understand why Xun Siya was like this, he wanted to comfort Xun Siya, but he didn't know what to say or do.
"Smack!"
A grape smashed accurately on Gu Lixiong's face, accompanied by Xing Yangchun's heavy voice: "Pig!" ”
"Xing Yangchun, you scolded me for being a pig again!" Gu Lixiong was like an aggressive rooster, glaring at Xing Yangchun, but found Xing Yangchun's tangled expression of hatred of iron and steel, and suddenly remembered several regulations of the State Council on anti-corruption and clean government, and looked at Siya embarrassedly: "Hehe, I'm a pig, hehe, Siya, we'll wait here, wait for my brother to come back, in the days when my brother doesn't come back, I promise, slowly learn to live, learn to be romantic, and learn to make your life more meaningful!" ”
Xing Yangchun didn't care about Gu Lixiong's mountain alliance and sea oath, he pulled Qu Tingfang's hand to his lap, and covered it with both hands, looking at Qu Tingfang.
Qu Tingfang understood that Xing Yangchun wanted her to go to her brother's place with her like Ning Danfeng, but she shook her head gently, and then said understandingly: "You go, go with Danfeng, I will deal with the affairs of the family, and I will take care of my uncle and aunt." ”
Xing Yangchun smiled understandingly: "I know what you think, it's okay, I'll accompany you at home, anyway, my brother will come back sooner or later, let's wait for him to come back together." ”
"You know what I think?" Qu Tingfang looked at Xing Yangchun in surprise with disbelief.
"Do you feel my sincerity? Do you feel our fate? If I don't even know this, what kind of 'love' is there between us! Xing Yangchun confidently patted Qu Tingfang's little hand.
"Then tell me!" With a bit of coquettishness, Qu Tingfang said.
"Hmm!" Xing Yangchun looked at Qu Tingfang affectionately: "On the surface, you are very free and easy, you are the same as us, you also don't value money, and you have tried your best to dissolve yourself into our current home, but even so, you still can't untie the knot in your heart, that is: according to your own current situation, according to your parents' economy, you can't help you go abroad easily, unless you want them to work hard for a lifetime, so you don't want to; Although you have already regarded yourself as the person in our current family, you still have the idea that 'the money here is not your money'. For this reason, I have also wondered: why do you have to spend all the money you can earn when you already think of this place as your home? Later, I figured out that this is the pain of people below the working class, that is: only the money earned by one's own ability is not burdened to spend. So, you rejected the high salary that my parents gave you. Although you know that this kind of thinking is very ridiculous, and you know that everything here is everything to you, but the subconscious inferiority complex and pretentiousness are in the reverence, so that you can always untie the ......knot in your heart, it's okay, I will help you untie it slowly - we have time, we have a lifetime of time! ”
Over there, Siya is still crying, and Qu Tingfang is crying again, of course, the same tears have different concepts, Qu Tingfang is happy, moved, and satisfied tears - what more can a husband ask for?
Gently helping Qu Tingfang try to wipe away the tears on her face, Xing Yangchun continued: "Money is not everything, no money is absolutely impossible, this sentence is also true and incorrect, because, in today's society, as long as you are willing to work, food and clothing are no longer a problem for people to consider, so money is gradually becoming unimportant, unless you have to compare with others and find your own troubles." Didn't you notice that my parents basically didn't think about how much money they made for each business, but just looked at whether they were successful or not, and whether they created the social benefits they imagined at the beginning? From this point of view, you should understand that mom and dad also don't value money, just enjoy the sense of accomplishment of being successful in business. This sense of accomplishment does not come from how much money is earned, but from our customers, the recognition of our products. ”
"Brother once said: 'A person's life is only to strive for how to live happily, and money is only a prop for a happy life, it is indispensable, but no matter how much; As long as you know how to live, learn to live, and arrange the money you have in an understanding instead of living the 'what if' in your dreams, you will live to the fullest, and at the same time, you will feel that you are rich, and this feeling really has nothing to do with money. Brother also said: 'Career is not money, money is only a manifestation in some aspects, in the career, using money to measure the success of the career is just a low-level idea of people who do not know how to live. He also said: 'If you really want to make money, then what you need most is to learn how to spend money first.' 'Off topic?' I think you can understand what I mean. By the way, do you remember what Tan Yuexiu said when she broke up with her brother? At that time, she thought that her brother was stingy and asked Lixiong to pay, but she didn't know that her brother never thought about money, to put it bluntly, he had no concept of money at all, and occasionally remembered that he would throw Lixiong a sum of money, but he never cared if he gave more or less, he was used to others paying. ”
"So, I want you to get used to the thinking of our group, and don't forget, you're one of them. If you are afraid of spending our money, then let me tell you, even if we really run out of money, we can make money with our own hands, and as long as you don't care, we will live as happily as when we were rich, do you believe it? ”
"I believe it!" Qu Tingfang said emotionally: "But now ......" She wanted to speak and stopped.
"I understand, I will accompany you to slowly change and adapt, anyway, the knowledge needed, when used, we should learn it alone, we should learn it as soon as we learn, now learning or not learning is the same, besides, I lost the opportunity to learn theoretical knowledge, but I got social experience - willing to give, there must be gain." Xing Yangchun comforted.
Qu Tingfang didn't say anything more, she just leaned her head lightly on Xing Yangchun's shoulder.
"Danfeng, what do you think?" After talking to Qu Tingfang, Xing Yangchun didn't care whether it was an explanation or a comfort between Gu Lixiong and Xun Siya. turned his head to Ning Danfeng again.
"My diploma is already qualified as an accountant, and I also want to take the exam as an accountant and a senior accountant, otherwise, I am afraid that when my brother's company develops, I will not learn enough. I want to go to my brother and learn about foreign veterinarians. Ning Danfeng was thoughtful.
"It occurred to me ...... You'd better not go, you should know another reason besides going to study! Xing Yangchun thought about it and said analytically.
How could he not know Ning Danfeng's thoughts about Su Qingyu? But like Gu Lixiong, he never understood why Su Qingyu didn't explicitly agree to Ning Danfeng.
"yes, how did I forget about it? Then you might as well come with me, I'll take my little cutie to learn how to feed those stinky things, and how much difference there is between reality and theory. Gu Lixiong seemed to come back to his senses.
"Siya, you may not be able to stand it!" Ning Danfeng looked at Xun Siya sympathetically. Because she studied veterinary medicine and went to farms.
"When the time comes, don't run away when you cry!" Xing Yangchun gloated and scoffed.
"Xing Yangchun, don't underestimate people!" Xun Siya glared at Xing Yangchun provocatively: "You look, you won't go out anyway, when the time comes, I will make you embarrassed." "The words don't make sense, but they understand it.
"Or, ...... like this" Su Qingyu was not there, Xing Yangchun put forward his opinion without giving up, after all, except for Su Qingyu, he is the most brainy, no, it should be said that he loves to use his brain the most: "Let's go to Sichuan and Yunnan again?" Where to go and see how their pigs, cows, sheep are raised in the mountains? How to prevent and cure diseases? ”
"Row --!" The four of them replied in unison!
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At the end of this chapter, please see the next chapter, "The Thoughts of Parents".