"Got it, Mom!" Su Qingyu hung up the phone and handed the fishing rod to Xun Siya: "You come to fish, I'll go out, and I won't come back at night." ”

"Me?" When will Siya sit down and fish with peace of mind? As long as she doesn't throw stones into the pond, everyone is thankful, and letting her fish is torture for her.

Of course, Su Qingyu didn't torture her, he was just teasing her casually.

Birthday, it's the same old thing, don't do it, others think you don't have the heart, do it, what can you do?

But for Su Qingyu, Xiaoying's birthday is quite new, because this is the first time he has officially participated in someone else's birthday party. But it's like that for birthdays, and I can't change any tricks.

However, Su Qingyu has really not been with his parents and Xiaoying for a long time, since the first time he went to Dali, it has been more than a year now, and unconsciously, he rarely chats with his parents.

Because the relationship between Su Yuedong and Xiaoying is not public, there are only four of them, and even Xiaoying's parents are not called.

"Tell me, what's on your mind?" Su Yuedong likes to get straight to the point: "After all, we have more knowledge than you, and we can help you pay attention." ”

As soon as his father spoke, Su Qingyu knew that they had already felt it, so he didn't hide it: "Dad, I'm already sure that I've found my fate--but, it's really late...... The last time I told you, I was still wondering if it was my own delusion, or if I was hungry, but this time, ......"

"Such a late law?" Su Yuedong played with the wine glass in his hand with great interest.

"By the time I find him, I'll be an 'uncle'!" Su Qingyu said dejectedly.

"'Uncle'? Hahahaha – you mean, she's very young? Su Yuedong asked knowingly.

"I think I'm in my early twenties, right?! But it looks particularly small! ”

"Questions?"

"No problem......" Su Qingyu understood the meaning of his father's words: "But when the other party cares, it becomes a problem!" ”

Yes, love, regardless of age, poverty, race, or borders...... But all this must have one condition, that is, after falling in love. Until we fall in love, these will become an insurmountable chasm; This is why young people today are so realistic.

"Do you regret it?"

"No, Dad, I don't regret knowing love, at least I have felt it, if I don't understand, I may not be able to wait until now, and I may never feel this indescribable feeling. If I can't have it, it can only be said that I have no relationship with her, so it will be my regret, but it will only be a regret, isn't it? Su Qingyu said.

"Knowing the son Mo Ruo's father, you will regret it!" Su Yuedong shook his head and said.

"How so, Dad?"

"Did you tell 'her'?" Su Yuedong stared at his son with a smile.

"How do you tell her? As soon as we met, I became her uncle......"

Su Yuedong and Xiao Yingzhi glanced at each other and said, "That's why I said you would regret it." ”

After thinking about it, Su Qingyu shook his head and said, "No, Dad, I won't regret it, there's a reason why I didn't tell her!" ”

"Even if you have a thousand, ten thousand reasons, that's just an excuse! Any idea why we can be friends just so-so? Su Yue said.

Su Yuedong's question stumped Su Qingyu: Why can we become friends between us? Why do sons and fathers become friends? Su Qingyu really didn't think about it. Oh, by the way, Su Yuedong mentioned it, he listened to it, and he believed it, and he didn't think about it carefully, and he thought about it a little deeper, so now he can only say that he only knows it but doesn't know why.

"Understand the other person's feelings, and when you can't understand, be selfish, and let the other person feel your burden together......"

"I don't want to, Dad, that's too selfish, and I think if I did, I'd regret it — regret hurting her."

"What if what you think is a burden, what you think is a harm to her, is exactly what the other person wants, what the other person needs, what the other person desires? What if the burden and hurt that the other person thinks is a pleasure for her? Can you be sure that what you think is right? I know you can sense the other person's feelings, but not the other person's thoughts! Su Yuedong looked at his wife and Xiaoying, because there was this kind of induction between them.

"As true love, you will feel all kinds of strong physical discomfort or happiness in the other person, but you can't feel another spiritual feeling of the other person, that is, when pain and love are intertwined, when the other party deliberately hides it, just like you are now!" Su Yuedong looked at his son deeply: "Love each other, mutual induction, but it can only be part of the ...... not all"

"What is love, you have already felt, but son, have you thought about it: how to love?" Su Yuedong paused for a moment and continued to ask, "Can you answer me?" Think about it! ……”

"Dad, use your sincerity and wholeheartedly think about each other, and moreover, integrate your own happiness into your every move......" Su Qingyu blurted out. He has also been thinking about this question for a long time.

Su Yuedong smiled: "It makes sense, but it's just reasonable." Son, have you ever thought that what makes sense is not necessarily practical? ”

"What makes sense, isn't necessarily practical? Dad, where does this begin? ”

"For example: 'Love'! Son, dad for example: Lixiong, doesn't his father love him? But why is he so annoying and even disgusted? ”

"Dad......" Su Qingyu / suddenly felt that he wanted to cry: "Dad......"

"It's going to be thirty-five soon......" Su Yuedong smiled: "Men only cry when they are alone...... However, it doesn't deserve to be so impressed, right? ”

"No, Dad, I'm glad, I'm proud, I'm proud......"

"Me too, son, and I'm proud of your excellence!"

Xiao Ying loves Su Yuedong, and there will be a special feeling between them, but now she doesn't understand the conversation between their father and son.

Yes, she couldn't understand it, because the location was different, the problems they talked about were different, and the things they had been exposed to were different, so she couldn't think of what the focus of their discussion was.

Su Qingyu only now did he understand how great and deep his father's love for him was......

Not to mention anything else, just to be his friend, how much effort did my father spend?

I thought that my father was not convinced of old age and became friends with him, because he wanted to mingle with himself and make him feel young...... There may be a little bit of a reason for this, but only a little bit......

The main thing is that he wants to make himself more relaxed, more comfortable, unburdened, and unconsciously accept the nourishment of his love through the relationship of friends......

No wonder almost every pair of parents have selfless love for their children, but most of them will make children rebellious, no wonder so many adults find it difficult for the elderly to serve, no wonder so many people who love each other, but can not come together......

Seeing his son's expression, Su Yuedong smiled: "Figured it out?" Let me give you another analogy, you will often see the elderly on TV, in life, selflessly giving all their love to their children, but becoming a burden to their children, and this is because of the so-called 'great love'. ”

"It's like...... It seems that I understand a little......" said yes, Su Qingyu was still a little confused.

"Remember what I said to you: The greatest love may be expressed in the most selfish act; And the most selfish behavior may be precisely to make the other person feel the greatest love! Su Qingyu looked at his son with deep meaning: "Actually, there are three words to be added to this sentence, that is, 'self-righteousness'; the love that thinks it is the most selfless is actually the most selfish; and the love that thinks it is the most selfish may be the greatest!" ”

"I understand, Dad, I really understand, the meaning of your words, I really understand, the problem is not love, but 'self-righteousness'!" Su Qingyu suddenly realized.

"Do you know what to do?"

Su Qingyu thought about it, but still shook his head.

"Self-esteem plus inferiority!" Su Yuedong said in one sentence.

"No way, Dad, God is teasing me......" Su Qingyu didn't hide it: "It only now let love appear by my side, but I'm thirty-four or five......"

"Hey--son, you care too much about her, that's why you will suffer from gains and losses!" Looking at his son, Su Yuedong was a little helpless; Indeed, there are some hurdles that can only be overcome by figuring it out and letting go of it by yourself.

Today's topic, although it is not heavy, but it is a little sad, Su Yuedong / suddenly changed the topic: "Actually, Xiaoying, she wanted a child for a long time......"

In front of his son, Su Yuedong was not pretentious, he went to a young age

Ying beside her, gently touched her head: "Before, I didn't agree, that's because, as a parent, you have to be responsible for your own children, and my children can't live without their fathers...... Well, now I can put my mind at ease and take good care of my children, so I want Xiaoying to give you a brother or sister! After speaking, Su Yuedong cast a pleading glance at his son.

"Great, Dad, you are only fair to Xiaoying's mother by doing this; Don't worry, I'll definitely learn to be a good brother. After listening to his father's words, Su Qingyu glanced at Xie Lianyu on the side, and saw that she was not unhappy, and immediately became full of joy: "I have already told Xiaoying's mother that she will give me a younger brother or sister, but she always refuses." Well, you guys hurry up, by the way, Xiaoying's mother, it's best to have a dragon and phoenix fetus. ”

Su Qingyu said it seriously, which made Xiao Ying blush.

"Do you hear that? This is our son, who is not only sensible, but also understanding. Are you relieved at this time? Su Qingyu said softly to Xiao Ying.

Although Xiao Ying is very shy, especially Xie Lianyu who is present, after all, they are all from the past, and they are almost forty years old, so they can still accept this kind of natural and warm banter.

Even so, she didn't want to dwell on this issue anymore: "I can see that the knot in Qingyu's heart still hasn't been untied......" For Xiao Ying, changing the topic is of course the best way, and for this reason, she shifted the topic back.

"Let me tell you?" Xiao Ying looked at Xie Lianyu, and then stopped at Su Yuedong's face.

Su Yuedong smiled and nodded.

"Dad, you can take care of your dragon body--" Su Qingyu lost no time in playing: "Do you want your son to find you a secretary again?" ”

(End of chapter)