Chapter 324: Uneasy Heart
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There are two ways of life for people, the first is to live like grass. Although you are alive and growing every year, you are a grass after all; You absorb rain, dew and sunlight, but you don't grow much.
People can step on you, people don't suffer because of your pain; People don't pity you because you've been stepped on, because they don't see you.
Therefore, each of us should grow like a tree. Even if we are nothing now, as long as you have the seeds of a tree, even if someone steps on the middle of the soil, you can still absorb the nutrients of the soil and grow on your own.
Maybe you won't grow up in two or three years, but in ten years, eight years, twenty years, you will definitely grow into a towering tree, and when you grow into a towering tree, people will be able to see you in distant places; Approaching you, you can give people a piece of green, a piece of shade, and you can help others.
Even after people leave you, looking back, you are still a beautiful sight on the horizon.
Trees are beautiful landscapes when they are alive, and they are still pillars when they are dead. It is useful to live and die, this is the standard of life and growth of each of our students.
When a person lives for someone else, it is very troublesome. Because other people's standards are different, and if you don't stick to what you want in your pursuit, your dignity and self-esteem are not guaranteed, because you are always in the middle.
What is the best way for us to maintain our dignity and self-esteem? That is, you have a dream, and by starting with the most basic steps, you can start pursuing it.
For example, in the end, you want to replace me and become the chairman and president of New Oriental, can you do it?
As long as you have enough mentality and enough ways to do things, as well as a mind, you can definitely do it.
Anyone who wants to do something at once, even if he does it, he has no foundation, because it is equivalent to a house built on the beach, which will eventually collapse.
Only a person who slowly completes things step by step, lays a solid foundation for himself at every step, gives himself a good explanation at every step, and then takes every step to a higher future can he truly succeed in doing things.
When you have decided what you want to do in your life, you have to do it unswervingly, and don't change it casually.
You can be like a river, flowing wider and wider, but don't think about becoming another river or a mountain.
With such a goal, your life will not be shaky, and you will not run around because of some kind of opportunity, so that you can do things.
One of the most important abilities in our future lives is the ability to endure humiliation. A lot of celebrities come across many, many things that you can't stand, but you have to put up with.
And you can't succeed if you don't put up with it. Why, because you can't bear the humiliation and burden, you don't have time, you don't have space, you don't have space to move into the future.
If you want to move into the future and end up being stronger and more prosperous, you have to be prepared to give yourself enough time and space.
When it is our turn in our own life to strive for a great goal, you have to eliminate all the trivial disturbances in your life, so you have to endure humiliation.
It doesn't matter what age we are, how can we do something that we can't do for a while. There are too many things in this world that make you angry, and only when you are angry can the world unfold its most glorious side in front of you.
I have an analogy that every river has its own different life curve. The curves of the Yangtze River and the Yellow River are absolutely different.
But every river has its own dream, which is to run to the sea. So no matter how tortuous the Yellow River is, how many obstacles it bypasses; The Yangtze River does not bend as much as the Yellow River, but she broke through the cliffs in a different way, but in the end they all went to the sea.
When we encounter difficulties, whether we rush over or bypass, as long as we can get through.
I hope that you can make your life flow to your dreams, like the Yangtze River and the Yellow River, to the end of your dreams, into the vast ocean, so that your life can become broad, and your career will become broad.
But it's not that you can flow it if you want to, in fact, there is a spirit in it, and there is no doubt that it is the spirit of water.
Our life will sometimes be mud and sand, although you also flow forward with the water, but due to your personality defects, in the face of difficult regression or timidity, you may slowly settle down like mud and sand, once you settle, maybe you don't have to work hard to move forward, but you will never see the sun.
If you settle down, the sediment on it will keep holding you down, and eventually you will be dark.
So I suggest to everyone, no matter what your life is like now, you must have the spirit of water.
Even if it is contaminated, it can wash itself. Like water, keep accumulating your strength, constantly break through obstacles, and when you find that the time is not right, accumulate your own thickness, and when the time comes one day, you will be able to rush into the sea and achieve your own life.
Overcoming difficulties is a state of mind, and if you want to overcome it, you will definitely be able to overcome it. Many people work with resentment and resentment when they are working, and your work will not be done well.
A few points on how to make things more successful. The first point is how to combine your long-term goals with short-term goals as much as possible.
We must first distinguish which things are things that we want to do for the rest of our lives, and which things are things that we can do all at once and we don't have to do.
There is a saying in China that you are in a hurry and do things slowly, the more anxious you are, the more carefully and seriously you do them, and the more you can do things well.
And the more anxious you are, the faster you do it, the more scattered you are, and I call this urgent thing a big thing.
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