442 • Don't be afraid, I'm here
It's also a shame that we came to the hospital, otherwise I really don't know what would have happened. Listening to the doctor's words, I was too ashamed to do it. But think about it, I'm also a normal woman, and it's normal to have needs. But what we didn't expect was that the child would be born prematurely. This made the whole family nervous, and even me started to get nervous. People say that I will be pregnant in October, but I will give birth in seven months. Isn't this speed too fast? Although I hoped that I would be able to unload this burden soon, I really didn't expect it to be so fast, and at such a time.
It is said that giving birth to a child is a long process, especially if I want to have a smooth birth, it will be even more troublesome. I was nervous, but now I ...... Anyway, it's all kinds of nervousness, and I don't know how many times I've been told by doctors and nurses.
"You must not be nervous at this time, take it easy first, and then talk about it, don't put pressure on yourself."
I was getting more and more nervous when I heard the repetition of this kind of talk. Honestly, they didn't say it was fine, but they kept reminding me that it made me bad.
In fact, this is also a kind of psychological suggestion, knowing that this is not good but still continuing.
"Don't be afraid, I'm here." Holding my hand tightly, Xu Yi said firmly.
Anyway, the husband can be by his side, and this is the first process, a long prelude, relying on the span of time. But this time, to say the least, is 6-12 hours. According to the nurse, this first stage of labor takes the longest, and it must wait until the characteristics appear before proceeding.
Xu Yi was patiently by my side, always comforting me, telling me not to be afraid, saying that he was there.
However, I only said yes, after all, I have never experienced such a thing, so how can I not be afraid. Having a baby, thinking about it, was an impossible task, but now it happened to me.
Raw, born, just this once, anyway. I've been waiting for so many months, isn't this the moment I've been waiting for? It's only seven months before I give birth, and I'm a little too fast. Speaking of advance, this is almost three months sooner than I thought.
Thinking about the experience passed on by my mom and grandma, sitting on the yoga ball, I kept breathing, breathing, and feeling.
I said that there would be pain in my lower abdomen, but now I don't feel it at all, I really don't feel it at all, which makes me start to get anxious. You must know that this is not the same as saying it at all, I ran into the hospital at night and started to prepare, but I didn't react until now, but I was tired and sweaty.
"If it really doesn't work, go back to the ward to rest first, I see that you shouldn't be able to give birth for a while." For the effort, in exchange for the doctor's words. But this is also a fact, if the mouth of the palace is not opened, this is not enough to live. It's not a caesarean section, it's done with a knife.
Xu Yi didn't make such a request, but in the end I refused.
This knife is fast, but there is no process of feeling in the middle. I know that having a baby can hurt, even if I don't have any experience. So this time, I was determined to give birth smoothly and give birth by myself.
As soon as Xu and Xu came out, we were surrounded by a group of people, all of whom were asking how it was, whether it was a boy or a girl. Even though I was standing in front of me, they were still asking excitedly.
They were desperate to know the result, and they were ready to give Xu Yi back. "What's the hurry, do you really think that having a baby is such a simple thing? When you say you're born, you think it's a machine. ”
Helping me to leave, leaving the four elders directly behind.
According to Xu Yi's words, I need to have a good rest now, and only by recuperating can I better welcome the arrival of this little life. As for now, just go with the flow and don't rush.
Grandparents and parents all came to care about each other, until Xu Yi couldn't help but blow people away again.
"Alright, it's time for you to go back and rest. It's okay to have a baby with me, and it's a waste of time for you to stay here, so it's better to go home and wait for news. If you really want to feel fine, there are still a few documents in the company that have not been processed, and you can also do a proper activity. Before closing the door, Xu Yi directly threw out such a sentence. The feeling is to throw the work to the second elder, and any of them can go to the company to deal with it.
To say that at this time, it is definitely the wife who is the greatest, and nothing is more important than his wife and children. For this, Xu Yi is still very clear. Now at this time, he can only stay by his wife's side, waiting for the arrival of the child. It's just that how long this wait will last is really unknown.
But this time, Xu Yi also made up his mind, when this little rabbit cub came out, he must teach him a hard lesson. It's okay to toss at ordinary times, but now it's still tossing at such a critical moment, and it's strange that it's not beaten.
"Xu Yi, I'm afraid." In the ward, which finally quieted down, only one or two people were left now. Seeing him sit in front of me, I tensed up again.
I thought that giving birth to a child was just a pain, just like my grandmother and mother said, giving birth to a child is not a difficult thing, and the child will be born after a little pain and persistence. I don't want this to be the result, it hurts, hold on, and the child still doesn't move.
It's true that the palace mouth is open, but it's just a little bit useless. If you want your child to come out, take your time.
"Fool, don't be afraid of me." In addition to such comfort, Xu Yi seems to have found no better way to comfort him.
But the more he comforted me like this, the more scared I became.
"What if you say I can't be born like this? What if the baby is in my belly all the time? Will she not want to come out? Or did the doctor get it wrong? "I said one question after another, and I didn't care whether Xu Yi could answer it or not, I just wanted to know a positive answer.
If it was born prematurely as the doctor said, why did the baby not move?
Even I didn't know what I was thinking at this time, and it wasn't until the moment I was surrounded by warmth that I felt a little better.
"Okay, don't think about it, it's just that the time hasn't come yet, let's take our time and wait for this naughty ghost to come out, okay? When the time comes, we'll clean him up together. This will bully you in the stomach, and you will pay it back when you grow up. Xu Yi said seriously, as if there was really such a thing.
The wait was long, and it felt like I was really fine, and it made me want to be discharged a little bit. Since I don't come out, then what am I doing here? If it really came out early, it wouldn't have come out early, so why wait until this time.
Xu Yi naturally respected my decision, but I always felt that he had slowed down and looked like he was having trouble talking.
The woman's instinct told me that he had something to say, but he hadn't said it yet.
What has already been decided, I absolutely do not care about changing. This seems to have been present since the time of pregnancy. Stubbornness, persistence, and thinking about it are all things that I couldn't even think of because I was pregnant. I know I shouldn't, but sometimes I just can't control myself. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been so willful. Especially now, when I should have stayed in the ward obediently, I insisted on being discharged.
I can see Xu Yi's helplessness, but I just don't want to. I went back and forth in the ward several times, but just as I walked to the door, the pain in my lower abdomen made me cry out in pain, and the whole person squatted down to the ground.
It seems that this time, it really won't work.
To say that this time the speed is also fast, at least I don't know how much faster than the last time, I don't need to do too much preparation at all.
"Xu Yi, I'm afraid." I seemed to have no strength as I lay down, but I still said this.
The labor pains have been going on, like a set time, every time it is so punctual. The silent count in my heart has been like this many times.
"The palace mouth is open, and it's ready to go." The doctor's words sounded nervous and ready for me, which meant that the child was coming out.
Why don't you come out early or late, you have to choose this time, it's really a toss.
Xu Yi was still by my side, looking at my uncomfortable appearance, he seemed to be even more uncomfortable than me.
Not to mention, this made me scared, even Xu Yi was also scared, but he didn't show it. That's it, and that's all it can be.
"Don't be afraid, I'm here." Holding my hand tightly, Xu Yi seemed to give me strength.
The doctor and nurse kept shouting and exerting force, but after a death-like feeling, I still have no extra strength, and I only feel like my whole body is about to collapse. If it weren't for Xu Yi's hands squeezing, I would have thought I was dead.
Giving birth to a child is really a fatal event. I think with this experience, I definitely won't come back a second time.
"Xu Yi, I'm afraid."
"Don't be afraid, I'm here."
This is almost the most we can say, and at such a moment, he can only silently give me strength.
"Trust me, soon." Maybe this is just Xu Yi's comfort, but at this time, I am also happy that he can be by my side.
In addition to exerting or exerting force, such repeated words are really hard to hear, and it really makes people dislike it, and even has a feeling of noise.
In fact, I wondered several times what if I just passed like this, and if I would never see Xu Yi again. To know how it feels now, I really think so.
However, Xu Yi's words are my insistence......