In China, arranged marriages have been practiced since ancient times.

In the ancient feudal era, no one can give an accurate data on how many blind marriages and dumb marriages can achieve good matches, but there are definitely not a few people who ruin the happiness of Hongchen men and women in their lives.

In such an era when men are inferior to women, spanning years and being extremely long, relying on the matchmaker with a bright tongue and lotus flowers, and relying on the eyes of parents to determine the happiness of children's lives, is definitely a disaster for marriage.

At that time, the way out for a man was to marry a small one.

What about the way out for women, well, in fact, women who have to start from the beginning, there is no way out at all.

Now that we are in the 21st century, the times have changed several times, and parents have become more open-minded and more respectful of the wishes of the parties in the marriage of their children. But even so, it is still very common for parents to interfere in the major affairs of their children's lives.

From the perspective of their children, they will complain that their parents interfere too much and deprive them of their marital autonomy; From the perspective of parents, they will complain that their children are not sensible, and they have done so much, not for the good of their children.

The cognitive gap between the two generations leads to constant disputes over marriage: quarrels at least and against each other at worst.

Su Jin believes that Yang's father and Yang's mother really love their daughter, and their starting point is all for their daughter's good. From their point of view, Bo Feihong's hardware is indeed ridiculously poor.

Her mentality, she could fully understand.

Judging from her understanding of Bo Feihong, this man is actually not as bad as they imagined. As long as he is willing, his life will definitely change greatly after three or five years. Jia Hui followed him, not necessarily a bad thing that was intolerable.

But that was just her thoughts.

To change the bad impression of the second elder of the Yang family towards Bo Feihong, he can only rely on his own actions to prove it. It's not something that someone else can do by just talking about it.

Moreover, she didn't have much to say.

Whoever let her marry well, if the encouragement is too great, Dad Yang and Mom Yang may think that she is trying to push their daughter into the fire pit.

After lunch, Su Jin got up to say goodbye.

At that time, Yang's father and Yang's mother had already decided to move in with their daughter, in order to facilitate the care of their daughter's daily life and diet - the heart of love is obvious.

Sitting in the car, Su Jin's mood was heavy.

Holding her mobile phone, she flipped to Bo Feihong's number, but she didn't call out for a long time. I and that person are not particularly familiar acquaintances after all. I can't comfort if I want to, and it's not appropriate for her to comfort her.

After thinking about it, he still called Jin Hengyuan.

At that time, Jin Hengyuan had just sat in his Land Rover and was about to go to the hospital, when he heard his mobile phone ringing, he picked it up and asked with a smile:

"Where's the lunch?"

"Jia Hui family!"

"Oh, is it? Who cooks, Bo Feihong? ”

In the past few days, the guy will call him from time to time to ask him how to cook this dish and how to cook that dish, but he cares.

"No! Bo Feihong is not there. ”

Su Jin sighed softly:

"The Yang family is in a mess."

She told the whole thing again, and finally sighed:

Yang's mother was very disgusted with Bo Feihong. Now Bo Feihong must be uncomfortable. You can give him a phone call and talk to him...... Tell him that everything has to be slow, and it will always get better...... The most important thing now is to change the second elder's opinion of him step by step......"

Jin Hengyuan listened carefully and frowned.

Bo Feihong is not the kind of person who can slap horses, not to mention the thick branches and leaves, and the conditions are poor, and when he meets Yang Jiahui's mother, who scolds people and disregards his feelings, I really can't imagine how much willpower Lao Bo has to use to control himself, and he has to let himself not beat people and not talk back.

He was originally such a straight temper.

"Well, got it. I went to him and asked about the situation. ”

The two of them chatted for a while.

Jin Hengyuan hung up, thought about it, and then called Bo Feihong:

"What are people doing?"

He put on his Bluetooth headset, started the car, and drove out.

Over there, a lazy voice came:

"At home. Something to send? ”

"No, I just want to ask if you're okay?"

"You already know?"

"Xiao Su just came out of Yang's house. I heard that Mother Yang is a terrifying lioness. A lion's roar in Hedong will scare you away! ”

"Almost!"

Bo Feihong laughed at himself: "The eagle wants to catch the chicks, and the hens must be desperate to protect the chicks." ”

Oh, that's an interesting analogy!

"The latest news I just got: the hen wants the eagle chicken little monster, but resolutely fight the eagle and then *** disturb. They have decided to move to the chicken's house, one is to take care of the chickens, and the other is to guard against the eagles......"

"Oh, really?"

Bo Feihong nestled on the sofa and smiled:

"That's not bad news. As long as the little monster is okay, it doesn't matter what happens to me. ”

"The hen has the idea of marrying the chicks separately. Excuse me, eagle, have you figured out how to please the hen?

"The eagle is a hooligan, ugly and without a nest, and the hen is hard to look at......"

"If the eagle is willing to get shaped, maybe he will turn into a handsome big rooster......"

Jin Hengyuan said with a smile.

Bo Feihong immediately scoffed:

"It's going back and forth, and it's essentially the initial form of a gangster. Nothing to do...... I'm just that. It's not something I can do to please me......"

He, he's the kind of character that would rather bend than bend.

To put it mildly, it just doesn't know how to be flexible and has low emotional intelligence; To put it mildly, it is a stinky and hard temper.

"Then wait slowly, and find an opportunity to let the hen know that you, the eagle, do not eat chicks, but on the contrary, are willing to protect her for the rest of your life. Much more capable than that impractical......"

"That's what I thought too. Thank you for calling to relieve me......"

Bo Feihong thanked him.

Jin Hengyuan smiled: "I know you don't need to be explained, it's my little woman who is worried about you......"

"I went back and told her that I was fine. Nothing can break me. The big deal is to fight a bachelor for the rest of your life. ”

Bo Feihong's reaction was calm.

He had no intention of marrying a wife.

So, everything fell into place.

Jin Hengyuan laughed, and when he saw the red light stop, he casually put down a few very arrogant words:

"Believe me, you won't be a bachelor for the rest of your life. People who are mixed with me Jin Hengyuan, if they want to mix in that place, where will my face rest?

"As long as you listen to me, within three years, I will make you change from the inside out, from top to bottom.

"When the time comes, only they want to come and ask you to get your child's share back. The premise is that you have to lower Yang Jiahui...... A woman's heart is towards you, everything is easy to do, not towards you, if you hollow out your mind, everything will be in vain......"

That self-confidence made Bo Feihong sigh lightly:

"It's a lot of experience!"

"That's, it's definitely empirical......"

*

Jin Hengyuan went to the hospital and first went to Professor Nan Fern to learn some information.

The attending physician spoke all about specialized medical terms, and he didn't know much about medicine, and he was not very willing to understand the physical state behind those terms in detail, and asked the key points directly.

Nanfern replied, "It's not the worst patient I've ever dealt with. Whether it can be cured or not, I can't guarantee, but the odds are very high. It's just a matter of time. ”

This is exactly what he wants.

Coming out of the doctor's office, Jin Hengyuan went to the ward.

In the afternoon, the white-haired Grandpa Su was dozing off on the side.

Su Dubai didn't sleep and was reading.

As soon as they entered, the two men's eyes met in the air.

"Grandpa, go back to your room and take a rest!"

Su Dubai woke up Grandpa Su and urged him to go to sleep next door.

Grandpa Su saw Jin Hengyuan coming, nodded, said hello and walked out, and closed the door.

"Why didn't you sleep?"

Jin Hengyuan sat on the side, glanced at the book he was reading, and asked:

"What are you reading?"

"Zhang Haidi's "The Pursuit of Life" just started to watch."

Su Dubai stroked the cover and said:

"It's been a long time since I've graduated from college to take a book in a serious way, find a quiet corner, and read a few pages of unrelated texts."

"yes...... Life is so fast-paced. Looking back now, the years on campus were the most prosaic and simple, and after graduation, many things have changed their taste. The longer you stay in the big dye vat of society, the more you will feel that it is still the most delicious when making grey fabric. ”

When I was a student, I was a piece of white grey cloth.

When they left the campus and entered the society, some of them were dyed into the best and were scrambled to buy; Some of them are dyed into the best grades, and they don't worry about sales; Some are not dyed well or badly, and can barely be sold; Some became defective products, half sold and half given away; Some were simply stained and thrown away like garbage......

How many pieces of grey cloth can escape the fate of being dyed and remain spotless forever?

"You're not here to talk to me!"

Su Dubai bypassed the opening remarks and brought the topic to the main topic.

"Well, I've got you covered."

Jin Hengyuan took an agency contract and handed it over:

"I think I'm here to learn from you about the whole cause and effect of your marriage to Qin Xue four years ago. Since you are going to get a divorce, since you want me to be your surrogate, please talk to me openly and honestly about what happened back then...... I need to do a full assessment of your marital status. ”

--- digression--- see you tomorrow.