In the evening.

I drove Miaohan towards Chu Fangfang's residence in Xicheng District.

It's rush hour.

The flow of people and vehicles is like a flood peak.

"It's really blocked!" Miao Han sighed.

"The capital!" I smiled, "Of course, it's blocked first!" ”

"When I was driving in a traffic jam," Miao Han said seriously, "I was so irritable in my heart, I had a murderous heart!" ”

"Don't get stuck in traffic," I said in all seriousness, "for drivers, it's important to face up to the traffic situation, not to hope for a miracle, and to expect that the painful and bad road conditions will change overnight." If we can use driving as a way to cultivate our self-cultivation and pay attention to developing good driving habits, then driving will benefit us a lot. Take advantage of the opportunity to drive and continue to cultivate yourself, and gradually become a serious and careful, broad-minded, steady, patient, and loving person, then we will be welcomed and respected everywhere! ”

"But it's really hard to meet some newbies!" Miao Han said annoyingly.

"Meet a novice," I smiled, "be patient when you should be patient, people may be pastry, who is not a novice?" ”

"Some people are not familiar with driving and are crazy!" Miao Han then said.

"When you meet a half-baked and crazy driver," I said with a smile, "you should let him go, leave him alone, take your own responsibility first, and the safety hazards will be cut in half." ”

"I'm most afraid of taxis when I drive!" Miao Han thought about it and said, "In order to grab a job, once a taxi driver finds someone taking a taxi on the side of the road, his first reaction is often to suddenly brake or pull over, and he doesn't even hit the turn signal!" ”

"When I meet a taxi," I said earnestly, "let it go, it's not easy for people to get up early and work late, it's very hard, so don't worry too much." ”

"The bus is also quite annoying," Miao Han said with a disgusted face, "such a big man, it is easy to block the view, and it is often difficult to avoid the sudden entry or exit of the station!" ”

"When I met the bus," I smiled slightly, "I can't be angry, someone pulled a car!" ”

"To be honest," Miao Han said seriously, "although my driving skills are not high, it is easy to have conflicts with people, and the pressure in my heart is really great!" ”

"Then I'll teach you a method," I said seriously, "how to decompress yourself when you have a conflict with someone!" ”

"How do you decompress?" Miao Han hurriedly asked.

"It's self-evident that the pressure on drivers is high," I put on a pretentious attitude, "first of all, the road is congested, especially during rush hour, and secondly, the pressure of survival from family and work." When you are stressed, it is easy to have conflicts with others......"

"Don't talk nonsense," Miao Han said with a slight sneer, "Tell the key!" ”

"When a driver has a conflict with others," I said seriously, "you can decompress yourself by 'deep, detaching, turning, and returning': deep, that is, 'taking a deep breath' to calm down your anger, leaving is 'leaving the scene of the contradiction', trying not to intensify the conflict, turning, that is, 'diverting attention', to think about something that can make you happy, and returning, that is, 'returning to the scene', and finally solving the problem calmly." ”

"It seems to make sense," Miao Han said thoughtfully, "but you can't use impatience to deal with impatience!" ”

"Yes," I said with a smile, "that's true of driving, and so is love, and impatience cannot be used against impatience!" ”

"Here's an example!" Miao Han smiled.

"There was a man scolding his wife on the street," I recounted with a smile, "and at the end he said loudly: 'What a bitch!' Many people in the street looked at them in amazement. His wife smiled and said, 'What are you scolding your wife for?' ’”

"Interesting!" Miao Han smiled slightly.

"In love," I pretended to say, "you are anxious, I am anxious, everyone is anxious, and in a hurry, I finally know that it is nonsense." So, don't yell and rage because your lover is angry and angry. When a person is tired and troubled, it is generally easy to say something that does not express their original intention. At this time, allow the lover to lose his temper first, don't retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, it is unwise to stop and accuse the other party in the same way, and wait for the other party to lose his temper, and then patiently ask why ......"

"That's a lot of nonsense!" Miao Han laughed, "Are you an emotional expert or an automotive expert?" ”

"I'm an expert anyway," I said with a hippie smile, "whether you recognize it or not, I'll say I'm an expert, what can you do with me?" ”

"Can't it be," Miao Han smiled, "It's almost there, right?" ”

"Oops! Damn! I exclaimed, "It's too much, we have to go back!" ”

Miao Han laughed.

I smiled slightly, and took Miaohan to the Fengzeyuan Restaurant that I had made an appointment with Chu Fangfang.

At the door of the restaurant, Chu Fangfang was looking around.

"Why are you late again?" Chu Fangfang asked me dissatisfied.

"It's not that you don't know about Beijing's blockade!" I laughed.

"Then you don't know that you left more than an hour early?" Chu Fangfang complained.

"I was wrong," I said sincerely, "next time I must go out two or three hours early!" ”

"Let's go inside!" Chu Fangfang smiled.

The three of us walked into the Fortress Garden Restaurant with a smile.

Fengzeyuan Restaurant is located at No. 83, Zhushikou Street, Xicheng District, which is a famous time-honored brand in Beijing that operates authentic Shandong cuisine, and is also one of the "Eight Buildings" in the old capital, founded in 1930.

"As the saying goes," Chu Fangfang smiled slightly, "After eating Fengze Garden, I have tasted all the Lu dishes!" ”

"As the saying goes," I laughed, "wear shoes and eat vegetables in Fengze Garden!" ”

"Who's ordering?" Miao Han asked seriously.

"You order first!" I smiled, "I'll talk to Chu Fangfang first!" ”

Miao Han smiled and nodded.

She picked up the menu and flipped through it.

"I brought you two magazines," I said, taking out the magazines from my bag and handing them to Chu Fangfang, "One is the 7th issue of "Women's Street" magazine this year, which has a special article written by the two of us before - "Telling the Story of the Surrogate Family"; The other is the 6th issue of "Pioneer" magazine this year, which has a special article that we wrote before - "Over the City, Those Men Who Dream of Lovers"! ”

"I'll take a look," Chu Fangfang said and took the magazine and flipped through it with interest, "The two of us wrote these two special articles, I guess their magazines don't even need to change the punctuation!" ”

"Yes!" I smiled, "This shows that we are doing well!" ”

"By the way," Chu Fangfang said seriously after putting down the magazine, "My set of books has been published, and I only got the sample book last week, and I said that I was going to find a time to get it for you!" ”

"I'll get it from you later!" I said with a smile.

"Okay," Chu Fangfang said coquettishly, "I see that you have started to write car articles now, and it is very popular, and the blog has also been classified from Sina's emotional blog to the car blog!" ”

"Now it's the No. 1 car blog," I said proudly, "and a while ago, I signed a contract with the Automobile Branch of the Machinery Industry Press for a set of 'Extraordinary Car Owner Series', ready to publish a set of car books!" ”

"Wow!" Chu Fangfang exclaimed, "You can really do anything!" ”

"You can't do bad things!" I pretended to say.

"Seriously," Chu Fangfang said seriously, "You think you're planning to copy the method of cultivating me to her, right?" ”

"That's right!" I thought to myself and said, "You'd better take her for a few days and tell her about some of the details!" Tomorrow is Friday, how about you take her with you this weekend? ”

"Then make time and space for your girlfriend!" Chu Fangfang said in a weird way.

"Don't say it too clearly!" I laughed.

"Okay!" Chu Fangfang smiled slightly, "Then she doesn't have to go back tonight!" ”

"Not tonight," I said hurriedly, "let her come over tomorrow, and I'll have all her toiletries!" ”

"I'll buy it for her!" Chu Fangfang laughed.

"Not today," I said earnestly, "tomorrow!" ”

"I know what you mean," Chu Fangfang smiled, "After coming over tomorrow, I'll take her with me, I guess it'll be a week or two!" ”

"Okay!" I happily said, "Beauty and Meiwen, dreams are coming true!" ”

"I hope so!" Chu Fangfang smiled.

"All beauty needs to be created into perfection," I said with emotion, "and if it is not sublimated by skilled craftsmen, it will become vulgar and barbaric, and human power makes beauty more beautiful." Perfection without cultural edification can only be the perfection of semi-finished products, and without artificial decoration, people will always look too rough and rustic......"

"So," Chu Fangfang smiled slightly, "Perfection needs to be carved artificially!" ”

"Beautiful women and beautiful dreams," I said happily, "life is really beautiful!" ”

"Look at how beautiful you are!" Chu Fangfang laughed.

"Actually," I said with emotion, "love is the same, it needs beauty, and then love is nurtured with beauty!" ”

"Here's an example!" Chu Fangfang and Miaohan said in unison.

"Oops! Damn! You're so in sync! I smiled and began to tell the story in a serious way, "Meyabel is a famous German musician. One day, he and his wife quarreled over a very small matter. In order to calm himself down and prevent the situation from escalating, the distraught Meyabel took the initiative to stop the quarrel and sat down at the piano and began to play the famous song "Nocturne" sent by Chopin. As he played, he was so attracted by the charm of this piece that he forgot about the unpleasantness just now. He played passionately, and at the same time, his wife, who had been angry just a moment ago, was suddenly attracted by the beautiful melody, and she walked to the piano step by step, hugged her husband in great excitement, and kissed him passionately...... In this way, in the sound of Chopin's "Nocturne", a couple who had quarreled reconciled again. ”

"Love creates beauty," Chu Fangfang said with emotion, "and in turn, this beauty can nourish love!" ”

"Yes!" I said seriously, "Remembering and enjoying beautiful things is also a kind of nourishment for love!" ”

"Then how do I nourish love?" Miao Han asked expectantly.

"Nourish love," I pretended, "there is no time and place, there is an opportunity anytime, anywhere, as long as you look for it with your heart!" However, the premise is that you have to have love, do you? ”

"Sir!" The beautiful waiter patiently reminded, "Now it's time to order!" ”

"Oops!" It dawned on me that I said, "Forget the order!" ”

I grabbed the menu and started flipping through it.

Miao Han smiled slightly.

Chu Fangfang lowered his head and flipped through the magazine again.