"Ah Da is not sure to come, saying that it is not polite!" Yan Seventeen glanced at me.

"Didn't you find out his real name?" I asked, confused.

"At the police station, it was found that Ah Da's real name is Lin Zhihui, 28 years old this year, a native of Dongxing Town, left the town at the age of 16 to go out to work, and returned to the town with a person named Jiang Ye a few years ago, working in the tombstone shop, and several staff members of the tombstone shop seem to be his sworn brothers, and he ranks the boss, so everyone calls him Ah Da." Yan Seventeen explained.

"Surname Lin? Are you mistaken, the deceased's surname is Liu, and Ah Da is her cousin, so logically speaking, the surname should be Liu. I asked the doubts in my mind.

"His father's surname is Liu, and his mother's surname is Lin," Yan Qiqi said.

"Since the name is right, then Miss Yu is going to pay her filial piety, logically speaking, she should come, what does Ah Da say?" I asked.

"He said that if he came to offer incense as a distant relative, he could come, but if he offered incense as a member of his mother's family, he would not come." Yan Seventeen groaned.

Listening to this, I fell silent, according to the rules of our side, the deceased is a woman's funeral, and there are many ways to go to the mother's family to hang filial piety, and it can even be said that the whole funeral mother's family has the greatest rights, and the mother's family must do what to do with the funeral, not to mention filial piety. (Mother's family: The in-laws of the female father's generation, and the father's generation is not replaced by a son or nephew.) ）

This can't be helped, from the perspective of blood relatives, the mother's family is bigger than everything, and the deceased is in the same lineage, even if the deceased's biological son is not worth the mother's family in the area of blood relatives.

There is a saying since ancient times, 'When the in-laws quarrel, the daughter-in-law goes back to her parents' house.'" To put it bluntly, the mother's family is the backing of women, no matter what happens, as long as the mother's family comes forward, no matter how small the matter will rise to the matter of the two families.

In the funeral of the mother's family is more important, the mother's family is to supervise the whole funeral, a link is not satisfied, the mother's family has the right to stop the funeral, until the wishes of the mother's family are met, otherwise, the funeral must stop there.

Judging from this situation, Ah Da's refusal to come to the incense should be due to Yu Qian's lack of thoughtfulness in some etiquette, after all, in the countryside, the mother's family is particularly important.

Thinking of this, I asked Yan Qiqi to send the high guy to the hospital, and he asked me what to do with the eight immortals who robbed the funeral in the town? I said let them freeze first, and then discuss the matter of Ah Da separately.

He nodded, but did not speak.

We carried the tall guy into the back seat of the car, and when we were about to close the door, the tall guy stopped me and said, "Chen Baxian, you must personally invite the deceased's mother's family." ”

I was stunned, glanced at Elder Gao suspiciously, and asked him, "Why do you want me to go in person?" ”

Gao Lao thought for a while and said: "I feel that the deceased attaches great importance to his mother's family, when we were locked in the bullpen, the buffalo crashed open the door of the cowpen like crazy, I am afraid that he wanted to save you and let you personally invite the deceased's mother's family, of course, this is just my guess." ”

I nodded thoughtfully, what the senior guy said makes sense, depending on the situation, I must personally take Yu Qian to Ada, otherwise I will offend the deceased.

At this point, I asked Yan Seventeen, where is Yu Qian.

He said the mourning hall.

I didn't say anything more, closed the car door, greeted Yan Seventeen, and ran towards the mourning hall.

After running for about ten minutes in one breath, I finally came to the door of the mourning hall, and I found that there was an extra stage on the left side of the mourning hall at some point, half an adult high, the canopy of the stage was covered with a white cloth, and some colored lights were hung around it, which looked very gorgeous.

I withdrew my gaze and looked at the mourning hall, there were about forty people in the mourning hall at this time, stammering and sitting at the table of the eight immortals with Yu Qian, and Yu Jianhao counted his fingers on the side. The other thirty or so people stood on the left side to discuss something, and it was supposed to be the band's staff in the line.

Suddenly, a familiar face appeared in my sight, the person's name is Guo Yun, known as Sister Guo, in his 30s, wearing heavy makeup, hair coiled at the back of his head, and his appearance looks a little vicious.

She has a good relationship with our group of Eight Immortals, and they met at a funeral last year. It is said that this woman is very capable, and she used to invite the band to blow, knock, play, and perform four doors, which are represented separately, blowing suona, beating gongs, beating waist drums, and performing lantern and shadow plays (called shadow puppets in some places) in the mourning hall, so that the deceased can go with peace of mind.

In the middle of last year, she proposed to the band owner to perform flower drum plays, singing, and dancing at the funeral, which livened up the atmosphere of the mourning hall.

This idea was proposed, and after about half a year, no one dared to use this trendy ceremony to liven up the mourning hall.

However, not everyone in this society is silent about the rules. No, in December, an old man died in our town, 97 years old, the economic conditions of the main family are okay, and he plans to do something new in the funeral, so as to comfort the soul of the deceased in the sky, the main family invited Guo Yun over and tried it with her trendy ritual.

Not to mention, this new ceremony will make the atmosphere of the funeral very lively, especially during the Yan dance, the woman is wearing a three-point style in front of the coffin to do all kinds of teasing actions, which greatly stimulates male hormones, and the screams on the scene are almost out of control.

For this new ritual, personally, it is still okay to use singing and dancing to liven up the atmosphere, but as for the Yan dance, it is an insult to the virtues that have been passed down from China.

However, I am just a coffin bearer, and I can't say anything, after all, it's just a lively atmosphere, it doesn't affect my funeral, it doesn't have much to do with me, as long as you don't offend the deceased.

But then again, I admire the women who stood in front of the coffin and danced, their courage was truly commendable, and they were not afraid of the deceased crawling out of the coffin and pulling them in to sleep with.

I was stunned for a moment at the door of the mourning hall, and was about to go in, when I saw me with sharp eyes, walked out, and asked nervously, "Brother Jiu, what's the matter with the injuries on your body?" ”

I nodded at him and said, "I accidentally fell, everything is normal in the mourning hall, right?" ”

"Well, everything is normal, it's just that two hours ago, seven or eight people came to grab the funeral and were scolded by Miss Yu, and those people should go to the hospital to find Boss Yu now." He said.

I smiled bitterly, didn't say anything more, and walked into the mourning hall, Yu Qian looked a little anxious, and was about to speak. Guo Yun walked over, stretched out her hand and patted me on the shoulder, and said with a smile: "Little brother, you took this funeral?" ”

I nodded, arched my hand to her as a New Year's greeting, and said: "You have to spend more time on this funeral, try to make the atmosphere more lively, the flower drum opera performs "Mending the Pot" and "Ten Weird", and try to wear more clothes in the dance, the frozen body in the winter, I don't have the money to treat them, as for the Yan dance, it will be exempted, how to arrange it, you will discuss it with Director Lang, the main family has only one request, lively." ”