709, an unexpected marriage 32, the more you know him, the more you will appreciate it

People always get along with each other, always starting from strangers, after a long period of contact, the understanding will gradually deepen, and then, or because of different temperaments and interests, they will gradually stop contacting; Or maybe they become friends because of the same smell......

Kwong Meiyun has no friends, she is not a talkative, sociable person, more upright, and easier to offend people.

When she was in the army, there were a few team members who were quite close to her, and later, she was opened to the military, and she was notified, plus she hid to secretly give birth to a child, during that time, she cut off all communications, and the result of not being in touch for a long time was that those few friends who could talk to each other went away. Over the years, she has occasionally had contact with Bo Feihong, but Lao Bo is worse than her, and it wasn't until later that he married a wife, and this life got better.

In the past few years, Kwong Meiyun has changed jobs frequently, and none of the people she has made at work have become good friends.

By now, she has recognized such a status quo, the so-called good friends, in fact, are the same as lovers, which can be met but not sought, and this relationship needs to be carefully cultivated and interacted with each other, so that it will be maintained for a long time.

To be honest, Kuang Meiyun, who has been unlucky since childhood, never dreamed that after the age of thirty, her luck would suddenly turn around.

First of all, she made a good friend who is passionate and like-minded - Xiao Jinghuan.

She admits that she is a relatively passive person, when getting along with others, she is always in a passive position, not good at taking the initiative to show goodwill and friendship with others, she is always silently doing what she thinks is right, not enthusiastic, always cold-faced. This kind of her makes people think that she is a strange person, and she is looked away from by others. And Xiao Jinghuan is different, she thinks you are good, she will take the initiative to get close to you. In this way, their friendship was established in Xiao Jinghuan's strong closeness.

Secondly, the unexpected encounter with Peng Boran made her step by step into this man's world, from strangeness to gradual understanding, all from the bits and pieces of life.

In August, Peng Boran took her son, and her son took her, and began a trip around the world full of surprises.

For Peng Boran's cognition, Kwong Meiyun has deepened day by day.

He loves to travel, is knowledgeable, and knows a lot about various geographical cultures and local customs.

He has a strong desire to learn, and he will learn what he doesn't understand, and he will be satisfied with the status quo.

He loves to help the weak without a trace, and gives a small gesture while maintaining the other party's self-esteem.

He can be a tyrant, under his name, there is a love foundation, he can send warmth to many sick children, and it is not a problem to spend a lot of money; He can also be stingy and will count the people who "offend" him clearly.

He doesn't seem to like children very much, but he can take his son and have a good time with a group of children.

He doesn't like places with poor environments, but he can survive in the most difficult wild environment, and he takes his son to try to use cheap travel methods to understand the world and feel the most primitive survival mode.

……

Every time I get to know him a little more, I appreciate him a little more.

In such a threesome trip, Kwong Meiyun plays the role of a sidekick: the father and son are the protagonists, and she is the supporting role. And appreciating their interaction is the only thing she can do along the way, and of course, sometimes, she is pulled into their interaction by her son, and the results are often pleasant.

A month passed in a hurry.

Kwong Yin said to his father: "This is the happiest summer vacation I have ever had. It's nice that my mom and dad are there for me. Dad, will we all spend this summer vacation in the future? ”

His father listened and promised, "No problem." ”

She listened, and walked for a moment:

It's all like this?

Is it possible?

He will never marry in his life, so she will never marry in her life, so she gets together to accompany her son in such an unclear way, isn't it?

At the end of August, when they returned to Shanghai, Peng Boran told her, "I found a school for my son, and he will study in Shanghai from now on." In the next few days, I will settle in Shanghai, and I will investigate the mysterious underground palace case with Ji Beixun......"

She listened excitedly, and finally, she could get involved in the case.

And for the current life, her feelings are: It's good.

When she came back from the trip, her aunt once pulled her to ask softly, "How is it?" How's it going? ”

Originally, Peng Boran invited her aunt to travel together, but her aunt didn't go, she didn't want to spoil the atmosphere of their family of three having fun together.

Because my aunt felt that they could play more intimate without her.

"When we go out, we sleep separately, Xiaoyin sometimes sleeps with me, sometimes with him."

It's the truth.

From time to time, they will communicate, he is more tolerant of her, willing to teach her some things she doesn't understand, and when she is idle, she will use her mobile phone to learn English - compared to his ability to communicate with people in proficient English, her basic communicative language is too shabby, in order not to be despised by her son, timely learning and charging is the only means she can improve herself.

But other than that, they have little to no other physical contact.

Sometimes, she feels that the way she and Peng Boran get along is like two old friends, cooperating with each other and walking together, without too much passion, some just love each other and respect each other.

"And what do you think?"

When my aunt heard this, she immediately became anxious.

This sentence was also asked by Xiao Jinghuan when she was on the phone with her before.

At that time, she reluctantly asked back: "What do you think of me?" Take the initiative and take people down? Everyone is an adult, in fact, even if you really fall down and go to bed, what then? For contemporary men and women, the relationship between men and women is not the same as marriage. ”

Xiao Jinghuan corrected her and said, "What I asked is, what is your impression of Lao Peng?" ”

Kwong Meiyun thought about it and said honestly: "He's fine." So, he can have absolute choice, and I, I don't have the ability to decide my own destiny. ”

Xiao Jinghuan said: "Have you ever fought for it? If you haven't fought for it, how do you know that your fate must be in the hands of others? Can't you show a little courage to give it a go? ”

These words made her silent for a long time.

Yes, she didn't have the courage, even though his whole heart had been conquered by him.

Because of this, she became less and less courageous to fight for it.

At this moment, in the face of her aunt's inquiry, her answer was: "Auntie, I don't have too many ideas. Live each day well, and everything will be okay as it happens. ”

My aunt said, "A woman's youth can't be consumed, aren't you stupid?" It's easy to find a little girl like Lao Peng, but it's hard to find a suitable one like you......"

Kuang Meiyun smiled lightly: "If I can't find the right one, I can never marry for the rest of my life." Auntie, everything has to be about fate. It takes fate to be a family, and fate is also needed to be a friend, and *** people are even more ...... That's not what one can do as one wants. So be it! ”

Such a her, in Xiao Jinghuan's opinion, must be very useless - but her temper has always been like this.

She can't do things that go against her nature.

*

My aunt felt that she should talk to Peng Boran, as long as Meiyun did not have a place in the second half of her life, her heart would not be steady. Before, she encountered such a situation, this man took his son, Meiyun and her to the mall together, but wherever he passed, it would always attract frequent sideways glances from women.

Such a man can become the target of unmarried young women, and their family's Meiyun is no longer young, if they really become friends like this and have no chance to be husband and wife, it would be a pity. It's just that he hasn't been able to find a suitable opportunity - after returning to China, he began to get busy, and he couldn't see him at all. This was the case for several days.

On the evening of August 31, she called Peng Boran's phone, and the bell rang for a while before he connected:

"Auntie, what's wrong?"

"Are you busy?"

She asked first.

"It's a little favorable."

"That's right, as soon as you come back, you're too busy to see anyone, shouldn't you take time to have a meal with Xiaoyin. He's going to start school tomorrow, so shouldn't you make time to go to school with him or something......"

She used Kuang Yin as an entry point, which is the most suitable.

"I booked a place outside tonight, since my aunt called, I'll talk to Meiyun when I go back, and let her come out with you and Kuang Yin in a while. Let the driver at home take you over...... The time is six o'clock...... I'll go over when I'm done......"

This made my aunt understand one thing, although this man was busy, he still took care of the family, which made her quite happy.

"Good ......"

But when I arrived there, something happened that made my aunt very unhappy.