700, Unexpected Marriage 23 Marriage is meant to be a gamble

"Okay, okay, I'll go in the afternoon."

Before she could respond, her aunt's clapping echo came from behind her:

"I'm in favor. Raise your hands in favor. ”

Repeated emphasis has also been made.

“……”

Kwong Meiyun turned her head and saw her aunt's face showing joy, and her speechless "oh" became a circle.

Hasn't my aunt always been a Xiaoguan party?

When did this betray become Lao Peng's party?

The speed of this apostasy is too shocking!

"Okay, then eat the Chinese food and go to get the certificate. I'm calling now and having someone prepare my documents. ”

Peng Boran, who was also secretly "shocked", did not regret it, but calmly added.

Kwong Meiyun's eyes widened completely.

What kind of speed is this?

Pick up the certificate in the afternoon?

Apparently, this is no joke.

No, no, it's absolutely not okay.

"Wait a minute."

A stop is a must.

"Do you have an opinion?"

Peng Boran turned his head and asked lightly.

"Absolutely. We are not suitable at all. ”

She expressed her opinion very seriously.

Peng Boran was not surprised that she would object, but she still deliberately asked rhetorically:

"If you don't try, how do you know it's not suitable?"

"We have no emotional foundation."

"Why isn't there any?"

"How did you get there?"

"We all want Xiaoyin to be good, at this point, we all have the same thoughts!"

That's true, but ...... It's not the point.

"That's just one aspect. Life is not as simple as you think. Many married couples have children, and the reason why they didn't make it to the end is that their life philosophy and life values are different, which eventually led to the breakdown of the marriage. ”

She said quite sensibly:

"Peng Boran, you and I are people from two different worlds. You grew up in a foreign country and drank foreign ink; As for me, I am a very traditional Chinese woman, and we have too many differences in life and thinking, so we can't come together because of a child.

"Yes, you're right, if you don't try, you don't know if it's right or not. But is this kind of thing something that you can try casually?

"What if it's not suitable?

"What do you want to do then?

"Find a point in time to break up peacefully, and find their own happiness?

"You may think it's normal, but I've never accepted in my heart the idea of you being my husband.

"So, I'm sorry, this thing, it's impossible."

After she finished her thoughts calmly, she walked out, and when she saw her aunt open her mouth to speak, she hurriedly stopped:

"Auntie, please, don't make any more trouble."

She promised Peng Boran to stay, but she had no other intentions, Chun Cui just wanted to participate in that case, and for this reason, she really didn't want to complicate things.

But my aunt sighed there: "You kid, why are you so brainless? The worst ending is like now: you have a family, I have a family, you have lost like this, what are you afraid of losing? ”

"It's not like that. I don't want to gamble on marriage. ”

She corrected.

The aunt smiled helplessly, and it was really difficult to agree with her thoughts, and reminded:

"Girl, are you stupid?

"Marriage is a gamble.

"Someone took all his belongings and lost a fine light. Someone took the last bit of chips and won the whole world.

"You can imagine that when we get married, who can guarantee that this marriage will be a win for us, and we will definitely be able to stay together until we are full of gray hair?

"Yunyun, none of us are prophets, and none of us can see who we are missing, guarding, and loving at the moment of death; Who remembers the dead at the end, guards the dead, and loves the dead......

"Besides, you don't want to make Xiaoguan completely dead, this is the most effective way."

Although my aunt has never experienced marriage, she still sees the relationship of marriage quite thoroughly.

Kwong Meiyun suddenly fell silent, thinking of an article she had seen before.

In that article, the author likened marriage to a joint venture: there is a business in the world, and then there is a company. The so-called company is to gather the financial resources of many people and operate together, with the ultimate purpose of making profits.

In order to make such a profit, at the beginning of the company's establishment, investors must first find like-minded partners.

This partner must be the only one, and he trusts and recognizes him, because in the process of joint venture, each other's interests are closely related, everyone has selfish intentions, and no one wants to suffer losses in the process.

However, after the establishment of this company, no one can make a package ticket whether it can soar in the end.

Maybe, the management is not good, and the loss is dead, maybe, the time will come to operate, and the profit will be over.

Men and women in marriage are like two partners in a company, who cooperate carefully with each other and operate with heart, and their performance may be thriving, and maybe they can open a few subsidiaries.

This situation is the result that all married people desire the most.

There are good management, naturally there are poor management, this kind of company will be in the daily development of all kinds of such and such problems, the situation is frequent, maybe a few days will be closed down, premature.

In this case, it is like a couple who go their separate ways before the run-in period has passed.

There is also a company that has been in business for a while and has achieved a little bit more, and continues to develop steadily, and it is gradually unable to meet the ambition of one of the partners.

This person is eager to get better and better returns, and in the process of development, he has taken a fancy to other new projects and has the idea of cooperating with others.

As a result, the other partner disagreed, but he insisted on developing it separately, and the final result was: breaking up, dividing the company's property, seriously harming the normal development of the company, and causing a bloody mess.

In this case, it is like in the process of marriage, one party cheats, and the family relationship falls apart.

The profit-making relationship of marriage is: one loses and one prospers.

And whether marriage can be profitable or not is unknown.

It relies on the business means of both investors and their respective centripetal forces.

Because the human heart is uncertain, and because there are too many unfathomable temptations in life, its success or failure has a little to do with gambling.

Therefore, Kuang Meiyun still agrees with her aunt's statement.

Only those whose interests are closely related can cooperate sincerely, and between her and Peng Boran, there is a very powerful bond - children.

If they both have the intention to cooperate, no one can say what the future will be - what she just said is inappropriate, in fact, in essence, it is just an excuse to escape.

And who to try, not an attempt?

She thought about it, turned around slowly, gritted her teeth, and responded: "Okay, then take it!" ”

It's all out of the way.

One is for the sake of the child, and the other is for the sake of making someone completely die.

Who knew that Peng Boran's eyes were deep, and he threw out this sentence:

"You'd better think about it!

"Marriage is a relationship of paper, and if you don't know how to cherish each other, it will break. Can't afford any toss.

"The important thing is: what is difficult for strong people, I have never disdained it......

"Get out! I also have to pack my clothes. You go and pack up and leave in the afternoon. ”

He turned and went to get his clothes ready.

Despised like this?

She secretly breathed a sigh of relief and clenched her fists, but she was not angry.

Actually, what she just said was quite impulsive, and she hadn't thought about many things yet.

Fortunately, he didn't agree, otherwise, she wouldn't have been able to go down the stairs.

He grabbed a handful of clothes and threw them into the suitcase.

"You...... What are you doing here? Moving or packing up? Are you planning to move all your belongings to Shanghai together? ”

She endured it, but she couldn't hold back, but she still asked.

"Do I need to explain this to you?"

He didn't look at her squarely:

"You're not my wife."

“……”

She was immediately speechless.

All right!

She doesn't care about it!

Turning around, she stepped back.

My aunt looked at it over there and shook her head and chuckled: It's really not that the enemies don't get together, and they are destined to meet thousands of miles away!

Before, she had always been optimistic about Guan Yijun, because that man's temperament was really good, but unfortunately, the fate was too shallow.

After so many days, she suddenly felt that the pair in front of her was also very dramatic - Peng Boran looked cold and widowed, but he was still quite able to live at home:

In the face of his son's 100,000 whys, he can follow the good path; When it comes to small things at home, he doesn't emphasize his personal will, he respects their ideas, and he's really good.

In her view, whether men and women can get along harmoniously is the key to verifying whether a family is necessary to exist.

So, she's quite optimistic about them.

--- digression--- see you tomorrow. I forgot to explain: a week ago, I made an appointment for a small surgery this week, (a small lump on my back), I just finished it yesterday - after successfully passing the driver's license, I formed an indissoluble bond with the hospital, I wanted to recover 5,000 words, because people were a little uncomfortable, and failed to recover, these days, temporarily 3,000 words, and I will write it quickly and strive to finish it as soon as possible.