Yesterday, a reader left a message saying whether the author had been a soldier, did you really see any clues? Actually, no, but my family really used to be a military family.

I once had a military wife in my family, and that was my mother! (laughs)

But that was decades ago, and I've almost forgotten it, and I wouldn't have remembered it if I hadn't written this book.

When I went back to my hometown during the Chinese New Year, I saw the old photos pressed under the glass on the table, and I remembered that we were also military dependents.

Those photos of my dad when he was in the army are really handsome, my dad was very handsome when he was young! (Really)

My book is about the rebirth of the '80s, and my dad was in the '70s when he was in the army.

He worked as an artilleryman in Xiamen for five years before being demobilized.

In other words, my mother was a glorious military wife.

At that time, the conditions of the army were not very good, my mother went to the army to visit relatives, I asked my mother if she lived in the army guest house, she said that there was no guest house at that time, so she lived in the dormitory of the driving class, because there were still two vacant rooms there.

But she said that the food of the troops is okay, haha! Life at that time was very difficult, and the troops were still relatively better.

My mom also took a few photos with my dad in Xiamen, both together and alone.

My dad was standing in front of a cannon in a military uniform, and he was very spirited!

My mom wore two hemp braids (which were standard at the time) and a plaid shirt with military pants underneath. I just found out that there were plaid shirts at that time, and I couldn't see the color because it was a black and white photo, I guess it was a green checker.

It's a bit like the plaid shirt that is now standard for IT science and engineering men, and it was available at that time. (laughs)

My mother said that when she went to visit her family, many comrades-in-arms came to see her and shamed her to death.

My mother was also a rare beauty in ten miles and eight towns at that time, she was young and beautiful at that time, and she was pulled by the team to sing model plays, sing red songs, and sing "The sky in the liberated area is a sunny day, and the people in the liberated area like ......" (haha)

Many people thought she was an educated youth, and they all asked, "Where did this educated youth come from?" ”。 My mom was quite proud.

Don't look at my mother like this, but I had a very hard time when I was a child.

It was a bloody experience.

Some people may say that mine is too bloody, so many superb, and so many people are not biological, it is unlikely.

But it comes from life is higher than life, there is no no no dog blood, only more dog blood.

My mother's family has five children, and the family is very poor, of course, most families were poor at that time, and some families have ten or eight children, and five is quite a few.

When there was a famine in the country, my grandmother's family was so poor that she couldn't open the pot, so she gave my mother to someone else, and my mother cried and shouted for goodbye to send her away, but she was finally sent away.

Do you know who it was delivered to? My grandmother's house.

That's my dad's house.

Yes, my dad and my mom are childhood sweethearts. Haha, it feels good, right? But at that time, my mother hated my dad very much, and felt that if it wasn't for his family, she wouldn't have been sent over. Because my grandmother is a little distant relative of my grandfather's family, I sent it to my grandmother's house.

Do you think my grandmother's family is rich?

No, her family is as poor as tinkling, she only has three children, but she gave my aunt to someone else and took my mother home to raise.

Obviously, she raised my mother as a daughter-in-law.

So to put it nicely, my parents are childhood sweethearts, and it's hard to say, my mother is a child daughter-in-law.

But there must have been a lot of cases at that time, right? It's all caused by poverty.

You see, the two girls here are not born in the family.

Not only that, but my mother was not born to my grandfather.

My grandfather died shortly after my mother was born, and my grandmother remarried with three children and married this grandfather.

So when I sent the children, I chose to send my mother, because the older brothers and sisters above have grown up and can help the family, and the following two of my grandfather's own children are of course reluctant to give them, and my mother has become a victim.

My mom is like a heroine before she was reborn, and she has a bad fate.

However, she is a very strong and persistent person, if she is reborn, she may really be able to soar like the characters in it, but unfortunately how can she be reborn in reality? She suffered a lot.

My mom came to my grandma's house and met the best mother-in-law.

Don't get me wrong, the best here is really not a derogatory term, it can only be said to be a neutral word.

Because my grandmother is a good person from all over the country, and she is very beautiful.

My grandmother is a midwife, and my mother said that she is really good to others, and some people go to other people's homes to guard their children before they are born, and they only come back after delivering the children and helping others take care of them for a few days.

And generally don't need money, of course people will send her a few eggs.

But it's not necessary, go back when you're born, and you can come back after giving birth, she just wants to help people to the end.

I heard that I often take care of some elderly people and help care for the sick at home, all for free.

When others mention her, they all give her a thumbs up and say that she is a living bodhisattva.

But such a good person, but not very good to my mother.

I just let my mother work all day long, I can't eat enough, and I am often scolded.

At that time, there was a literacy class, and my mother got all the textbooks to prepare for school, and the textbooks were thrown away by my grandmother.

Let's say that she is fake and kind, no, she is harsh on her own family. Of course, I am also myself.

Maybe there is such a kind of person who is kind to others and strict to his family.

Speaking of my grandmother, it's also a hard life.

She is also a child daughter-in-law who was sent to my grandfather's house since she was a child, don't think that childhood sweethearts have a good relationship, she and my grandfather have never had a good time in their lives.

My grandfather is ugly, has a large black birthmark on his face, and is lazy to eat, so forget it, he still hooks up to find women outside, and he is also domestic violence. My grandmother married him for eight lifetimes.

Later, my grandmother took my father to live alone, (my uncle is married, and my aunt is in someone else's house) My grandfather also found another woman, and at that time he didn't get a marriage certificate, so the separation was like a divorce.

Here's the point, my dad wasn't born to my grandfather either. Ahem...... Isn't it bloody?

Even my grandfather's appearance couldn't give birth to such a good-looking child.

If it were, I'd definitely write that my dad might be the descendant of some chief, haha, is it possible?

But until now we didn't know who my dad's biological father was, and my grandma didn't say anything.

Maybe I'm really the descendant of some high-ranking official? (Ha, yy.) ）

Back to my mom.

Actually, my mom and my dad didn't spend much time together when they were young, my dad was in school in the town at the time, and my mom was in the village, maybe they saw each other once or twice a month, and at that time my mom hated my grandma's house and didn't have a good impression of my dad.

My dad said that he was poor in school at that time, so he brought a little rice to school, and the school cafeteria could steam rice, but there was no vegetable to sell, and he brought his own vegetables.

My dad said that there was no food, so he dipped his chopsticks in a little salt, then ate a mouthful of rice, and then dipped a little salt into a mouthful of rice.

I thought it was incredible, I thought there would be at least pickles and radish strips, right? Not even this?

He said that because he couldn't eat for a few days, he would eat white rice later.

Life was so hard at that time, can you imagine? Now we still hate big fish and big meat, and it's not delicious.

When my mom was fourteen years old, my grandmother died, and my mom started to support herself on her own.

At that time, my mother was very capable, and a little girl could withstand a full laborer, and it was said that she could carry a burden of one hundred and twenty pounds. Every day is to go to work and earn a share of work, in order to be able to share a little more food during the New Year.

But in this way, my grandfather often went to her house to get food, (nominally an elder), and my uncle's family too, which made my mother angry to death.

My dad was in junior high school in the town at the time.

But the Decade Movement began, and schools were closed. However, at that time, because of his excellent performance and because he was a poor middle peasant, he was selected as a student representative, participated in the big series, and went to Beijing to meet ***.

He's still very excited about it. What an honor it was to have the opportunity to meet the chairman at that time.

My dad said that he was walking to Beijing at that time, and many people walked together, and there were designated places to support meals along the way, and there were allowances to get.

Walking from the south to Beijing, you can imagine how long it took to walk. But at that time, my blood was boiling, and I was motivated to do anything.

My mother was at home alone to earn work and save food, and when she went to my grandmother's house, she brought food to them.

Although they don't want her anymore, she still thinks about her family.

My mother still wants to cry when she talks about it, saying that she was homesick at that time, she wanted to go home, she begged my grandmother to let me go home, I can work, I eat less, but my grandmother refused, my mother was really sad, but she still thought about them, and she still thought about them when she had surplus food.

People are like this sometimes, you say it's cheap, it's too ugly, it's family...... Alas, I don't know what to say.

Then my dad joined the army.

One as a soldier for five years.

My mom and my dad were both in their twenties when they got married, and it was really late at that time. My dad seems to be twenty-six or seven, right?,Ah,It's about the same age as the male protagonist in me.。 (laughs)

My mother said that she was shaken and didn't want to marry my father, and the people in the village persuaded him, saying how good my father was, he was good-looking, and he was a soldier, and my father had a super good temper.

My mother's temper is very hot, which may also be related to her life experience, she suffered too much when she was a child, so she is sensitive, just a little.

I wish there was a new birth, and my mother wouldn't suffer so much.

Of course, the days after marriage were also bumpy and bumpy, and it was not all smooth sailing, but fortunately, it finally passed.

The year before last, my mother had a little stroke, one hand couldn't do it, when I was hospitalized, it was my father who washed her face and combed her hair, my mother laughed and said that she had never combed her hair in the previous half of her life, and now she has this opportunity when she is old.

Actually, my dad is a bit of a wooden person, not good at expressing himself, but he has a good temper and never beats us, but my mom often beats us. I was the youngest in the family, and my dad loved me the most, but I was beaten by my mom.

After ups and downs now, she has been married for decades, and my mother's temper has also been restrained a little, but my father still tolerates her, and sometimes it is inevitable to argue a few words. Fortunately, everything is going well.

I hope they can all be healthy and live a safe and secure life!

(My family's story is over, scatter flowers!) ）

In fact, I can really write a copy of my parents' story, but now the military marriage document is too strict, and I'm worried that this book will not be allowed to be written if it can't be finished, and the title and cover of the book have been changed, I hope it's okay.

Thank you cuties for listening to my nagging about family affairs, and thank you for supporting my book, thank you! Boom! I want to talk about "Rebirth of the Eighty Prosperous Wedding Pets" with more like-minded people, pay attention to "excellent reading literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find confidants~