545 Gynophobia
"You want to surpass your father, he will definitely think that you are a good son when he looks at you from heaven." Zhao Ping'an said sincerely.
Zhao Chen was stunned, and his face showed a look of yearning and admiration.
Because of the relationship between the Ye family, Zhao Chen has not been well guided since he was a child, and he is stubborn and abnormal. But many times, he was naughty just to attract his father's attention. After all, he desperately longs for his father's recognition and affection. It's a pity that his father died early, and he never had a chance again. Therefore, Zhao Ping'an's statement greatly encouraged and comforted him.
So he nodded, "I will definitely make my father proud of me." ”
After a pause, he said, "Except for one thing." ”
"What's the matter?" Zhao Ping'an asked.
Zhao Chen hesitated for a long time before gritting his teeth and saying, "Auntie, I, can I not marry a wife?" He added a self-esteem to the end, as if trying to add weight to his words.
Zhao Ping'an was taken aback, and subconsciously asked, "Why?" ”
Zhao Chen didn't dare to say it, and snorted.
"I won't blame you, though." Zhao Ping'an urged.
Zhao Chen said, "These women in the palace are all asked for by their father, but which one is a fuel-efficient lamp?" Little Fourteen's mother, how much trouble she has found for him, she doesn't hurt him, she frames him, you don't need to mention it......" He paused, after all, he couldn't bear to declare his own mother.
But he boldly glanced at Zhao Ping'an, "My aunt is also very fierce, I have been afraid since I was a child." My aunt's eyes widened, and my legs were still shaking. Who said that if you are the Son of Heaven, you are the biggest in the world? In my opinion, the heavens and the earth are big, and women are the biggest. ”
Zhao Ping'an was dumbfounded, and then wanted to laugh inexplicably.
She was a little harsh with Brother Jiu'er, because he was stubborn when he was a child, and the imperial brother was not in good health, so she was especially worried that this kid would be angry with her father. Later, his attitude towards him was almost coaxing and deceiving, and she was strict, and even his mother and the Ye family were all killed by her. This kid is sensible, and it's good if he doesn't hate her for this. But then she didn't indulge him, but because he was the last candidate for succession. But did she overexert herself and leave any shadow in his young mind that made him suffer from "female phobia"?!
That's not going to work.
If Brother Jiu'er is really psychologically harmed, then she really has to bear a certain amount of responsibility. There was once a famous saying in psychology that said that a lucky childhood is a gift for a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood takes a lifetime to make up for it. Therefore, it should be too late to remedy it now, after all, Brother Jiu'er is still very young.
"In fact, not all women are like those in the palace." She gritted her teeth and blackened herself, "It's not all as fierce as my aunt." ”
Zhao Chen hurriedly shook his head.
He didn't say that his aunt was fierce, or that he was afraid of his aunt. In fact, when my aunt doesn't frown, I love him very much, and he likes to talk to my aunt together. At the beginning, the Empress Dowager and the fourteenth mother wanted to plague the Dajiang Kingdom, he became a thorn in the eye and a thorn in the flesh, and his aunt sent someone to catch him in the northwest. His life was given by his aunt, and he will never forget it.
However, he wanted to explain, and Zhao Ping'an pulled the topic back again, "My aunt murdered you so that you could be well, and I actually like you very much in my heart." She hurriedly set up her own glorious image, "When you are older, you will understand your aunt's intentions." As for the other women in the harem, the main reason is that your imperial grandfather has a bad eye, so the empress dowager can't control the harem, so she lets all the charms and spirits jump out. You must understand that if the lord of the first house is of good character, kind and generous, and can control big and small affairs, the harem will be safe, and you will be safe in governing the world. He pouted.
Zhao Chen shrunk his neck.
My aunt dared to say that he didn't dare to talk about the emperor's grandfather like this. In fact, he felt in his heart that his father also had a certain responsibility. However, the relationship between his aunt and his father is very close, so why should he expose the scales and make his aunt unhappy.
"As an emperor, you have the responsibility of opening up branches for the royal family, how can you not marry a wife?" Zhao Ping'an continued to enlighten, "If you think there are too many women and the harem is chaotic, at most I support you not to follow the ancestral system, and marry a few less." There are many rights and wrongs in women, and it is also a harm to women. In fact, if you want to marry one, the premise is that she has to be a good child......" Zhao Ping'an scratched his chin.
She is a modern person and has never felt that the responsibility of women is only to give birth. But this is the ancient river, there is really no way, and if you don't want to consider it, you have to consider a lot of feudal factors. Only by integrating well into the environment can we live a good life.
"Xiang Duo is like this." She took a step back, "Didn't your father give me the responsibility of choosing a queen for you?" Then I promise you, I must discuss with you, and let you choose your favorite, okay? However, the dragon son still has to be born. That's about five or six. "That is, you don't have to give birth too much, like the Nine Dragons of the Qing Dynasty, you don't need to give birth too little, and make a willful only son like Emperor Zhengde, a little overlord.
"Really?" Zhao Chen's eyes lit up.
If he could make his own choice, it would be much better. My father's vision is not good, but my aunt's vision is good, so that he can follow his own heart, and his aunt will check it. In the future, it will be good for the two of them to turn on the lights and talk, and turn off the lights to be companions. Giving birth to a dragon, I heard that it is natural to become a parent.
Fortunately, Zhao Ping'an didn't hear Zhao Chen's mental activities, otherwise he would be even more worried, and he would have to be educated in some aspects. She has now secretly sworn that she will cure Brother Jiu'er's phobia. Maybe what Brother Jiu'er needs is Mu Yuan, the guidance and teaching of this kind of male elder, to teach him how to identify women, love women, and live a lifetime.
However, seeing that Brother Jiu's expression was no longer resistant, and he was still a little happy, he also secretly breathed a sigh of relief, feeling that today's level was over for the time being. Before he wanted to say something more, Qiu Xiang outside came in and replied, saying that Master Song had sent someone to deliver a message, saying that it was getting late and the emperor should rest.
When Zhao Chen heard this, he showed a helpless look.
He was chatting happily with his aunt and felt that the teacher was very annoying. But in his consciousness, he felt that the teacher was right, so he was very entangled, and peeked at Zhao Ping'an with his eyes.
Zhao Ping'an is very reasonable.
Courtiers were generally not allowed to stay in the palace, unless there was an urgent matter to discuss, and the emperor would personally keep them again and again, and then live somewhere in the outer garden. Old Master Song is old, and when he was walking in the palace this morning, he fell and twisted his waist, so he was not suitable for activities. Therefore, Zhao Chen personally invited him to live in the palace. But even if Boss Song is uncomfortable, he still abides by his duties, and Zhao Ping'an only has a respectful heart, and he doesn't feel that the other party is nosy. I didn't feel offended or disturbed at all.
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