704, Unexpected Marriage 27 Just don't be too tired to live according to fate
704, Unexpected Marriage 27 Everything is fate, just don't be too tired to live
"Why don't you deserve it? Sister Kuang, don't be too presumptuous, okay! β
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She is the kind of person who dares to fight for her preferences and will fight for them at all costs.
Of course, that's also because she has that capital: not only does she have an extraordinary background, but she also has the ability to make herself worry about food and clothing.
Kwong Meiyun clearly knows that she and Xiao Jinghuan are not from the same country, and in some points of view, they will inevitably have a distance that cannot be crossed.
"Xiao Xiao, listen to me......"
"No, you'd better listen to me first!"
Xiao Jinghuan was quite strong, and did not give Kwong Meiyun a chance to explain her views at all, standing in the shade of a sun-dappled tree, and reasoned very seriously:
"I admit that people will show different social attitudes because of the different education, because of the different backgrounds, and because of the different experiences.
"Some people are born with no one to try, they love to talk and be high-profile; Some people are aloof and withdrawn, and seem to be lonely and self-admiring; Some people have no strengths and have to be silent; Some people are indomitable, dare to keep hitting the wall, keep fighting, keep fighting; Some people fail once, and then they will collapse and be in trouble all day long; Some people are willing to abide by their duties, and they are cautious in their words and deeds......
"People have different personalities, so their lives are very different. However, I feel that on a spiritual level, there is absolute equality between people. There is no such thing as a class or a class.
"Let me tell you, don't think that Lao Peng's life was born like this. Not really.
"In the beginning, his family was really not good.
"As far as I know, when he was in high school, his mother had severe depression, and the family's main source of income was the money he earned from his part-time job. When he was in college, his mother passed away, and even the funeral expenses were borrowed......
"At that time, he lived a very hard life, and he would never be much better than you.
In other words, his achievements were not achieved overnight, but step by step, one footprint at a time.
"So, in terms of origin, to put it bluntly, you are similar to him.
As for his later development, Lao Peng benefited from the support of others, and of course, it was also the result of his good grasp of opportunities.
"And you, a woman's family, if you hadn't given birth to Xiaoyin back then, I think you would definitely not be bad now......
"I've heard Lao Bo talk about this. He said you did very well in the army, otherwise, he wouldn't remember you.
"Having said all this, the point I want to make is that the most important thing for a man to get along with a woman is to be able to talk. As long as there is a common language, the circle of life will gradually merge in the years of living together.
"Let's use an analogy! Lao Peng Gan's line, as long as you integrate, in the future, his life circle will be your life circle.
"I remember you saying that many years ago, you wanted to join the criminal police team, and you had a strong interest in solving crimes. And that is exactly what Lao Peng has been running for more than ten years.
In other words, you are fellow travelers when it comes to your ambitions in life.
"So, I think it's quite possible...... As long as you develop well, there will be infinite possibilities.
"Most importantly, you have a son between you......
"Such a cute son, you and Lao Peng are really willing to let his family not have a family?
"If you want to change me, I will definitely be reluctant to ......"
Compared with Kwong Meiyun, Xiao Jinghuan naturally knows Peng Boran better than anyone, after all, they were a close working pair.
Kwong Meiyun met Peng Boran again because of Xiao Jinghuan.
During those days when she was Xiao Jinghuan's bodyguard, she could see that Peng Boran took good care of Xiao Jinghuan: she knew what dishes she liked to eat when she ate, what kind of songs she liked to listen to when she was leisure, and she knew that she didn't like to be noisy when she went to sleep, otherwise she would get up......
She remembered that Xiao Jinghuan said that Lao Peng was like a blue-faced confidante to her, or a brother who loved and doted on her......
In fact, she was curious: Is there really such a friendship between men and women that is neither love nor family affection?
She was skeptical.
At that time, she had such a strange thought:
Peng Boran didn't seem to be happy with Xiao Jinghuan's submission to her marriage, and was very unhappy about their future. This rejection, could it be selfish: this man may like Xiao Jinghuan.
Facts have proved that he really doesn't have that kind of male and female affection for Xiao Jinghuan.
And about his past, she didn't know until today, it turned out that he was once such an ordinary person.
Well, people in this world are all born the same, and the reason why they are different later: one of them may be because they have a great father; Another possibility is that they have created an amazing version of themselves with their actions.
For example: Jack Ma.
The difference between Ma Yun before success and Ma Yun after success is that before he succeeded, he was starting a business, and like most people, he was unknown; After his success, he was overshadowed by the stars as he led his team to create miracles.
This example can prove that the so-called life, as long as it is born, there will be infinite possibilities. The so-called circle of life can change dramatically because of the creation of people. The quality of life depends on one's actions.
"Hey......"
Xiao Jinghuan saw that she was distracted, so she could only wave her hand:
"What are you thinking? What I said, did you hear ......"
"I heard that!"
Kwong Meiyun turned her head and smiled slightly - this masculine face, as long as she smiles, she will reveal the feminine delicateness.
Actually, she is very attractive.
This is Xiao Jinghuan's idea.
"Xiao Xiao, thank you for encouraging me. But I still have the same attitude: just follow the fate and don't live too tired. β
This is her attitude to life.
Never try to force anything.
"No, I think you should fight for it!"
Xiao Jinghuan encouraged her, this stoic little woman, should really have her own happy life:
"Now that we've lived here, we'll have to live there forever. So we'll be neighbors. In the future, it's okay to be idle, we can hang out and go shopping, how good ......"
Kwong Meiyun is a little unexpected, that kind of development is a bit too detached from reality.
She couldn't help but smile and look up at the sky.
Same sky, different mood.
It is undeniable that her life is quietly changing, but it is difficult to predict how her life will play out in the end.
There is a saying that is very true, marriage and women will be reincarnated for the second time.
Reincarnation is important, but after reincarnation, will life remain the same for the rest of your life?
No!
The most important thing in life is to rely on your own unremitting efforts and struggles.
It's just that if the object you want to chase is too far away from you, life can become hard.
Or maybe it's because she doesn't have much desire for a man to possess, that's why she gives birth to so many excuses.
How to say it, about the love between men and women, only if you really love deeply and invest, you will work hard to fight for it, to change the status quo, to change your fate, on the contrary, if you don't love, the distance can also be the end of the world.
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Xiao Jinghuan likes Kwong Meiyun.
This eldest sister, on the surface, is very masculine, but in fact she is a very gentle woman at heart, she takes care of people very carefully, is very responsible, and does everything very seriously.
It's just that fate didn't give her a good background, nor did it give her a good life development, plus she was upright and principled by nature, so her life was not satisfactory, and it was not particularly surprising.
Now that she knew that she had such a relationship with her best friend, as a friend, of course she had to plan for her.
Returning from a walk outside, she ran directly into Peng Boran's study.
At that time, Kuang Yin was sitting on the side playing his own game, while Jin Changning and Peng Boran were sitting in front of the sofa, drinking tea and chatting, and the two men chatted very speculatively.
She listened carefully, and the topic of conversation was about the dungeon. These men have a strong interest in the legendary and mysterious dungeon.
"Xiaoyin, your mother asked you to help......"
"Oh!"
The little guy was sensible, so he immediately threw down the tablet and ran away.
This shout immediately attracted Peng Boran's attention.
"Get out of the way, what are you trying to say?"
Peng Boran knew Xiao Jinghuan very well, and immediately guessed that she had something to say.
Xiao Jinghuan stood on his stomach, walked over, and stood straight in front of him, his face was all positive:
"Lao Peng, you are a man who is almost forty. Over the years, you have been playing life long enough, never married for a lifetime, although it is very chic to live a free and lazy life, but no woman is not like a home, and no child is not a complete home. I have never cared about your business for so long, but today, I want to say: Settle down and go through a serious life is a normal destination for a person. When you've had enough, it's time to take care of ......"
Peng Boran raised his eyebrows unconsciously, the current Xiao Jinghuan is simply a person with overflowing motherhood, and her relationship with Kwong Meiyun is so good, so he is not surprised that she will persuade her like this.
"Ah Xiao, what is marriage in your eyes?"
He asked suddenly.
There is one thing, Xiao Jinghuan is right, that is: he is not young anymore, and he has indeed been playing the world for a long time, but he is still confused about the definition of marriage.
Because, he is not a child who grew up in a normal family. The cognition of marriage is not particularly mature.
Therefore, before, he had the idea of impulsively wanting to get married, but in the blink of an eye, because of Kuang Meiyun's hesitation, he immediately regretted it.
It is to find the right person, participate in the rest of his life, accompany each other, and work together to create and achieve a different life. This kind of life should be one where both of them feel comfortable and comfortable, and each other is willing to be loyal to each other, and trust and rely on each other......"
Xiao Jinghuan's answer is a personal experience, and it is also her unique understanding of marriage.
Now she is living a very happy life. Because she is happy, she naturally hopes that her friends can also live a normal warm and happy married life.
"Well, that's a good point. This kind of life is quite desirable. β
Peng Boran nodded, looked at her, and then looked at Jin Changning, who was Wen Junsven:
"You are each other's right people, because you are the parties. But you can't be sure that Kwong Meiyun is the one who is right with me! Ah Xiao, in this matter, there is no way to force it at all...... You're also a person from the past, so you should know it well......"
"I didn't mean to force you, Lao Peng, I just want to remind you: if your heart has never let go, no one will be the right person in your eyes, right...... The first half of your life has been ruined by you, and you can't waste any more time in the second half of your life......"
Xiao Jinghuan made a steal and dropped a sentence that made Peng Boran change his face:
"Lao Peng, stop torturing yourself like this, let yourself go, and go into a normal life...... This is what your son needs, what you need, and what Sister Kwong needs. β
The door was half-hidden, and Kuang Meiyun was about to enter with fruit, and when she heard it, she immediately stopped her steps, and was stunned in her heart:
It turns out that this man has someone in his heart!