619, unrequited love 159, Jin Changning VS Shao Feng, he quit and made him lucky
Jin Changning's eyes are very gentle and harmless when facing Xiao Jinghuan, and they are full of bits and pieces of love, which will make people feel that this brother is extremely caring.
But as soon as Xiao Jinghuan left in front of him, his gaze suddenly became sharp.
It's like a sharp blade that can kill, straight into people's organs, and the sharp side of being a lawyer is all revealed.
Yes, how can a person who can be a lawyer?
Although Shao Feng is young, he is already an adult male, and at the same time, he is also a gifted student of a forensic specialty with a strange and sensitive reaction, whether it is from a male instinct or from a professional point of view, he is more sensitive and observant than anyone else, which is necessary and certain.
However, Jin Changning's attitude towards him was still very kind, and after chatting, he brought the focus back to the topics he was concerned about:
"When they fall in love in college, according to expert surveys, less than 10% of them finally achieve positive results and step into the palace of marriage.
And so it is.
Therefore, in this society now, there is a popular saying: graduation season is the breakup season. Each goes to the east and west, and each goes to the future. Everything that happened on campus was just a beautiful dream of youth.
Of course, maybe you can also irresponsibly say: Who stipulates that if you fall in love, you have to get married? What age is this?
"But in my opinion, not falling in love with the purpose of marriage is irresponsible to yourself and the other person. When you fall in love, you should think about the future at the beginning.
"Don't fall in love casually, that's the principle.
"However, if you really meet that person, you really feel that the other party is suitable, and you both feel that you can develop, and you have a foresight of each other's future, it is appropriate to talk about it in this situation.
"Maybe I'm being too conservative. However, this has always been the case in our family. I think Huanhuan should also talk about this love because of this result.
"Huanhuan is a very real person, she looks at her feelings very seriously.
"Because, she comes from a divorced family. She is more cautious than anyone else about the relationship between men and women.
"What about you?
Here, as her brother, I would like to hear what Shao thinks about falling in love, marriage, and future life planning.
"I need to see your attitude towards life, and your attitude towards Huanhuan."
Shao Feng could hear that Jin Changning was assessing him for Xiao Jinghuan.
If they can't pass him, maybe, their family will oppose their relationship.
Perhaps, their love will be stifled.
At the very least, there will be such a crisis from the woman's family.
He thought about it for a while, and gave a more rigorous answer very carefully:
"First of all, when you fall in love in college, whether you succeed or not depends on yourself. The individual vehicle controls the final outcome of the event.
"Here, I don't know or am sure whether Mr. Jin's 10% probability of success is accurate.
"The so-called expert survey data is often relatively fictitious. We are all adults and know this.
"But either way, there's at least a few percent of the data that proves that there are good endings.
"Then, I thought I'd like to say what I think about college students in relationships......
"Well, that's all I can say: I'm not in love impulsively to relieve loneliness and loneliness.
"I know exactly what I want in this relationship.
"I want a like-minded partner, a lover who supports me when I need help and encourages her when she needs motivation.
"I can see the merits of her professionally, I appreciate it and am proud of it.
"Her shortcomings, her picky behavior in life, I can also tolerate it, and maybe participate in it.
"Some of the influences are mutual.
"For example, I'm gradually correcting her bad habit of picky eating......
"For example, she was changing my taste of life and giving me some things that my social class couldn't appreciate.
"When we talk about social class, we have to deal with each other's family backgrounds.
"I have to say that this is a relatively realistic and extremely sensitive topic.
"The background information that Huanhuan filled in at school was very ordinary. However, from her conversation, as well as the high requirements for life between food, clothing, housing and transportation, I can still feel the difference.
"This difference used to make me daunted.
"But, what I like is Huanhuan, who she is, not anything else that comes with her.
"Maybe your family is very good, and I may not be able to climb it now, but give me ten years of growth, and she and I can give full play to our strengths in the fields we like, and achieve our unique life, career, and family.
"Perhaps, I can't give Huanhuan a particularly rich life, but we can create the most valuable and down-to-earth life together.
"Jing Huan is a stubborn person, and so am I.
"I chose her because she had the right temperament for me, and she chose me because we had the same interests.
"Later, in life, we can complement each other; At work, we can communicate with each other; In our spare time, we can keep each other company......
"I think that's important, even the most important.
"In this world, there are too many couples who have never entered each other's hearts after being married for a lifetime, and they will just go through a lifetime and regret a lifetime.
"But we are different, we are already in each other's souls, and in the future, we can go better......"
That day, he said a lot, deeply expressing the importance he attaches to this relationship and cherishes it incomparably.
Jin Changning's hostility towards him gradually disappeared, and his face vaguely eased.
Although he still didn't like him, he didn't object.
Later, Jing Huan came back, and the man affirmed him in front of Jing Huan without hesitation, saying:
"Good vision. Go for it! ”
The simple seven words are a manifestation of his willingness to give in, and they also show his good demeanor as a mature man.
Since then, he has rarely appeared in front of Jing Huan.
This can be seen from Jing Huan's behavior of rarely talking about her third brother after that.
Because there is little contact, there is no point to talk about.
He faded out of her life like this, and didn't even let her know that he had loved her.
However, the man has never talked about his girlfriend, and there have been no scandals, which proves that he has not completely given up.
Shao Feng felt that he was very lucky to be one step ahead of Jin Changning and won Xiao Jinghuan's heart, and he also had her.
Yes, because of a downpour, she stayed at his house.
That day, I didn't want to cross that step, but Xiao Jinghuan kissed him on fire during a goodnight kiss.
If she could stop it, he would definitely give up.
But she didn't, and they added fuel to the fire, so they secretly ate the forbidden fruit, so she rented a house outside, and the two naturally lived together.
By the way, he had also met her father, a particularly majestic and successful man.
It wasn't until he saw him that he knew that she was actually the daughter of the Xiao family, the pearl of the wealthy family.
But he was already in a deep position, and he no longer wanted to pay attention to these opinions......
He just wants to read the book well, take every step well, plan the future well, and advance steadily......
He thought that the future that awaited them would be brilliant, but who would have thought that a great change would completely change their lives, and death threatened him.
The most distressing thing is that in those times in the UK, they stayed together for the rest of their lives after the catastrophe, and persevered in despair.
In front of him, she smiled like a flower, and left him, she was crying, pretending to be strong, and she was crushed in tears.
In the face of death, he was helpless, and in this case, any words of appeasement were pale and powerless.
He could only watch it devour himself little by little, he could only entrust her to others before his death, and he could only hope that that person could give her another life, so he could only ......
At that time, his greatest wish was that he could leave with regrets, but she would continue to live a good and happy life.
At this moment, looking at her photos and listening to the news of her upcoming wedding, he was both heartbroken and relieved.
Jin Changning, you won't hurt the woman you love the most, right? Is that right?
Putting down the phone, he poured tea elegantly and looked to the north:
"I wish you happiness...... Be happy...... too."
Because of your happiness, you must live out my share as well......
Have to.
--- digression--- there is one more change, it may have to be in the evening, in the afternoon, in the morning, I have to go to learn to drive......