Let's talk about Liu Xiaohu
First of all, there are three suspected male protagonists in the current article, Xiaohu, Su, Brother Rong, first of all, I decided to shoot Brother Rong to death, excluding my personal opinion, just because Xiaohu was ready to accept a concubine, he was criticized by readers like this, Comrade Rong has a bunch of ...... So needless to say, the others are almost shot to death at this point. Then, Comrade Su is a good comrade, as for whether the author will make it to the position of the male protagonist, I will wait for the later article and will not comment. Here I mainly talk about Xiaohu friends.
Compared with the other two, Xiaohu children's shoes can only be regarded as a teenager, of course, it can be said that the ancients became an early adult, but when he first started with Saiyu, he could only be regarded as a precocious child, in my opinion, he liked Saiyu at that time, so he said to marry her, but it was a bit evil to say love. As for Comrade Saiyu, she even thinks that she just thinks that Xiaohu is not so stupid and pleasing to the eye no matter how she looks at it, and she is a general in the short man, and she thinks that she can realize her ideal (farming) in the future, so she will marry. So just from the time of view, these two feelings are not deep, the relationship is cultivated after marriage, I don't think it's any love; Shared hardship can be regarded as a bit of a revolutionary class feeling; live together and care for each other (plus Liu's mother), biased towards family affection; Carrying Liu's mother to study farming, like-minded, and a sense of confidant. The relationship is complicated, Xiaohu is dependent on Saiyu, which I think Saiyu can also feel, and Saiyu I think I also treat Xiaohu as a child when I don't know it, especially when Xiaohu comes back after the exam, I think Saiyu's psychological activity at that time is "my family has a child who has just grown up"...... (β_βb Khan) I have no doubt that Saiyu is important to Liu Xiaohu, and it is absolute, I think Saiyu should also be aware of this, otherwise she will be so helpful to Xiaohu if she is full. So I also decided to put the lid on the pot to help the little tiger children's shoes say a few words, and talk about why things have come to this point.
Xiaohu takes a concubine. Concubine (sorry I forgot my name), I think she's a super cannon fodder, so I won't comment here, and I don't think she actually has much weight in the issue between Xiaohu and Saiyu, at most it's a fuse. First of all, let me talk about why Saiyu made such a big fuss, in fact, from the very beginning, I felt that she didn't have much resentment, unlike many readers who wish that Liu Xiaohu would not have a good life. On the contrary, I decided that she made such a big fuss as if she was taking things on herself (if it weren't for the fact that there were so many ill-intentioned people behind her, such as Brother Rong, the black pot would definitely be Saiyu's if things developed normally), so that Xiaohu would not be embarrassed in the court, just like when she hit Xiaohu on the head with a stick, she said softly, "You have to thank me". To put it mildly, Saiyu stinked his reputation and made Liu Xiaohu a success. In fact, Saiyu should have put Xiaohu in his relatives, so it seems that many things are logical. The whole incident Saiyu is not sad, but I personally think that what she is sad about is not the question of who Xiaohu is in her heart, I decided that she should be sad and Xiaohu will never understand this matter (by the way, I think Xiaohu doesn't like that concubine at all, I think it's just to see my childhood playmate, miss the past, and then think that since I eat meat now, I can't let people drink porridge anyway, so I was remembered), this is the generation gap of the times, Just like the heroine herself said, there is no one in this world who understands her, and the only one is no longer there (Sue's ex-wife). It should have been Saiyu at the beginning to place expectations on Xiaohu, hoping that this young man who is like-minded with her in her career (farming) can one day understand her thoughts, and hopes that one day she can really fall in love with this little husband, but she didn't succeed in the end and gave up on herself, so she didn't try to persuade Xiaohu not to let the concubine enter the door and decided to leave. But this does not mean that Saiyu has no feelings for Xiaohu, but I feel that the feelings are deep, so she will make a big fuss before leaving, and will tell Xiaohu so much in the letter after leaving, I always feel that Saiyu subconsciously feels that he has fallen from a high place, and he can still live a prosperous life, but Xiaohu can't do it, and he may not be able to get up if he falls down (the court is like a execution ground). I don't know if the two will get back together in the future, but I am convinced that Saiyu will help when Xiaohu is in trouble, and Xiaohu doesn't have to think about reuniting before he becomes a truly responsible person and understands Saiyu (now I think that Saiyu treats him as a younger brother as a whole...... οΌ
Well, I instigated a lot of them, all talking about others, but I didn't talk about the little tiger shoes, which is a bit off topic. Actually, I just want to say that this kid didn't do anything that hurt the heavens and hurt the heavens, so don't drown him with spittle; He's just suitable to be a 'science madman' like Yuan Longping, so don't count on EQ...... (Genius and Fool...... I'm not going to say anything more)
As for him to Saiyu, I will quote a few extra sentences from another article, which is also a young couple (baby pro): the name is replaced by 'he' and 'she'
Your wife will leave you.
Fourteen-year-olds would wave his fist at this and threaten, "How dare she?" β
At the age of fifteen, he would say nonchalantly, "Whatever, it's not her I want to marry anyway." β
At the age of sixteen, he would say "yes" in a daze, and then run to ask her.
At the age of seventeen, he would look at each other with disdain and say, "She's right next to me." β
Eighteen-year-old didn't bother to listen to this, "There are so many rumors. He would frown and say, "Why are the people of Chang'an so idle?" β
Nineteen years old......
He looked at the clean floor of the Pavilion, the neat study, and the neat four treasures of the study room on the bright mahogany table, and couldn't believe his eyes:
She, she's gone?
No way!
Although it doesn't fit too much, when I saw Saiyu leave, I breathed a sigh of relief, and at the same time, I saw the thoughts that popped up in the little tiger boy's head. It is precisely because he has shared joys and sorrows and really values each other that he can't accept it, but the most unfortunate thing is that he doesn't know which part of this went wrong.
In fact, I still like Xiaohu (even I have high respect for all the native-born scientific and technological talents in ancient China, they are not easy~), what is the ending of the article, I hope he can be like the heroine, fall down and get up again, not disturbed by others, and work hard for his ideals. (Don't be angry with a child and eat all the vegetables that should be squeezed, I'm depressed)
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I sigh for Xiao Liu, he lost his father since he was a child, and he has a superb mother. lacks correct guidance, Chen Yan's mother in the Qing man is so wise, not everyone is so lucky. Of course, Liu Xiaohu's intelligence is indeed lower than Chen Yan, he is just an ordinary person. But it's not as unbearable as some of you say.
As for Song Yushui, he can only say that people are not for themselves, and the heavens and the earth will be destroyed. The author writes about the truest side of human nature. Xiao Liu was the last driftwood for her, the best choice, she didn't expect things to get to this extent.
If Xiaohua wasn't a crossing girl, the matter would have passed.
Human nature is complex and selfish
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In fact, Xiaohu reminds me of the umbrellas in "Crossing to Peace", their essence is "soft ears and easy to flicker", I don't think he likes Song Yulou very much, maybe this kind of liking is not as much as he imagined, but this kind of liking is enough for him to continue the scheme knowing that his wife is unwilling. Xiaohu told Song Yulou that when he was a child, Caohua helped him beat away the people who bullied him, and mentioned Caohua's fierce appearance to remind him of Yulou (but Yulou seemed to beat him, not protect him), indicating that Yulou was actually an object that sprouted during his ignorance period, maybe he was close to Caohua in the early days, and there was also an element of empathy in it. First love is special to each of us, and even in modern monogamy, some people (men and women) will have a little bit of an affair with their first love years later. Song Yulou fished him as a long-term meal ticket, otherwise how could so many women who were guests in the curtain go to the silt field to make themselves so bad, her drama is very suitable for Xiaohu: let him see his down-and-out appearance first, and let Xiaohu have moral sympathy while recalling the good life in the past, and then make a very ambitious and independent appearance, so that Xiaohu will be sympathetic to her during the period of help, from sympathy to respect to pity, when this sympathy is transformed into "macho sense of salvation", Xiaohu's kind of "I am strong, She can only live by me", and the self-aggrandizement put Yulou into his own domain, and at this time, he naturally wanted to get and protect this woman.
What is the grass flower doing at this time? Like most self-made couples, the bad wife is still thinking about the family, because her husband and she worked together to get the current life, and they want to further make the family better through hard work, so not only the farmland, but also Xiaohu's things in officialdom, such as how to save money and make a decent banquet to entertain colleagues, so that Xiaohu is more decent.
Xiaohu is indeed very naΓ―ve in many things, you can say that Caohua takes care of him as a younger brother and son, but he is very treacherous in dealing with the issue of Yulou and Caohua about the status of wives and concubines, and he shows the logical thinking ability and action ability of a mature adult cheating man without a teacher: hide it first (you say, if you don't have any other thoughts about Yulou at first, then why can't you tell Caohua?) It's easier for a woman to help a woman, and it's better to reduce rumors, my man met an old neighbor, and wanted to help out, isn't it very appropriate for his wife to come forward), and then naturally felt that "she can't live without me", and at the same time, because of the origin of the jade building (the original family leader and the later ** identity), he can experience a different style from the grass and flowers here in the jade building (everyone's lady? and gentle temptation), coupled with social factors, naturally want to go back, and then start planning, including asking the friends of the grass and flowers to explore the wind and use the greenhouse to please the grass and flowers.
This process can be said to be the standard configuration of the average cheating man, don't look at Liu Xiaohu is very stupid politically, in the realization of "the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside", it is quite sophisticated, if he does not meet the grass flower, the problem will definitely be solved in accordance with his wishes (well, Mrs. Shen is at most to beat the Yulou out, and then Xiaohu will raise an outer room outside, and he will not get divorced).
What if the grass flower was not a crossing woman, but according to the customs of the time? (Please consider the character of the grass flower: kind, gentle, not good at intrigue, straightforward and yearning for a simple and harmonious life)
1, she didn't agree with the entrance of the Yulou, but Liu's mother pressed it down with the big hat of the female ring, Liu Xiaohu roared and said that the grass flower was embarrassing him, and in the end it was very stiff, the Yulou did not enter for the time being, and Xiaohu did not return at night.
2, Caohua couldn't withstand the pressure and let Yulou enter. The result is: It won't take long for Yulou, who is good at inviting pets in the back house, to spread rumors through the innocent flow of Qiong Yao's little three-wind little white rabbit to make Xiaohu think that Caohua is a vicious woman, disgusted with this wife, and maybe because of some conspiracy of Yulou, Caohua will be put on a hat similar to adultery or something like that. The queen mother's summons may be a shield, but it is not a gold medal to avoid death, for ancient women (especially Caohua has no children now), the status of the wife is a guarantee, but more importantly, the husband's favor, in this regard, Caohua has no advantage, not to mention that the vicious Li Rong, who is waiting for the opportunity outside, will have a steady stream of tricks, even if Caohua is willing to share a husband with others, he can't allow Caohua to continue to dedicate light and heat to the Liu family.
In the face of Xiaohu, whose emotional balance has tilted, if Caohua wants to win this husband, she must make essential corrections to her character, transform a woman who has become a wife and can still retain her pure heart into an empty and painful fighter in the back house, use means emotionally, and even be prepared to get blood on her hands if necessary, only in this way can she be invincible in the struggle with the concubine.
Compared with the other two male partners in this article, Xiaohu actually has a natural advantage: the family structure is relatively simple, and she is tolerant enough to grass and flowers (intolerant of what their family eats) to let her show up and go farming, and at the same time, the mother and son of the Liu family are not bad in nature, they have a common language and the feelings of childhood sweethearts, as well as the kindness of saving the heroine to the fool's husband, and so on.
But his naivety and childlike selfishness have become the most fatal weakness under Li Rong's watchful eye.
It can be said that Xiaohu's personality is still in the stage of "self" from a psychological point of view, just like a child, when I want to eat when I am hungry, I will cry, and I will cry all the time if I don't give it to me, I want to do what I want, you should all satisfy me. Rather than self-control and regulation under social constraints. Xiaohu's essence is good, but his personality is immature, judging from a series of things such as cheating his mother-in-law in the imperial examination to taking concubines, I don't think he is very vicious or morally corrupt, but it can be seen that he is very selfish. This kind of selfishness is not moral selfishness, but the kind of selfishness that is completely childlike in psychological terms, and does not correspond to the characteristics of his environment and age.
Not to mention that it was normal for ancient men to have three wives and four concubines, he couldn't think that Caohua would leave him. Many modern men are bold and cheating, and they also have an absolute narcissistic psychology, and they feel that their wives can't leave him no matter what.
In fact, if there were no such things, Master Su and Li Rong would not be good people compared to Liu Xiaohu, but Xiaohu would still have to pay the price for his actions in the end.
Let's say two different opinions:
1. Xiaohu is not a technical talent. He is just very interested in a certain field, but his ability is still far from enough, and if Caohua is Yuan Longping, he can only be regarded as a secondary school student who is a minor in agricultural improvement.
He is indeed very interested in agriculture because of genetics, but even his father back then, he did not have the improvement level assisted by grass and flowers, not to mention that Xiaohu was just interested, his father did not guide him for a long time by his side, and later spent a lot of time to deal with the imperial examination, his actual ability in farming, maybe not as good as Wang Anshi! At least Wang Anshi was quite humble after he retired.
Xiaohu may not have the opportunity to study, it can be seen that the emperor is now burning his eyebrows, very anxious for quick success, he is a person who has not even been admitted to Xiucai can get the same Jinshi background, such a big pie is not free, the more people give you, the deeper the resentment towards you when you can't reciprocate.
2, Song Yulou didn't expect the problem to be so big, it was basically in her plan. Because Li Rong gave her the opportunity to disguise herself as a virgin, the initial condition was to drive Caohua out, in this matter, the mother and son of the Liu family were kept in the dark (Caohua would make a big divorce for concubines), Li Rong knew, and Song Yulou also knew. Moreover, she not only knew, but also breached the contract in the face of the vicious Li Rong, on the one hand, she deceived the old lady's land deed, and on the other hand, she deliberately made it difficult for the grass and flowers, so that Li Rong could not find the grass and flowers. Her goal was to kill them all. Song Yulou is the most typical junior who has been on the spot cheaply for thousands of years. Liu Xiaohu is not the last driftwood for her, and Li Rong's appearance is her best chance. An official who can be played with by her is nothing, the important thing is that with Li Rong's help, she can mend her ** and become an official wife. Looking at her performance, I can't say that she is a person who is not killed for herself, if Song Yulou travels to modern times, she will not honestly work to make money, because there are thousands of Song Yulou in modern times, who are unwilling to work hard in a down-to-earth manner, so they are worried about seducing other people's husbands, occupying other people's houses and beating other people's babies.
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If Xiaohu is only a technician, diligent and hardworking, and has the courage to accept new ideas and attempts (of course, they all come from Huahua), but it is not a point or two that the official obviously has less emotional intelligence, and he made countless enemies for himself at the beginning of the meeting, and later was favored by the official family but did not know how to raise Taoguang and was obscure, but also made a scandal of having no way to govern the family, divorced his wife and married a concubine (actually a chicken), and caused the impeachment of the imperial history......
As for Huahua's departure, I personally think it is indeed the best choice: for people like Xiaohu who can't understand Huahua's thoughts, no matter how Huahua strives for her efforts and how she uses means to redeem herself, Xiaohu is resistant, but she will compensate more emotionally and financially for Poyu who can't get started, and Poyu will become a cinnabar mole in his heart......
If you really like Xiaohu to that point, you really use your whole body to fight for favor with the broken building, and in the long run, Huahua's mind can't be put on the career she likes, and she has to keep fighting with the little three who are lying next to her husband, not to mention physical and mental exhaustion, the problem is that this kind of fight is for Xiaohu who has an outside heart to show that everyone knows that the result is biased towards breaking the building......
Xiaohu said to Polou that he was afraid of Huahua, also because Huahua has always been the object of his support and dependence, even if he skipped the exam, he helped him deceive his family, so he felt that his proposal would not be opposed, and he also made the most unforgivable mistake that Xiaosan was a cowardly woman who was helpless and only he would bless her, and his wife was indeed an invincible King Kong woman who would not be sad and could face it strongly, even if he knew in advance that there was a conspiracy to investigate the true situation of the broken building, but as Polou said to Li Er, Even if Xiaohu said it, he wouldn't believe it, if Huahua told Xiaohu, he would think that Huahua was slandering the broken building, so even if Huahua fought and the final injury would only be herself, and in the end, she couldn't stop the broken building from entering......
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Author's summary:
I wrote this character with my heart.,It's written as the first male protagonist.,Thank you for analyzing his two sides.,He's actually very pitiful.,But as the saying goes,Poor people must have something to hate.,And because it's so complicated.,You can call it a human.γ
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