Chapter 153: Father's Advice

"It was my brother who used to wear open crotch pants to help me, so I barely managed to get a house of about ten square meters and live in. At the beginning, they confiscated our rent. Song Yanqing said.

"We don't have our own house, so we keep moving for various reasons. Over the years, there have been more than a dozen moves, not twenty times. Song Yanqing said, "We have also completely cut off contact with the family you are married." ”

"Your mother has always wanted you to marry." Song Yanqing said, "Although, over the years, there have been too many changes, and I don't know what people have become now, in short, it must be much better than our family's conditions." ”

"Your mother has worked hard all these years, on the one hand, to support the family, and on the other hand, she always wants to save a dowry for you. She said that when you get married, you don't have a dime, so that people can laugh at you and look down on you. Song Yanqing said, "It's just that this time, my dowry money is probably completely gone." It's all for the kid lying inside. ”

Song Shanmei's throat choked, and she only felt extremely sour. She couldn't speak, she only choked up and screamed, "Dad......"

Song Yanqing patted her hand and said, "It's okay, it's nothing if you have more money or less, as long as the kid inside is fine." ”

"Also, in order to make your life good in the future, no matter how hard it is, even if you smash the pot and sell iron, your mother said that she wants you to go to college." Song Yanqing said, "She said, the family is poor, she can't give you anything, and it will drag you down." However, no one can snatch your academic qualifications. ”

"Your future happiness, your life, is up to you to create." Song Yanqing said, "We are beautiful and still work hard." Never let my parents down. ”

"Originally, your mother was looking forward to it, and when you came out of college, you would be able to help the family. But you said that you wanted to go to graduate school, and your mother agreed without saying a word. Song Yanqing said, "She said that it is nothing for her to work hard, as long as the child can become a talent, her face will also shine." ”

Song Shanmei lowered her head, cried profusely, and said, "Dad, I don't want to take the graduate school entrance examination...... I'd better come out and work......"

Song Yanqing glared at her, patted her on the shoulder, and said, "Silly boy, I've stepped over, are you still afraid of this step?" ”

"Besides, you all took out loans to go to school, and the pressure at home is not so great." Song Yanqing said, "You can study with peace of mind, and in the future, you will definitely be able to change your fate, with a high education, a good job, and a good marriage." ”

"In the past, your mother always thought that she couldn't let you be looked down upon by her husband's family, and always thought that she could be the right person. Therefore, I am very attentive to your learning. ”

"We're beautiful, we've always been good. Very good. Not only is she beautiful, she has a good personality, but she also learns well. When I was in high school, there were those hairy boys who wanted to chase them. Song Yanqing said with a smile, "Your mother is afraid that you will be distracted, and in order to let you remember that you still have a baby parent, she went to buy you a pair of rings, saying that she couldn't return the gift to others at the beginning, and she will see the boy in the future, so let you give him the ring." ”

"I also took out the necklace that people gave me before, and wore a ring for you to wear around your neck." Song Yanqing said, "I know, you young people are quite unwilling, always thinking about free love or something." ”

"Actually, your mother is not so old-fashioned, she just, thinking, promises to others, and it has to be fulfilled. Even if you want to break the contract, you have to find someone and make it clear in person. ”

"Also, that family is really good, your mother is just worried about it. I think that boy, by now, should have grown very tall, and under the influence of such parents, he must be a good child. ”

"Also, at that time, she was afraid that your falling in love with a male classmate would affect your studies, so she used this to restrain you."

"But now, it seems, I can't restrain you. You've secretly fallen in love with someone, and you haven't even told your parents. Song Yanqing said, "Children, people in love, are the most likely to be stupid." ”

"This is called Pei Shengyang, my father didn't have much contact with him, but his first impression of him was still good. It shouldn't be any worse. Dad believes in your vision. ”

"It's just that you still need to think about it, is this man what you want, and what you want in the future?"

"No one is perfect. In everyone, there will be some shortcomings, which is understandable. You have to think about it, can you accept the whole of the other person, whether it is good or bad? ”

"If you can fully accept and accept the whole of this person, then, Dad tells you, you can try to have a relationship with him, and even, get married."

"It's just that girls are outside, and they are always the weaker ones, and they are easy to get hurt. Dad hopes that if you fall in love, just talk about it, correct your mentality, consider the gains and losses, don't be stupid, and completely put yourself in it. You know? Song Yanqing asked.