Chapter 476: Being a Family
The princess of the county couldn't hold it anymore at this time, she had already made the old princess's heart, if she was robbed of the housekeeper's rights again, then how would she gain a foothold in this mansion in the future?
"Mother, isn't that okay? Let's not talk about the nephews and daughters-in-law who are young and can't suppress the people in the house, the daughter-in-law is the princess of the county, and she is the rightful housewife. If the daughter-in-law goes to hide and let the younger generation be the family, then ...... What do outsiders think of our palace? ”
The county lord of Huilan also knows that it is not okay not to speak at this time, if her mother can't be a family, how can she gain a foothold in this family in the future?
"Grandmother and granddaughter have never heard of this rule in any family. If your grandmother is in charge of the house yourself, naturally no one dares to say anything, but you are the third mother...... Grandmother, my mother is still there, she is the princess of the county appointed by the emperor, how can she hand over the palace to others? Don't you pay the most attention to the rules in your daily life? ”
When the princess heard this, she glanced at King Zhuang and said lightly: "It seems that you have all forgotten one thing." This is not the Zhuangjun Palace, this is the Prince's Mansion! What are your county palaces and where are they? I didn't see it. As long as I'm not dead, this is Prince Zhuang's Mansion. If I die...... If you don't have your turn to live in this house, it's not clear for sure. This prince's mansion is run by me and the eldest grandson and daughter-in-law of the old prince, who dares to say half a word in this capital? ”
The princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan were both stunned, and they wanted to say something, but they had no words to refute the old princess.
At that time, the king of Zhuang County was demoted, and according to the rules, he had to move out of the mansion, and it was in line with the regulations to build the county king's mansion. It's just that because the old princess is still alive, the queen mother and the emperor are particularly gracious, and still let the old princess and her children and grandchildren live in the original prince's mansion.
This is also the reason why Jiang and Xuan Shao also live here, because this is not the palace of Zhuang County.
King Zhuang Jun was a little embarrassed on his face, he didn't want to hear people mention the old things back then, which made him very unpleasant. It's just that he didn't dare to say the old princess's temper, so he only looked at the princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan with cold eyes: "What the mother says is what it is, where is the beak on your turn?" If any of you are not satisfied. Just move out on your own! ”
Princess Zhuang Jun looked at King Zhuang Jun, and was so frightened that she lowered her head and didn't dare to make a sound.
Although the county lord of Whelan was extremely dissatisfied in his heart, there was no place for him to speak here. She couldn't help but stare at Xuan'an, who was wandering into the world. blames himself for his useless brother for not being angry, if he earns some anger, isn't talking more effective than anyone else?
Xuan An felt Hui Lan's gaze shooting towards him, and carefully moved to the side before secretly looking at her, and when he saw the anger in her eyes, he thought about it. I think she might blame herself for not helping her talk to her mother.
He looked at the old princess, then at Sanniang, and said to Huilan with some confusion: "Sister, what does it matter who is in charge?" Can we still have less food and clothing? Forget it, it's good for my sister-in-law to be in charge, and my mother is just resting. ”
The main lungs of Huilan County were about to be blown up, and he stared at him for a while and couldn't speak.
The old princess glanced at Xuan An and shook her head with a sigh. He waved his hand and said, "Okay, I'm tired, you all stand down." An'er was also grounded for a month. It should be a punishment for you with a mouthful of nonsense! ”
Xuan'an's grounding is naturally not a good thing for him, but compared to the indefinite grounding of his mother and sister, he is good, so although he has a bitter face, he doesn't say anything.
King Zhuang Jun took the lead and said: "Then mother, you have a good rest, and my son has retreated." With that, he left.
"Come on, go and clean up the Buddha hall and bring the princess of the county over." The old princess summoned the grandmother beside her and commanded.
Xuan'an also kowtowed and retreated, and the princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan were also respectfully invited out.
"Sanniang, you stay. I have something to tell you. The old princess stopped Sanniang, who also wanted to retire.
"Grandmother, what do you command?" Sanniang said respectfully.
The old princess patted the seat next to her: "Come, come and sit." You're far away, and grandmother is tired of talking. ”
Sanniang obediently sat down beside the old princess.
The old princess closed her eyes for a moment, as if she was thinking about what to say. Sanniang waited quietly, and the few maids left to serve in the house also held their breath. Keep your head down.
After a long time, the old princess finally said with some fatigue: "I'm really old." After only a few moments, I felt tired and panicked,"
Sanniang saw that the old princess did not open her eyes, thinking that if she also had this kind of children and grandchildren, she was afraid that she would be even more depressed than the old princess.
"Grandmother, you are also an ordinary person, and you will naturally be tired after worrying."
The old princess opened her eyes and looked at Sanniang and smiled: "I hope that in the future, you will take care of the house, and you will not make your grandmother so tired." ”
Sanniang smiled and said, "Didn't grandmother just say that she wanted to teach me by hand?" Why do you regret it now? So you're blinded to me. ”
The old princess couldn't help laughing when she heard this, and the tiredness on her face was a little less: "You kid, you deliberately misinterpret my words, you are also naughty." After that, he couldn't help sighing, "Today, it was my grandmother who made you feel wronged." Fortunately, you are a generous person. ”
Sanniang shook her head: "Where are there any grievances that are not wronged, when a family lives together, it is inevitable that some situations will occur, and even our upper and lower teeth will inevitably have these bumps." Speaking of which, one person takes a step back, and it is over. ”
The old princess couldn't help but nod when she heard this: "Grandmother really didn't misunderstand you." It's easy to say that this is a housewife, but it's not easy to do. Housekeeper, it's just to pass on the instructions, naturally there are those stewards and servants who are busy, where do you really need to be the master mother? We raise so many people in the house, and we don't eat dry food. The real difficulty is actually tolerance. As you said, this big family will inevitably have some bumps, if the head of the house is narrow-minded, then the family will be difficult to integrate, and the family will not be peaceful. If you are generous-hearted, then the family can be united in one place, and the family can last for a long time and will not be separated. ”
Seeing that the old princess finished speaking, she looked at herself meaningfully, Sanniang hurriedly said: "What grandmother said is that Sanniang wrote it down, thank you grandmother for mentioning it." ”
The old princess nodded, her face loving: "This is also the reason why I want you to be the family." The second daughter-in-law, her temperament, is just the housewife of a small family, but it is really inappropriate to be the housewife of such a big house. I can teach her anything else, but this two words are the result of years of self-cultivation. It's not like I taught her that she could learn it. This is also why the wealthy families must marry the daughters of the families when they marry their sons-in-law, not for the rich dowry, but because only those families will spend time and energy to cultivate their daughters. What they learn from an early age is how to be a good family. ”
Sanniang listened carefully and nodded in agreement.
The old princess sighed with a wry smile: "Although I said so, I raised a granddaughter like Whelan. This is also because I pay too little attention to her on weekdays, and let her mother lead her to a detour. Now that I think about it, I have to take care of it, and I'm afraid that I can't screw this temperament. ”
Sanniang thought for a while and said, "I heard that the grandmothers who came out of the palace have their own set of methods for disciplining people. It's just that sometimes they are afraid of offending the Lord's house. Don't dare to show it. But I think that if the child is not disciplined well, it will hurt her, after all, even if she suffers some hardships, it is better than marrying in such a daze, and being dragged down by this temperament for a lifetime, maybe it will harm her children and grandchildren. ”
The old princess couldn't help nodding: "You're right, what are you afraid of at this time?" There is a lesson from the past of the Fang family, who would dare to say that it is not a good thing to be strict with the elders? Tomorrow you will enter the palace with me. Go to the Queen Mother to ask for a nurturing grandmother. Huilan's temperament, no matter how strict the family discipline is, if he marries in the future, he may in turn affect the royal family. ”
Sanniang thought. Your old man's idea is really right, a woman with the kind of temperament of the county lord of Whelan County, it is better to be locked up at home and learn the rules from the strict grandmother. Don't let it out and harm people.
"Alright, you can go back to the courtyard and rest first. I will have to have people collect the account books of the palace, as well as those stewards, I will also knock them through first, and I will hand them over to you when I return from the palace tomorrow. ”
Sanniang got up and saluted and retired.
The old princess thought for a while and said, "Shao'er...... Tell me about it. Grandmother doesn't really want to wronged you, he ......"
Sanniang immediately said: "Grandmother, don't worry, Xianggong is not a person who doesn't understand things, he will understand your hard work." ”
The old princess was relieved: "That's good." That's good. There you go. ”
Sanniang then withdrew.
It's just that as soon as she got out of the old princess's courtyard, her brows furrowed.
Chamberlain? She really doesn't want to be the home of Prince Zhuang's mansion. If it was just her and Xuan Shao's home, she would naturally be willing, and naturally she didn't want to give it to others, but she had the best family of King Zhuangjun. Where is this home so good?
But the old princess was like that, she definitely didn't want to refuse, so she didn't bother to refuse.
In the evening, when Xuan Shao came back, Sanniang told what happened today.
Xuan Shao looked at Sanniang, thought for a while, and said, "If you don't want to be this family, then it's not right, I'll go and tell my grandmother." ”
Sanniang shook her head: "It's just such a little thing, the palace still has a large group of stewards, and I don't really need to do anything." Besides, I don't deserve it, do I want my grandmother to worry about this when she is old? ”
Xuan Shao stroked Sanniang's face: "I just think it...... I've wronged you. ”
Sanniang was happy when she heard this, threw herself into Xuan Shao's arms, rubbed it, and said in a loud voice: "It's good that you know, but you have to treat others well in the future." ”
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Thanks to the princess of the county, she can't hold it back anymore at this time, she has already made the old princess's heart, if she is robbed of the housekeeper's rights again, then how will she gain a foothold in this mansion in the future?
"Mother, isn't that okay? Let's not talk about the nephews and daughters-in-law who are young and can't suppress the people in the house, the daughter-in-law is the princess of the county, and she is the rightful housewife. If the daughter-in-law goes to hide and let the younger generation be the family, then ...... What do outsiders think of our palace? ”
The county lord of Huilan also knows that it is not okay not to speak at this time, if her mother can't be a family, how can she gain a foothold in this family in the future?
"Grandmother and granddaughter have never heard of this rule in any family. If your grandmother is in charge of the house yourself, naturally no one dares to say anything, but you are the third mother...... Grandmother, my mother is still there, she is the princess of the county appointed by the emperor, how can she hand over the palace to others? Don't you pay the most attention to the rules in your daily life? ”
When the princess heard this, she glanced at King Zhuang and said lightly: "It seems that you have all forgotten one thing." This is not the Zhuangjun Palace, this is the Prince's Mansion! What are your county palaces and where are they? I didn't see it. As long as I'm not dead, this is Prince Zhuang's Mansion. If I die...... If you don't have your turn to live in this house, it's not clear for sure. This Prince's Palace. I and the eldest grandson and daughter-in-law of the old prince will be in charge, who in this capital dares to say half a word? ”
The princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan were both stunned, and they wanted to say something, but they had no words to refute the old princess.
In that year, the king of Zhuang Jun was demoted. According to the rules, it is necessary to move out of the mansion, and it is in accordance with the regulations to build a county palace. It's just that because the old princess is still alive, the queen mother and the emperor are particularly gracious, and still let the old princess and her children and grandchildren live in the original prince's mansion.
This is also the reason why Jiang and Xuan Shao also live here, because this is not the palace of Zhuang County.
King Zhuang Jun was a little embarrassed on his face, he didn't want to hear people mention the old things back then, which made him very unpleasant. It's just that he didn't dare to have the old princess's temper. Only looked at the princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan with cold eyes: "What the mother says is what it is, where is the turn of your beak?" If any of you are not satisfied, just move out on your own! ”
Princess Zhuang Jun looked at King Zhuang Jun, and was so frightened that she lowered her head and didn't dare to make a sound.
Although the county lord of Whelan was extremely dissatisfied in his heart, there was no place for him to speak here. She couldn't help but stare at Xuan'an, who was wandering outside the world, blaming her useless brother for not being angry, if he earned some anger. Isn't talking better than anyone else?
Xuan An felt Hui Lan's gaze shoot towards him, and carefully moved to the side before secretly looking at her. When I saw the anger in her eyes, I thought about it and thought that she might blame herself for not helping her talk to her mother.
He looked at the old princess, then at Sanniang, and said to Huilan with some confusion: "Sister, what does it matter who is in charge?" Can we still have less food and clothing? Forget it, it's good for my sister-in-law to be in charge, and my mother is just resting. ”
The main lungs of Huilan County were about to be blown up, and he stared at him for a while and couldn't speak.
The old princess glanced at Xuan An and shook her head with a sigh. He waved his hand and said, "Okay, I'm tired, you all stand down." An'er is also grounded for a month, and it should be punished for you with nonsense! ”
Xuan'an's grounding is naturally not a good thing for him, but compared to the indefinite grounding of his mother and sister. He was considered good, so although he had a bitter face, he didn't say anything more.
King Zhuang Jun took the lead and said: "Then mother, you have a good rest, and my son has retreated." With that, he left.
"Come on, go and clean up the Buddha hall and bring the princess of the county over." The old princess summoned the grandmother beside her and commanded.
Xuan'an also kowtowed and retreated, and the princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan were also respectfully invited out.
"Sanniang, you stay, I still have something to explain to you." The old princess stopped Sanniang, who also wanted to retire.
"Grandmother, what do you command?" Sanniang said respectfully.
The old princess patted the seat next to her: "Come, come and sit." You're far away, and grandmother is tired of talking. ”
Sanniang obediently sat down beside the old princess.
The old princess closed her eyes for a moment, as if she was thinking about what to say. Sanniang waited quietly, and the few maids left to serve in the house also held their breath and lowered their heads.
After a long time, the old princess finally said with some fatigue: "I'm really old." After only a few moments, I felt tired and panicked,"
Sanniang saw that the old princess did not open her eyes, thinking that if she also had this kind of children and grandchildren, she was afraid that she would be even more depressed than the old princess.
"Grandmother, you are also an ordinary person, and you will naturally be tired after worrying."
The old princess opened her eyes and looked at Sanniang and smiled: "I hope that in the future, you will take care of the house, and you will not make your grandmother so tired." ”
Sanniang smiled and said, "Didn't grandmother just say that she wanted to teach me by hand?" Why do you regret it now? So you're blinded to me. ”
The old princess couldn't help laughing when she heard this, and the tiredness on her face was a little less: "You kid, you deliberately misinterpret my words, you are also naughty." After that, he couldn't help sighing, "Today, it was my grandmother who made you feel wronged." Fortunately, you are a generous person. ”
Sanniang shook her head: "Where are there any grievances that are not wronged, when a family lives together, it is inevitable that some situations will occur, and even our upper and lower teeth will inevitably have these bumps." Speaking of which, one person takes a step back, and it is over. ”
The old princess couldn't help but nod when she heard this: "Grandmother really didn't misunderstand you." It's easy to say that this is a housewife, but it's not easy to do. Housekeeper, it's just to pass on the instructions, naturally there are those stewards and servants who are busy, where do you really need to be the master mother? We raise so many people in the house, and we don't eat dry food. Really hard place. Actually, it's still tolerant. As you said, people in this big family will inevitably have some bumps, and if the head of the family is narrow-minded, then it will be difficult for the family to integrate. There is no peace in the house. If you are generous-hearted, then the family can be united in one place, and the family can last for a long time and will not be separated. ”
Seeing that the old princess finished speaking, she looked at herself meaningfully, and Sanniang hurriedly said: "What grandmother said is that Sanniang wrote it down." Thank you grandmother for the point. ”
The old princess nodded, her face loving: "This is also the reason why I want you to be the family." The second daughter-in-law, her temperament, is just the housewife of a small family, but it is really inappropriate to be the housewife of such a big house. I can teach her anything else, but this two words of qi are the result of years of self-cultivation, and she can learn it if I teach her. This is also why the wealthy families must marry the daughters of the family when they marry their sons-in-law, not for those rich dowries. It's because only those families will spend time and energy to train their daughters well, and what they learn from childhood is how to be a good family. ”
Sanniang listened carefully and nodded in agreement.
The old princess sighed with a wry smile: "I said so. But he raised a granddaughter like Whelan. This is also because I pay too little attention to her on weekdays, and let her mother lead her to a detour. Now that I think about it, I have to take care of it, and I'm afraid that I can't screw this temperament. ”
Sanniang thought for a while and said, "I heard that the grandmothers who came out of the palace have their own set of methods for disciplining people. It's just that sometimes they are afraid of offending the Lord's family, so they don't dare to show it. But I think that if the child is not disciplined well, it will hurt her, after all, even if she suffers some hardships, it is better to be bitter for a while, than to marry in such a daze and be dragged down by this temperament for a lifetime. Maybe it will harm your children and grandchildren. ”
The old princess couldn't help nodding: "You're right, what are you afraid of at this time?" There is a lesson from the past of the Fang family, who would dare to say that it is not a good thing to be strict with the elders? Tomorrow, you will enter the palace with me and go to the Queen Mother to ask for a nurturing grandmother. Huilan's temperament, no matter how strict the family discipline is, if he marries in the future, he may in turn affect the royal family. ”
Sanniang thought. Your old man's idea is really right, a woman with the kind of temperament of the county lord of Whelan County, it is better to be locked up at home and learn the rules from the strict grandmother. Don't let it out and harm people.
"Alright, you can go back to the courtyard and rest first. I will have to have people collect the account books of the palace, as well as those stewards, I will also knock them through first, and I will hand them over to you when I return from the palace tomorrow. ”
Sanniang got up and saluted and retired.
The old princess thought for a while and said, "Shao'er...... Tell me about it. Grandmother doesn't really want to wronged you, he ......"
Sanniang immediately said: "Grandmother, don't worry, Xianggong is not a person who doesn't understand things, he will understand your hard work." ”
The old princess was relieved: "That's good, that's good." There you go. ”
Sanniang then withdrew.
It's just that as soon as she got out of the old princess's courtyard, her brows furrowed.
Chamberlain? She really doesn't want to be the home of Prince Zhuang's mansion. If it was just her and Xuan Shao's home, she would naturally be willing, and naturally she wouldn't want to hand it over to others, but with the best family of King Zhuang Jun, where is this family so good?
But the old princess was like that, she definitely didn't want to refuse, so she didn't bother to refuse.
In the evening, when Xuan Shao came back, Sanniang told what happened today.
Xuan Shao looked at Sanniang, thought for a while, and said, "If you don't want to be this family, then it's not right, I'll go and tell my grandmother." ”
Sanniang shook her head: "It's just such a little thing, the palace still has a large group of stewards, and I don't really need to do anything." Besides, I don't deserve it, do I want my grandmother to worry about this when she is old? ”
Xuan Shao stroked Sanniang's face: "I just think it...... I've wronged you. ”
Sanniang was happy when she heard this, threw herself into Xuan Shao's arms, rubbed it, and deliberately said in a voice: "It's good that you know Xianggong, but you have to treat others well in the future." ”
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Thanks to the princess of the county, she can't hold it back anymore at this time, she has already made the old princess's heart, if she is robbed of the housekeeper's rights again, then how will she gain a foothold in this mansion in the future?
"Mother, isn't that okay? Let's not talk about the nephews and daughters-in-law who are young and can't suppress the people in the house, the daughter-in-law is the princess of the county, and she is the rightful housewife. If the daughter-in-law goes to hide and let the younger generation be the family, then ...... What do outsiders think of our palace? ”
The county lord of Whelan also knows. If her mother can't be a housekeeper, how can she gain a foothold in this family in the future?
"Grandmother and granddaughter have never heard of this rule in any family. If it's a grandmother, you're in charge. Naturally, no one dares to have a second word, but you Sanniang is ...... Grandmother, my mother is still there, she is the princess of the county appointed by the emperor, how can she hand over the palace to others? Don't you pay the most attention to the rules in your daily life? ”
When the princess heard this, she glanced at King Zhuang and said lightly: "It seems that you have all forgotten one thing." This is not the Zhuangjun Palace, this is the Prince's Mansion! What county palace of yours. Where is it? I didn't see it. As long as I'm not dead, this is Prince Zhuang's Mansion. If I die...... If you don't have your turn to live in this house, it's not clear for sure. This prince's mansion is run by me and the eldest grandson and daughter-in-law of the old prince, who dares to say half a word in this capital? ”
The princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan were both stunned, and they wanted to say something, but they had no words to refute the old princess.
At that time, the king of Zhuang Jun was demoted, and according to the rules, he had to move out of the house. In addition, the construction of a county palace is in line with the regulations. It's just that because the old princess is still alive, the queen mother and the emperor are particularly gracious, and still let the old princess and her children and grandchildren live in the original prince's mansion.
This is also the reason why Jiang and Xuan Shao also live here. Because this is not the palace of Zhuangjun Wang.
King Zhuang Jun was a little embarrassed on his face, he didn't want to hear people mention the old things back then, which made him very unpleasant. It's just that he didn't dare to say the old princess's temper, so he only looked at the princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan with cold eyes: "What the mother says is what it is, where is the beak on your turn?" If any of you are not satisfied, just move out on your own! ”
Princess Zhuang Jun looked at King Zhuang Jun, and was so frightened that she lowered her head and didn't dare to make a sound.
Although the county lord of Whelan was extremely dissatisfied in his heart, there was no place for him to speak here. She couldn't help but stare at Xuan'an, who was outside the world, blaming her useless brother for not being angry. If he earns some energy, won't he be more effective than anyone else?
Xuan An felt Hui Lan's gaze shooting towards him, and carefully moved to the side before secretly looking at her, and when he saw the anger in her eyes, he thought about it. I think she might blame herself for not helping her talk to her mother.
He looked at the old princess, then at Sanniang, and said to Huilan with some confusion: "Sister, what does it matter who is in charge?" Can we still have less food and clothing? Forget it, it's good for my sister-in-law to be in charge, and my mother is just resting. ”
The main lungs of Huilan County were about to be blown up, and he stared at him for a while and couldn't speak.
The old princess glanced at Xuan'an, shook her head with a sigh, waved her hand and said, "Okay, I'm tired, you all retreat." An'er is also grounded for a month, and it should be punished for you with nonsense! ”
Xuan'an's grounding is naturally not a good thing for him, but compared to the indefinite grounding of his mother and sister, he is good, so although he has a bitter face, he doesn't say anything.
King Zhuang Jun took the lead and said: "Then mother, you have a good rest, and my son has retreated." With that, he left.
"Come on, go and clean up the Buddha hall and bring the princess of the county over." The old princess summoned the grandmother beside her and commanded.
Xuan'an also kowtowed and retreated, and the princess of the county and the county lord of Huilan were also respectfully invited out.
"Sanniang, you stay, I still have something to explain to you." The old princess stopped Sanniang, who also wanted to retire.
"Grandmother, what do you command?" Sanniang said respectfully.
The old princess patted the seat next to her: "Come, come and sit." You're far away, and grandmother is tired of talking. ”
Sanniang obediently sat down beside the old princess.
The old princess closed her eyes for a moment, as if she was thinking about what to say. Sanniang waited quietly, and the few maids left to serve in the house also held their breath and lowered their heads.
After a long time, the old princess finally said with some fatigue: "I'm really old." After only a few moments, I felt tired and panicked,"
Sanniang saw that the old princess did not open her eyes, thinking that if she also had this kind of children and grandchildren, she was afraid that she would be even more depressed than the old princess.
"Grandmother, you are also an ordinary person, and you will naturally be tired after worrying."
The old princess opened her eyes and looked at Sanniang and smiled: "I hope that in the future, you will take care of the house, and you will not make your grandmother so tired." ”
Sanniang smiled and said, "Didn't grandmother just say that she wanted to teach me by hand?" Why do you regret it now? So you're blinded to me. ”
The old princess couldn't help laughing when she heard this, and the tiredness on her face was a little less: "You kid, you deliberately misinterpret my words, you are also naughty." After that, he couldn't help but sigh, "Today." It's your grandmother who has wronged you. Fortunately, you are a generous person. ”
Sanniang shook her head: "Where are there any grievances that are not wronged, when a family lives together, it is inevitable that some situations will occur, and even our upper and lower teeth will inevitably have these bumps." Let's talk about it. One person takes a step back, and it's over. ”
The old princess couldn't help but nod when she heard this: "Grandmother really didn't misunderstand you." It's easy to say that this is a housewife, but it's not easy to do. Housekeeper, it's just to pass on the instructions, naturally there are those stewards and servants who are busy, where do you really need to be the master mother? Let's raise so many people in the house. Nor do they eat dry rice. The real difficulty is actually tolerance. As you said, this big family will inevitably have some bumps, if the head of the house is narrow-minded, then the family will be difficult to integrate, and the family will not be peaceful. If you are generous-hearted, then the family can be united in one place, and the family can last for a long time. It will not disperse. ”
Seeing that the old princess finished speaking, she looked at herself meaningfully, Sanniang hurriedly said, "What grandmother said is true." Sanniang wrote it down, thank you grandmother for the point. ”
The old princess nodded, her face loving: "This is also the reason why I want you to be the family." The second daughter-in-law, her temperament, is just the housewife of a small family, but it is really inappropriate to be the housewife of such a big house. I can teach her anything else, but this two words of qi are the result of years of self-cultivation, and she can learn it if I teach her. This is also why the wealthy families must marry the daughters of the families when they marry their sons-in-law, not for the rich dowry, but because only those families will spend time and energy to cultivate their daughters. What they learn from an early age is how to be a good family. ”
Sanniang listened carefully and nodded in agreement.
The old princess sighed with a wry smile: "Although I said so, I raised a granddaughter like Whelan. This is also because I pay too little attention to her on weekdays, and let her mother lead her to a detour. Now that I think about it, I have to take care of it, and I'm afraid that I can't screw this temperament. ”
Sanniang thought for a while and said, "I heard about the grandmothers who came out of the palace. It has its own set of methods of disciplining people. It's just that sometimes they are afraid of offending the Lord's family, so they don't dare to show it. But I think that if the child is not disciplined well, it will hurt her, after all, even if she suffers some hardships, it is better than marrying in such a daze, and being dragged down by this temperament for a lifetime, maybe it will harm her children and grandchildren. ”
The old princess couldn't help nodding: "You're right, what are you afraid of at this time?" There is a lesson from the past of the Fang family, who would dare to say that it is not a good thing to be strict with the elders? Tomorrow, you will enter the palace with me and go to the Queen Mother to ask for a nurturing grandmother. Huilan's temperament, no matter how strict the family discipline is, if he marries in the future, he may in turn affect the royal family. ”
Sanniang thought, your old man's idea is really right, a woman with the kind of temperament of the county lord of Huilan, it is better to be locked up at home and learn the rules from the strict grandmother. Don't let it out and harm people.
"Alright, you can go back to the courtyard and rest first. I will have to have people collect the account books of the palace, as well as those stewards, I will also knock them through first, and I will hand them over to you when I return from the palace tomorrow. ”
Sanniang got up and saluted and retired.
The old princess thought for a while and said, "Shao'er...... Tell me about it. Grandmother doesn't really want to wronged you, he ......"
Sanniang immediately said: "Grandmother, don't worry, Xianggong is not a person who doesn't understand things, he will understand your hard work." ”
The old princess was relieved: "That's good, that's good." There you go. ”
Sanniang then withdrew.
It's just that as soon as she got out of the old princess's courtyard, her brows furrowed.
Chamberlain? She really doesn't want to be the home of Prince Zhuang's mansion. If it was just her and Xuan Shao's home, she would naturally be willing, and naturally she wouldn't want to hand it over to others, but with the best family of King Zhuang Jun, where is this family so good?
But the old princess was like that, she definitely didn't want to refuse, so she didn't bother to refuse.
In the evening, when Xuan Shao came back, Sanniang told what happened today.
Xuan Shao looked at Sanniang, thought for a while, and said, "If you don't want to be this family, then it's not right, I'll go and tell my grandmother." ”
Sanniang shook her head: "It's just such a little thing, the palace still has a large group of stewards, and I don't really need to do anything." Besides, I don't deserve it, do I want my grandmother to worry about this when she is old? ”
Xuan Shao stroked Sanniang's face: "I just think it...... I've wronged you. ”
Sanniang was happy when she heard this, threw herself into Xuan Shao's arms, rubbed it, and said in a loud voice: "It's good that you know, but you have to treat others well in the future." ”
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Thanks to Zhu Mingla, Zhang Lantern Colorful ZS, Nancao Temple, Yanran Butterfly four children's shoes pink ticket ~
Thank you for the two peace charms of enigmayanxi children's shoes ~ ^^ (to be continued)